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i was dating this girl and talked everyday, had a lot of fun and never argued. recently she asked me to give her space though. it's been 5 days now...how much longer should i wait? and then should i text her or something? i was thinking like "just want to say hi, have a good day" or something? please help bc i hurts to wait really miss her thanks!

2007-01-23 15:45:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Give her a few more days, and then send her an innocent text, like you mentioned. If she responds, and starts dating you again, don't contact her every day. Maybe she feels she's being smothered or your too clingy. Some women are like that, where others really demand the attention. Good luck.

2007-01-23 15:53:28 · answer #1 · answered by Proud to be 59 7 · 0 1

Needing space means yeah, she feels crowded. talking everyday is kind of a big thing, but not if you initiated it everyday. A relationship is give and take and you can't be the one making the phone call everyday. Girls like to feel wanted, but not be obsessed about. Then, its just kinda creepy. Wait. If she does care about you, in a mutual way, she'll call you. I know its going to hurt, but be patient. then again, it might not be meant to be. Wait a little longer and then if she still doesn't respond, call her up and be casual. If it appears that she has moved on, maybe its time you did too.

2007-01-24 00:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by Janet 2 · 0 0

Just let her know that you miss her and hope she's doing well. After 5 days I don't see what it would hurt to pick up the phone and say hi! If there' a reason why she may want more space or something you should be able to atleast know why? If it was something you did, a family problem or who knows what??? Good Luck!

2007-01-23 23:52:50 · answer #3 · answered by CandyGirl 3 · 0 1

I think texting her that brief message would be fine, but then the ball is in her court. If she wants to contact you, she will. Otherwise, she is just blowing you off and you shouldn't waste any more efforts on her.

Unfortunately, sometimes girls have a hard time telling someone they just aren't interested, so the pull the "give me space" thing when they really mean "it's over". So give her a chance to reply, and if you don't hear back from her soon, move on.

2007-01-23 23:51:10 · answer #4 · answered by dancin thru life 3 · 0 1

You know what would be so romantic is to just leave her like this really awesome postacrd with something written really sweet like these five days have been the worst days of my life cause I haven't been with you. I hope these days don't continue because it is like a cruel torture. But if it is what makes you happy and you want space then I hope this shows you how much I love you. But if the girl wanted space because of something you did don't do it. But if she just wanted space cause of something that is happening like in her family or something then go for it. but just do what you think is best.

2007-01-23 23:55:35 · answer #5 · answered by Suya 4 · 0 1

unfortunately when a chick wants space it usually means that something came up or she's just not feelin it anymore. You could try texting to say hi, but it she gives the cold shoulder or blows you off at all, ditch her. She not looking for space so much as an exit.

2007-01-23 23:51:57 · answer #6 · answered by mainebabe03 1 · 0 1

Call her and ask her...tell her that you understand she needs her space, but it's not fair to just leave you hanging wondering when or if you should contact her. If she hasn't called you in this amount of time...be prepared because there is a good chance that she's interested in moving on. If she tells you that when she's ready she'll call you, be smart and move on, you can't wait forever. Good Luck.

2007-01-23 23:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by little_chipmunk 4 · 0 1

Give her 2 more days. Just 2. Then call or text her.

2007-01-23 23:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

you should talk to her not 24/7 lol just a lil give her her girl time you know give her some space to catch up wit her friends ok wait a lil longer sweetie and it'll ALL work out trust me kk bye

2007-01-23 23:49:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

DONT text or call her. stay away from her and give her her space. you dont want to seem clingy. let her make the first move. make it seem like you arent interested and if she doesnt want to be with you then thats perfectly fine with you. give her a few more days and if you dont hear from her, move on.

2007-01-23 23:51:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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