My boyfriend goes to university in the town where i live, but goes home for the summer(4 months). Last summer he drove a female friend home from work every night..and called her almost every day.. I should also mention he didn't even call me every day..and was often angry and mean to me (calling me names and getting mad over nothing) and he didnt come to visit me as he did previous summers.. I've found out that he still calls her..and it makes me uncomfortable. He swears that they are just friends, and gets angry with me if I try to talk about it.Am I just being jealous and insecure?
2007-01-23 16:53:19 · 15 answers · asked by joan r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Read what you just typed girl. No... this guy is obviously into this girl definitely more than just a "friendly" way. She probably likes him too. If he gets angry when you're trying to talk to him to let him know how you feel, then he doesn't care about you. If he cared he would listen to what you have to say and would stop spending so much time with her and talking to her and he would also start calling you and seeing you... just doing anything to make you happy because you're his girlfriend. I suggest you try talking to him about it again. If he still doesn't want to talk then you should definitely break up with him. You don't deserve to be with a guy that treats you like that.
2007-01-23 17:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by Beautiful♥Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a guy's point of view.. if i would be driving some 1 and then i call her almost every night then something happened in the car.I dont really like the part that the doesnt visit you like he used to.
Just a little tip.... there are more fishes in the sea and that are willing to make you happy :) Good luck and i wish the best for you
2007-01-24 01:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by jossu_candelario 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're being insecure. I'd feel the same way you would if I was in your position. He should call you everyday, you're his girlfriend. And the ordasity of him getting mad at you!!! You need a new boyfriend, one who will love and appreciate you and put you first. My fiancee would never, ever put any other woman over me. He calls me every day and we live together so for your boyfriend to not call you when he's far away is not right. I don't think your being jealous and insecure, you're being a girlfriend. You deserve better.
2007-01-24 01:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by ladystarrchild107 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually stepping back for the situation helps. look at it from another persons point of view. if you still see it as you do now i would have to go with your gut instincts. but if you think your over reacting then just let it slide. it is possible for a guy to be just friends with a girl. and still have a girlfriend. but at the moment it does seem like there somthing going on between them. and if hes mean to you and calls you names you shouldnt stay anyways! no one deserves a person that treats them like crap!
2007-01-24 01:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Sunshine ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb, he is on the defensive because he was not honest with you. Don't wait to catch him, he is obviously good at hiding it. He is having some kind of relationship with her and he doesn't want to let it go. He cannot have his cake and eat it too. You deserve better than that and you know it, this is your confirmation call, take care of you, not him. good luck
2007-01-24 00:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by raspberryflavr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's supposed to be your boyfriend, and be calling you and visiting you. If instead he's spending all his time and energy on this other girl, something is definitely going on. I suggest you sit him down and talk to him about how you feel, and if he still won't listen, break it off with him.
2007-01-24 00:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by silver.rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. His anger is a signal that things aren't right. If he wont talk about it, there is a problem. Nothing may be going on right now, but that doesn't mean he wouldn't like something to happen.
2007-01-24 01:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on and give him a tast of it .
2007-01-24 00:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break it off, he is leaving you on the shelf for when he feels like it and is seeing other girls.
2007-01-24 00:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after all you just said....why are you still wondering? WAKE UP!!
2007-01-24 00:58:31 · answer #10 · answered by kittytie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋