does he really love me??? plz help?

Question

hi pals
i m madly in love with a guy from past 3 years we r from same place
wen i told him about my love he was happy to accept it
he always says that he loves me but in these 3 years he met me only for 4 times he always tells me that he will call me ut never calls.he never fulfils any comitment. and finds reasons to fight with me.
still i love him but i m not able to understand that he really loves me or not????plz tell me wat shall i do

Answer 1

You dont deserve this. This isnt love. Find someone who will really love you. If this guy really does love you he won't be able to stand not seeing you for a long time... neither could you. Be honest to yourself. You know its not right... Saul Bellow once said... "A great deal of intelligence can be invested in ignorance when the need for illusion is deep." You don't need this. You deserve to know and feel what real love is... YOu deserve to be happy.

Answer 2

i fell in love with a boy. we were going out for three years. once he started talking to other girls (as friends), he changed sooooo much. it wasn't the person that i fell in love with. we just broke up a week ago. i saw pics on his myspace. i got jealous even though we weren't going out anymore. you should make sure that the person that you are talking about really means that he loves you. you can tell if he thinks about you all the time, calls you every minute of the day, and wants to be with you rather then his freinds. i say that he is just all sweet talk. he may like you a lot but love is such a strong word. love can lead to many things. i always found reasons to fight with him also. it's not because you are getting mad over nothing, it's because he does things wrong. guys don't get how emotional we can get. i say that you hang out with him a couple of times first before you do anything serious with him. trust is the biggest issue. if you can't trust him even a little doubt can set the whole relationship off. i've learned that the hard and heartbreaking way. i still cry over him for some reason. i love him bt for the past three years that we were together, i always felt not important. you have to stand your ground. don't give into his sweet talk. My X that i have been talking about said that we were going to get married, have kids, travel the world. So when he said that i was like ok then i guess i can go all the way? Right? i regret it sooooooo much i should have waited until i got married. don't do anything that you will regret. STAND YOUR GROUND!

Answer 3

Four times in three years? No. If someone loves you, they want to be with you a hell of a lot more than that. They also wouldn't find reasons to fight with you either. I would move on. My fiance and I love each other so much that we are moving to be together. We live in different states, but we make sure we see each other every other weekend until we do move together and get married. I think that effort shows a lot more love. Your guy either has a bad way of showing it which you need to talk to him about or he does not.

Answer 4

if he loves you, he'd want to spend more time with you. 3 years and you both merely met 4 times? Is this love? I'd say NO. Sorry i think he's just yet another player.

Answer 5

NO , HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU , CAUSE YOU ARE WAY BETTER THAN HE EVER WILL BE ..YOU HAVE PUT MORE INTO THE RELATIONSHIP AND HE HAS DONE NOTHING , SERIOUSLY ..IT'S TIME TO MOVE ON , TRUST ME , BELIEVE IN JESUS AND SOME SWEET GUY WILL COME YOUR WAY..GOOD LUCK!

Answer 6

sounds like you're his booty call, if that's all you want then you are fine, but if you want more, you might want to try and talk to him about being together.

Answer 7

back off, and move on. if he really loved you- he'd be right next to you. sorry...