I've been with this guy...many times (please don't tell me that I should get rid of him. If I could do that, I would) and we've finally gotten "back together" but not exactly. At the moment we're more in a "friends with benefits" type thing but we've always had this "committed non relationship, relationship" thing. I don't know, it's REALLY hard to explain. But recently, I figured out (finally) just how much I really do love this guy. How do I tell him I'm ready to take things to the next level and really be together?
2007-01-23 15:45:47 · 12 answers · asked by silence_within_chaos 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By no means is the whole "taking it to the next level" thing sexual!
2007-01-23 15:52:21 · update #1
try to spend more time with him, ask him over more, work into being together more before you make any "Lasting" commitment.
2007-01-23 15:51:08 · answer #1 · answered by Jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be open and honest with him about your feelings. If you mean a lot to him then he will be willing to give up the 'friends with benefits' situation and just be with you. Don't be a fool...if your on two different levels then you really need to move on (yes, I know it's hard) so that you can be happy because if he doesn't feel the same way you'll be miserable. Good Luck.
2007-01-23 15:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by little_chipmunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a big kiss and a hug and tell him about the way you feel. You'll likely get a good responce from him.
2007-01-23 15:49:43 · answer #3 · answered by Nate H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him at a fancy restaurant (where he pays) so he can seem like it was worth it. and tell him. i would love to hear that from a girl i like. also u might want to try anal sex. just in case u want to really make things interesting
2007-01-23 15:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to find out if he has any of the same fealings and you wont by beating around the bush.
2007-01-23 15:51:22 · answer #5 · answered by Fire's Shaddow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eye contact. Open exchanges of dialogue. Fun times together. If that doesn't do it, he's a moron.
2007-01-23 15:49:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him... I doubt any guy would be unwilling to hear that... unless you're a freak then I would keep your distance.
2007-01-23 15:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by Suya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him 2 move in wid u or marry u if u wanna go that far
2007-01-23 15:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST SIT DOWN , WRITE THEM A LETTER AND LET HIM KNOW YOUR FEELINGS , "SAY , I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW , IF YOUR READY FOR US TO DO THIS OR TO DO THAT " FOR EXAMPLE : WRITE A LETTER STATING , ARE YOU READY TO COMMIT TO ONE ANOTHER IN A RELATIONSHIP OR ARE YOU READY TO GET MARRIED ..SOMETHING LIKE THAT!
2007-01-23 15:56:34 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you want more then what you have now. Tell him how you feel about him.
2007-01-23 16:00:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋