Does he like me?

Question

I hate not being able to read men. Please help me. We're coworkers but pretty good friends. And when we are out in a group he seems to pay more attention to me and directs his conversation towards me more.We hang outside of work a lot. He always hold eye contact when we talk. He always "accidentally" touches me. And he doesn't move away when I get close to him. He hugs me a lot. He'll leave comments on things saying "Thats Hot, more like Hott though" on photos. People say we look like we are dating, and I have had people ask me if he is my BF. He told me I should turn 21 sooner (my bday is in may) so we can go out for drinks. He was bummed the other night when he thought I blew him off, but I hadn't. He does make future plans in a way, and says that he really wants to go with me. What are some signs I should be looking for, and is there any direct way I can let him know I like him without saying I LIKE YOU. What are some good flirting moves?

FYI. We do go out. So don't think the idea of drinks is a bad thing. Recently I came back from a vacation and brought him back something for him that he asked me to bring back. And it made him really happy. And the next day after I had given it to him we went out to test it out. We spent a good hour or so together...

I think one of my main issues, is the other friends he has as girls. I dunno. Maybe its a jealousy thing. But I feel he treats them different or talks about them different to his guy friends that is. He never talks about other girls in "that way" to me. So is he trying to make me jealous?

Answer 1

Well for me being a guy and you being an attractive young lady. I can tell you from my point of view that he really likes you allot. Unless he is gay, I would not be worried. All the signs are there, and it just seems like you might be a little unsure of yourself. If your the shy type, and don't want to seem weak for expressing that you like him. Then try asking him what a date with him would be like if you were at age to drink. His answer should convince you on his feelings for you. Next time he touches you try to touch him back. If you get close to him and he does not move then give him a peck on his cheek. I assure you he will be excited that you showed him some affection! Good luck and don't worry.

Answer 2

Sometimes the direct approach is best - just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs.
Behavior
Instructions
•STEP 1: Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question. Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
•STEP 2: Is this person "accidentally" running into you in places where he or she knows you will be, such as at your desk? At the Laundromat on Tuesdays? At your brother's birthday party?
•STEP 3: Make a note if he or she mentions future plans to spend time with you: "That band is coming to town soon. We should really get tickets."
•STEP 4: Spend time alone together. Canceling other plans in order to be with you longer, or not finding excuses to leave, could be a sign of interest.
•STEP 5: Has he or she been calling for random reasons, such as, "I was wondering if you knew what that pizza place down the street is called," followed by, "Are you hungry?"
•STEP 6: Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something - and it's probably not your stamp collection.
•STEP 7: Observe how the person acts around your friends - he or she might be extra friendly to your closest pals for a reason.
Body Language
Instructions
•STEP 1: Sometimes seeing someone you have a crush on results in telltale physiological signs. Does the person in question blush when you look at him or her? His or her sympathetic nervous system is probably going into overdrive. Does he or she have trouble speaking, using jumbled words when talking to you?
•STEP 2: See if the person in question mirrors your motions: When you lean back, he or she leans back; when you put your elbows on the table, he or she does the same.
•STEP 3: Note whether this person sits or stands in the open position - that is, facing you with arms uncrossed. In addition, a woman tends to cross her legs in a man's direction.
•STEP 4: Does he or she move closer to you and/or touch you subtly, such as with a pat of your hand or a touch of your cheek?
•STEP 5: Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away, energetic speech coupled with open hands, and flashing palms.
•STEP 6: Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?

Answer 3

You're almost 21, & you have to ask?
I think he likes you. All of the stuff you described are good indicators that he's really into you.
But taking you out for drinks is the only dating activity that he can think of? Has he never heard of the movies?
There are nice places to go for dinner where you don't need to order alcohol.
Yeah, I'm pretty sure he likes you but he seems to lack imagination. If he wants to date you, why does he feel he needs to wait until you are old enough to drink? There's a problem here, I just know it. I just haven't figured it out yet.
I hope you do before it's too late.

Answer 4

i think hs already made it clear that his into you. since you guys work together invate him to lunch so its just the both of you and not a real date in case something doesn't turn out the way you hope for but by the look of things his into you.if every thing goes nicely tell him you guys shld hang out more if he doesn't ask you out by then.

Answer 5

Next time your just hanging out, grab him by the arm and give him a big wet kiss, everything will be very clear after that.

Answer 6

you are really good at not reading signs...
if you dont ask him out, i will personally come over there and ask him out for you.. and then take all the credit to the bank!!

ima take a loan out for a 1 million with this credit!!

Booma Boom!!

Answer 7

Talk to him and ask him

Answer 8

oh dum girl he realy like u