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ex boyfriend of 1 year ago still remain friend when cross paths, he stears at me alot and when i catch him doing it he looks away with a cute smile.. i still hav feelings & we broke up b/c timing was not right he wanted to travel, & not ready 2 be a realtionnship with me or anyone.. but make an effort talk and compliment me how nice i look but when i dont pay him attention he flirts with other girls & maskes sure i am watching.. i know it's immuture.. but why is he doing it 2 get me jelous?? but when my male mates talk to me he just stears & moves in closer & checks the guy out.. i dont wanna ask him directly b/c u know what they say they will think u r waiting so they will continue to do there own thing...recently i catch his best friend starring at me seening who i was talking 2 what does that mean

2007-01-23 16:03:07 · 2 answers · asked by hi 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

2 answers

Talk to him and ask him

2007-01-23 16:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0 0

Do you have an ex that you're still interested in, but you're unsure if he's still interested? Well, you can find out here.
Steps
1.Talk to him, and if he listens to you without interrupting, and makes little comments about it, he may be interested.
2.Wear new clothes around him and see if he makes any comments like 'Nice shirt, is it new?'. Actually any compliments are good.
3.Steer the discussion to the stubject of your breakup. Does he ever say things like, 'What was I thinking?', (referring to the time you guys broke up), or, 'Yea...', and sounds distracted by remembering the fact you aren't together anymore? If so, then that's a sign he probably still likes you.
4.See if he calls you a lot just to say "hi". This is a sure sign of interest. If he told you he'd call you at a certain time, but he doesn't, he might call you at a different time, and start explaining why he didn't call you at the time he said he would.
5.Talk about other guys and see how much interest he takes. If he asks you a lot who you like, or if he gets really quiet, he might be jealous. If he asks your friend questions about who you are interested in now, if you talk about him, or other questions like that, he most likely want you back.
6.Ask him who he likes, and if he doesn't respond, doesn't want to tell you, or immediately changes the subject, it's probably you.
7.Look at him in his eyes, and if he looks back (for more than 2 seconds), that's another way to tell.
8.Flirt with him, but not too much, and see if he flirts back. Start a 'Fight', by pushing him or bumping into him, and if he hits back, or tries to get a quick feel on you, he probably likes you.
Tips
•Don't try too hard to make him like you. You can't make someone like you.
•Just act like you always did, even before you went out, and when you were going out. Guys don't like their exes changing when they know they're not like that.
•Try to change up your style a little bit (like different hair, clothes, makeup, perfume, etc.).
•Be polite.
•Flirt a little bit, but not too much, or he'll think you're weird.
•Call him at least every other day, but not too much, you'll make yourself look like a stalker.
•Ask his friends who he likes.
•Ask him who he likes.
Warnings
•Don't be too straightforward, you'll seem desperate and guys don't like that.
•Don't use profanity. Especially if you didn't when you went out with him, and it won't seem like you.
•Don't change too much, he already liked you for who you were if he really liked you when you went out.
•Don't try to hook him up with your friends.
•Don't make up lies to try and make yourself seem like every guy you meet likes you since you two broke up.
•Don't be mean to him.
•Don't talk about anything bad that happened when you went out with him, it'll make him remember all those bad times, and he won't want to go back out with you if there's a chance to.
•Just be yourself, don't pretend to be something you're not.

2007-01-24 03:53:24 · answer #2 · answered by Christine 3 · 0 0

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