I have came to the conclusion i am just to nice! Everyone especially the kids in my Senior class just run all over me! and around, on top, to the side etc, but i dont know how to tell them the n word..okay ill say it... No ..sheesh see how hard that was? I love being nice to people but i dont like to be taken advantage of, is there some way i can do both? Or maybe you could show me a nice insult? But dont use me as a demostration, im sensitive.....lol...seriously though if you can help thanks!
2007-01-23 15:50:05 · 4 answers · asked by nessa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Whats next? " Now I'm to mean how do I be nice agian?", HA, a couple of old cliches come to mind here. "You can't have your cake and eat it too". Also, "you can't have it both ways" at least not yet. Some people that are to niiiiiiiice, like females, make me want to puke! Where men that are to niiiiiice, I just want to punch them in the face!! Sheeesh see how easy that was!! That's the first lesson in the art of meanness. You have to be true to yourself. OK, now you want to be this person that is nice to every freaking thing on this planet including poisnous, people, snakes and spiders. Me too, in a since, but if I get bit by one of them I kill them, right? Except the person I just punch them in the face, suck out the venom and move on. How am I doing so far? As far as the people that take advantage of you what do you expect, when you roll around actting like Miss Manners on steriods! Are you nice to axe murders?, No! well, hell you might be. It is common amongst the bugger eating moron crowd of High School kids you see everyday, for them to either take advantage of you or pick on you because they are not real people yet. So next time one of your female friends that well, is only your friend when nobdy else wants to help her walks up to you and asks for help, punch her in the face. Also the next time one of your idiot male friends, "at that age 99% are idiots" comes to you for whatever, puke on him. Then after that ask them nicely "what was it you wanted" see you were nice too. TaDaaaa see you can have it both ways!! Next lesson how to scare people that are mean to you. I'll give you a hin't. you don't pray for them
I never read it and probably don't need to. Don't get me wrong I love to read, but there probably is nothing in there I haven't read or herd. I stay in my own world and the rest of you are just renting space. I'm not trying sound selfish you just have to find some ballance in your life, no matter how much you think it sucks. You can't let your's or other peoples little problems dictate how you want to live your life. One side of me is the hard *** that has fun messing with everybody. The other side is my soft side the one where the emotional stuff brings me back to earth. In the middle is the pearl. That's the best part that makes the most since, that most people don't see except the ones I love. I always try to find the positive in the negative. But I like to have fun finding the negative in the positive,just to keep people grounded. That is my stupid make a joke about life side. The spell check wasn't working so don't be to harsh. The little arrows keep going around in circles and won't stop. Probably trying to tell me something.
2007-01-24 05:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to learn something about being a girl. You have the ability to say whatever you want about someone as long as they are at least five feet away from you and they will never know you said it. This is called gossip and it is the basis of being a school girl. Bare in mind that gossiping about the faults of others is the best way to make sure your faults are less relevant.
Also bare in mind that you need to act just like the people around you. If you find yourself in a situation where two different groups you have previously affiliated yourself with approaching you and do not know which one to act like just remember: The group with the most money is better. Look at their clothes and belongings, the more logos you see, the more expensive the item. That's your group!
2007-01-24 00:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by Lucky Mesmer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I read your question, I though someone had written my high school bio. It is amazingly close to my personality. Anyway, it is very possible for you to remain the nice person you are and not be taken advantage of. The secrets are:
1.Know that you are a nice person and weather or not you have to say no, you still are a nice person.
2.If you want to be perceived as a nice person, you need to earn respect by saying ,no when it is appropriate. This is just a case of being assertive and true to yourself.
3. I have made it a lifelong game that I really, really enjoy to tactfully reveal to a person to go to he11 in such a way that he actually looks forward to the trip.
2007-01-24 10:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can start by saying I don't take any crap from you or any body else
2007-01-24 07:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by peg42857 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋