2007-01-23 16:39:54 · 17 answers · asked by sosweet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry!! The best stories of a relationship are usually ones where something didn't go perfectly. First off, relax. Take a deep breath. The thing, I know it sounds weird, but one of the two people has to keep their eyes open. Sounds weird and goofy, but if you don't, someone or both are going to miss and you're going to end up with a slobber kiss. Make sure you have chap stick and moist lips. Try eating fruit or gum. Nothing is worse than a first kiss with bad breath. Move is slowly, kinda say, hey, you look good tonight and inch closer. Go in and see how he reacts. Press your lips against his gently and wait for him to push back. All you need is one electrical charge and after that, its all natural. Use your tongue, run your hands through his hair, wrap your arms around his neck. whatever floats your boat.
2007-01-23 16:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by Janet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are thinking about it too much. More than likely he doesn't know either. You will be learning together.
And if he does happen to know how already; he'll definitely be patient enough to show you how. Its what he wants too, remember.
If there is a mistake, think of it as a future story you can laugh about with friends when you are older.
It does come naturally, but if it makes you feel better this is usually what happens. If you are making the initial move, try to go slowly so he knows whats coming and won't panic. If he panics you are looking at a bumped head probably. Move in slowly and lean your head to the right slightly (studies done on the subject found that for some reason everyone leans to the right, regardless of being predominantly right- or left-handed). Keep your lips slightly apart and don't press into a pucker (a pucker suggests you want a close-mouthed kiss like you'd give Auntie at the Thanksgiving get-together). Then lean in when he does and the rest should just occur.
2007-01-23 16:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, the guy should lean in to kiss you. keep your eyes open just a smidge so you can see where you are going, but once you get there close your eyes, it's not polite to stare! lol. It's a hard thing to teach over the computer. I was really scared about my first kiss, because I didn't know how, but I let the guy take controll and I followed his lead, and once we were done, he asked if I had kissed a lot of guys. (it was one with toungue and everything, my first kiss) I guess I'm only as good as the guy I'm kissin'. If he doesn't put out any toungue I don't, if he gives a little I give a little. I'd worry about pushing him too far, if he don't give you any toungue then keep it dry. don't let him think you are desperate and easy. Make sure your breath is fresh too.
2007-01-23 16:53:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
both one of you're somewhat shy, in which case he needs some help so as that quickly he can step up and be a guy and start up the kiss. Anway, once you're cuddling, with as few human beings there as feasible (none will be perfect), purely lean in and brush your nostril and cheek adversarial to his face and goin for it. he will take the lead then. also, he would purely be retaining he no longer likes you to keep face in case you no longer like him. he's attempting to keep issues open through retaining he's interested in you, and under no circumstances open himself to rejection through retaining he dosen't like you. yet he does. So help him out and follow the learning. good success.
2016-10-16 00:43:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax your lips, let him come towards you about 60% of the way then plant your lips on his. Maybe pull back for a few seconds then go in for some more and surprise him with a little tongue action. Also, try different things like biting down on his tongue but don't bite through it. He might like it. I know I do. Try licking his lips, as well. It's kinda kinky but fun. Good luck.
2007-01-23 16:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by Russell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no need to be afraid. Just close your eyes, take your lips close to the lips of the guy, and leave the rest to the guy. He will do it and he will teach you. Lucky you are a girl
2007-01-23 16:43:55 · answer #6 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow thats a new one. Slowly and softly crab his chin turn his face towards yours and softly press your lips against his and he should be helping out if he likes ya by know.Good luck
2007-01-23 16:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by bluemoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know this totally sucks! but you kinda have to go for it. you two will just have to work together to make you better. no one is perfect at first. and everyone has there own style. so i mean just go for it and work with it.
good luck
2007-01-23 16:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Sunshine ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be afraid when it happens everything comes natural. I know it's hard not to be nervous but just be yourself and relax and when it happens you will be ready and everything will be ok.
2007-01-23 16:43:50 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like riding a bike...or some such thing. You start of slowly and go from there.
2007-01-23 16:42:43 · answer #10 · answered by dogmatitans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋