Well me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while, i cant see she wants to take it to the next level--she is constanly looking at condoms--how do i say that im okay with it but have a few problems with it without seeming to commanding and overpowering
2007-01-23 16:46:46 · 11 answers · asked by J-man1037 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well the next time you see herlooking at them say "do you wanna open one of them up so we can make good use of it". like make it sound sweet and stuff or just be real about it not to cocky or watever. being real with her about it would be the best advise i could give you. well good luck i hope you find the right words to say.
2007-01-23 16:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by tina2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that there is anything commanding or overpowering about you communicating with your partner about having doubts about sex. I think that it is both of your choice and having good communication is key. It does change everything and if you both arent fully into it there will be problems down the road. My best advice would be to be honest with her and tell her what those fears are, most likely she is having the same fears.
Good Luck!
2007-01-23 16:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by Sam s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you have to be honest with her and with your self . honesty is the best policy .... and second like someone else said if you are not comfertable talking about se* with her then you are not ready to do the deed yet ............... and third if she likes you and you like her that is a start .............. take it from me you should wait till you are both in love i know what it feels like to be hurt so just remember becareful and talk but what ever you deside then be safe as well ok good luck and just tell her the truth if you want to then fine tell her if you don't want to then tell her that as well
2007-01-23 16:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by shannon l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty, honesty and more honesty. You don't have to be rude about, just broach the subject with her. Let her know that you are ready if she is but please don't make her feel like she has to or loose you. Even if she does it just for that, you will both walk away feeling empty.
2007-01-23 16:54:24 · answer #4 · answered by raspberryflavr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if its the first time youre gonna make it, i think you should take it slow 1st and not recklessly. and maybe you two should have an open take first to see if either of you is not yet ready.
2007-01-23 16:54:34 · answer #5 · answered by kazze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you ! Too many girls are setteling for lust and not love .
Time is on your side and tell her you have plenty of time for that .
Good Luck
2007-01-23 16:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not comfortable enough with your girlfriend to talk about sex, then you really aren't ready to be having sex with each other.
2007-01-23 16:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure shes a female..have you seen her vagina?? I would becarful dude
2007-01-23 16:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by Str8 Ballin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is a turn-girl u know is strange go for her background if i were u
2007-01-23 16:55:11 · answer #9 · answered by combs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont respond to her subtle hints
ask yourself WHY?
maybe she is the wrong girl?
2007-01-23 16:51:10 · answer #10 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋