Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

He has a bitchy, lieing ex wife and 3 kids. We dont live together anymore because of financial problems at home so we are both back at our parents house. He says he doesnt forgive me yet for moving out without talking to him about it. But I want to get back with him and move back in together and work things out. What should I do? We go out on dates still and hang out still but there are still problems. HELP ME

2007-01-22 06:00:03 · 4 answers · asked by c.a_durham 2 in Singles & Dating

a broken heart a broken soul
needing somethign to makeit hole
needing tears tears of the rain
needing somethign to take away my pain
needing love need it so much
my heart needs a afeeling of my lovers touch

no time for me no time at all
in behind everyone else i fall
i crash and burn and fall from high
as people take away my sky
i am but a side plate somnethign to be seen
somethign with a heart but all peopel do is scream
so all i say is im ripping at the seems
as my breaking heart is seen as my breaking heart screams

as i come to an end as my heart just stops
as it sinks to bottom sinks liek a rock
as i look at them and ask myself why
i look and i reach tryign to grab my sky
i stretch out far i stretch out hard
but i pull back in pain with my heart so so scarred
so what do i do what can be seen
or shoudl i just sit in teh backround never knowing.... never seen

2007-01-22 05:59:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to take my bf away for a weekend of pampering. he has had a tough time of it at work and has been so good to me recently that i thought i would treat him. any hotel suggestions?

2007-01-22 05:59:29 · 6 answers · asked by queenjoef 2 in Singles & Dating

[previous question :there is this girl in my class who is one of my best friends. I like her as a friend and a little more. Today when we were in a lesson I looked at her and she was looking at me we stared at each other for 5-10 seconds then turned away.]

I want to ask that girl out. I am 13 and need help.
Could you please email me on basher77@hotmail.co.uk

2007-01-22 05:59:20 · 4 answers · asked by basher88888888 1 in Singles & Dating

Last year my Dad cheated on my Mum and got caught. He stayed in our house for 8 months before he moved out into a flat 5 months ago. He says this is because he wants to "test the waters" of his and my mum's relationship before coming back. I am sceptical as often he goes out and doesn't answer his phone. He will not answer any questions about the affair or his business but he insists on coming back home 3/4 days a week. My mum and I now have the dilemma, can we ever trust him again? Do we wait until he has made up his mind to come back again or to leave us completely? When my mum suggests she will move on with her life and wants him to stop coming he gets extremely upset and tries to win her round, making promises and even threats that she will "suffer the consequences" of her decision. Seeing as he is my father my natural inclination is to trust him, and he is a good father and husband (he has been a lot better with us since the affair, but is this guilt?) What are your views?

2007-01-22 05:59:00 · 14 answers · asked by jospinelli 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend live 2 hours drive apart and im finding it so hard cos i miss him so much, we get to see each other once every 1-2 wks.
r u in a long distance relationship? how do u cope?

2007-01-22 05:58:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hauna (my enemy) has been to my youth group (last friday) and she likes Ross (my crush of 3 yrs.)Well they dont really know each other, but they flirted cuz they think each other is hot. Well she is fake and I told him that. She is coming back friday and I dont want Ross to get hurt. What should I do?

2007-01-22 05:58:36 · 7 answers · asked by Renae 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 25 and would like to serve a Sangria along with a traditional punch at my 2pm wedding. The problem is that my parents attend a traditional Baptist church, the church I grew up in. The reception will be at a different location not the church.
I was looking for some more mature opinions on the matter.

2007-01-22 05:58:07 · 7 answers · asked by McRach 3 in Weddings

why does every1 think that "angel" as a nickname is refered to a girl???? like seriously i have made angel:of:darkness my nickname 4 aslong as i'v playd games!!!!

2007-01-22 05:57:17 · 8 answers · asked by Ang3l_Of_Darkn3ss 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and myself have been dating for a while now. He doesnt seem to lie good. But sometimes its hard for me to tell. Lets just say he has sticky fingers, took something of mine before, and others here and there. He has lied to me before about how many girls he had been with. When we first started dating it was one. Now its like 3 other girls... I trip him up a lot. THats the only way I can get the truth. Sooo... A while back he gave me his pass code to his voicemail. And so lastnight I was up late I had been feeling upset all day with him. So I checked his voicemail. I dont normally do this, Something just didnt feel right.

A girls voice was on his saved messages. She said " hellooo" flirty like, I know a helloo is much to go on here, but it is for me. Never heard that voice before. He dont have any girlfriends, never has... lol

Lastnight there was a piece of paper with numbers on it with no names....

Girls what would you do to figure this out?

Suggestions?

2007-01-22 05:56:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me & my GF are going for quite a long time but the thing is now i wana leave my GF.
Wana leave her coz she seems to be having problems with me getting physical (Not talking abt sex).
She doesnt react properly when she gets close, while kissing etc.. i can clearly see tht she is not comfortable in getting physical contact with me.
Rest, she is good & caring and most of all i really luv her.

But, i think is physical closeness is equally important & i am sure i can never get this from her.
So shall i leave her & save ourselves from future hurt?

Talked with her abt issue - No use. Also, given lot of time 2her 2 adjust - No use

She also dont have any past probs or anything tht sort of.....

2007-01-22 05:56:57 · 18 answers · asked by Romps 2 in Singles & Dating

Can an older man and younger woman have a long relationship. Why and why not?

2007-01-22 05:56:46 · 18 answers · asked by Samari's Dad 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 36-24-36 , but that is just my forearm , neck and thigh, I was born with a silver shovel in my mouth, when I stepped on the scale to measure my weight it says to be continued. When I wear yellow raincoat, people run after me and call me “Taxi!”
Even blind children get scared of me. My face look like caught on fire and picked out with a fork, I tried to join ugly contest but they said “sorry no professionals” trying to get a guy talk to me is far difficult since even rice krispies don’t talk to me.
So how can I get a boy friend?

2007-01-22 05:56:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've kissed this girl and it was amazing. Whenever we start kissing, we can never stop and once kissed for 3 hours. She said that kissing tells alot about how a person is in bed etc. That was true with her. I mean I've kissed countless girls but I've never felt this way when I kiss her. What do you think about kissing?

2007-01-22 05:56:21 · 4 answers · asked by tarzan428 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex called me cause he wanted to come visit i told him that i was moving which i am. He than asked me how my sex life was with my new b/f and i wouldn't answer he kept asking than he started screaming "is he better than me c'mon you can tell me" and i told him it was none of his business. everytime he calls me he calls me on a different number so i don't know who it is. He wants me to take him his stuff{lives 8 hours away} but i won't do it cause i don't know what he will do. i don't trust him and i just want him to leave me alone. he was abusive and started acting crazy while we were dating he pushed my daughter down of the ground to make her cry than picked her up when i turned around in so he would look like the hero. My daughter was scared of him and so was i that is why i kicked him out. Than after he left he was harassing me and than it stopped i don't know where he is but i am scared he might come back and hurt us. can i get a restaining order if i don't know where he is??

2007-01-22 05:56:11 · 3 answers · asked by ♥ Ash ♥ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

For the past 2 months my boyfriend and I have been having a lot of issues. One day it would be really great between us and the next it would be very unstable. With that being said and without going into all the details. The day after chistmas we had a very bad day and for the first time he mentioned leaving. Well the next day while I was at work he got up and started packing. By the time I returned home he was 90% packed, I didnt have a clue all day long. So when I asked what was going on he was able to get about 3 words out and then started balling like a baby. (In the 2 years i have known this guy I never saw him cry.) I myself was in shocked and in a defensive mood. We shood there for 1 hour while I tried to wrap my head around what was going on and the whole time he was crying. It was a civil as they get break ups with no yelling or screaming. But What I dont get is he was the one leaving but he was the one crying and wanting a hug before we parted? Can any one explain why?

2007-01-22 05:54:50 · 4 answers · asked by loststarr101 1 in Singles & Dating

why are men getting sex-ployted?
doing anything for sex or the promise of sex?

families are getting broken and women are extorting
themselves for wealth etc..everything except for love.

men need to stop spoiling women!
comments are welcome!

2007-01-22 05:54:25 · 13 answers · asked by canuckclint 3 in Singles & Dating

what little hints, or questions can i ask to find out without giving away what im trying to do? Whether its little things or big things. how can i find out if my girlfriend is a freak?

2007-01-22 05:54:05 · 9 answers · asked by Tommy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

today my son told me that my mother took his allowance he had saved, about 60 dollars. He said she took it to pay the water bill that had been not payed for 3 months!
She is 65 years old and my husband and I moved in and took over paying all the bills and house payments.
I asked my husband about the water bill not being payed, and he told me, and showed me all the reciepts! Nothing has even been paid late! Everything is all payed on time, and we have been supporting her ever since my father passed away 8 years ago.
She is not an invalid, and could get a part time job at least, but
she pays nothing at all! My father had insurance so she gets alot of money from that, and monthly money from the government because my dad was in the army for a very long time. She gets survivor benefits also,but still tells my son to give her money, but not to tell me or my husband about it. My son is a child! He saved up his money so that he could buy what he wants. Do you think this is fair?!

2007-01-22 05:53:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i'm 20 and i'm dating a guys who is 32, we've been on 4 dates and on the 4th date he tried to kiss me on the cheek then on the mouth, i pushed him away and he asked why, he is my first date, first boy and well.... first guy; and i don't think i'm ready for that yet. i've known him for 3 weeks now but i still don't have that kind of feeling for him is it too early to tell, to kiss, to do WHAT!

I REALLY NEED HELP

can some one answer my question ASAP?!

2007-01-22 05:53:23 · 18 answers · asked by lovebug 1 in Singles & Dating

it annoys me i am a single parent and this kid is always asking and really fat, i just had to get him out the kitchen cos he kept asking for stuff, my son says hes a greedy pig he,s really fat for his age as well

2007-01-22 05:53:20 · 15 answers · asked by denise g 2 in Friends

I am having a June wedding but would like to have a winter theme...does anyone have any ideas for the reception?

2007-01-22 05:53:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

In your experience what types of women are prone to extramarital affairs and what types of men are prone to extramarital affairs? In your experience, are more attractive people prone to cheat more often in marriage or do unattractive people cheat more? Are people that are abused as children, more prone to cheat?

2007-01-22 05:52:39 · 13 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok my mom doesn't like black people and neither does the rest of my family. i guess mainly because they were all raised were there were none and i was raised where all there is is black people and i love them to death. well i started dating this black guy and he is my world he is the best person i have ever met in my entire life and i love him so so so so so much! he has always been there for me and i know he will always be there for me. he knows i love him and i know he loves me but my mom won't let us be together. His mom loves me to death but my mom doesn't see it that way. She told me that if she ever finds out i'm dating a black guy she will send me to an all girls school in florida. I only have a 10 months until i can legally move out and i love bryan more than anything in this world i have no idea where i would be with out him! Please help me! what should i do.....my mom or my world.
a little more info on my family. i have always been the outcast and they have never wanted me

2007-01-22 05:52:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Today, many couples are together and do not keep their relationships and make always fight instead loves. Sometimes, they make terrible fights and use bad words to each other. So, what is important in relations: Make love or war, respect or bad words, cheating or trust etc..

2007-01-22 05:51:43 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Im really nervous she wants to do this at a hotel? I think I will say NO

2007-01-22 05:51:30 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i ve been texting this guy and i like him. i think he likes me too but i want to go on a date with him. should i wait and let him ask or should i ask him? ifyes, what is the perfecttext message to send him? thanks for your help.

2007-01-22 05:50:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i went on this cruise, and met this guy. he was really nice and we hung out a lot, but i never really had an interest in him, until the 4th night. that night we just hung out me and him the entire night laying down and talking. he was really sweet, and i knew that i'd prob start liking him. we were talking about everything, and the topic of me being a virgin came up. i told him i was a virgin, and he didn't believe me. he wasn't a virgin, but he told me i should really wait for someone i like, and then he said "and it's not going to be me." by the end of the night we ended up making out, and he slept over my room, and he even asked me if the next night we were gonna hang out. the next night he was in the casino, so my friend went to go get him from the casino to hang out. sure enough, he wanted to and came within 10 minutes(meanwhile he had been winning a lot of money), and he came to hang out. we went to his room, and we were hooking up and everything led to sex happening naturally, he didn't ask me flat out, and it happened the way i wanted it to, in the moment. when he was putting the condom on however, i asked him what he was doing, and he said "nothing"..i made sure he had a condom on, and he was really gentle, but he didn't talk much. at one point i asked him if he still had the condom on, and he let me feel to make sure it was still on. after we had sex, we went to the casino, and then i left to go to my room to lay down. he said he'd come back to hang out, but i didn't expect him to really. sure enough, he came knocking on my door to spend the night. the next night he had been looking for me, and he thought i was with another guy,so he got upset, and didn't hang out with me for two nights. by the 8th night we met up eventually..and i explained to him that i wasn't with another guy, and we ended up hanging out the whole entire night, me, my friend, and him. he kept saying how i was his girlfriend on the cruise, and that i would be his girlfriend if we lived in the same place. it just so happened i was going to college where he lived in about a year, and he knew that. that night we were hooking up again, and everything led to sex, and this time was even better. he said to me "you said you were a virgin right"..so i said "you remember what happened the other night right?"..and he was like "yeah, we had sex"..so i guess he was asking to be reassured that i was a virgin before him? then we were doing it for a long time, and he was talking a lot more, and physically helping me out, and he constantly asked me if i was alright, and that i need to tell him when to stop or when it hurts. i was in a lot of pain, so he suggested taking the condom off to see if it felt any better, it felt a lot better and it was only for 2 seconds, but he did say to me "the only thing is..if we take the condom off you might have to give me head"..well..i didn't end up giving him head, because i didn't want to. that night he slept over again, and we had plans to hang out the whole entire day the next day. the last night, we hung out the whole night..and then he kissed me on the lips goodbye. we exchanged myspaces and aim screen names, and after the cruise he commented me right away. we had talked back and forth for awhile..and at one point i thought he was avoiding me..so i wrote him a letter saying if you don't write back then i know you don't want anything to do with me, but he did write back, so that showed me that he cared. i ended up surprising him and visiting him one day, and he was really happy to see me. he told me i need to call next time so we can hang out..and he wanted to make sure i was definitely still coming to college near him. we talked for awhile, and then i had to leave..so he kissed me on the lips goodbye, and wrote to me about a week later asking me how my trip was, and telling me to call him next time.

1.does it sound like he liked me a lot?
2.why would he ask me if i was a virgin when he knew i was already?
3.why did i need to give head if he didn't have a condom on?
4. why did he come back after sex the first time to come lay with me?

2007-01-22 05:50:46 · 20 answers · asked by rachel a 1 in Singles & Dating

well we have ben going out sens 2006 so we desided to go out no or firs date by ourselfs and im in carge of chosing the place we eat .

2007-01-22 05:50:28 · 6 answers · asked by thayng 1 in Singles & Dating

How do I apologize to my husband. I assumed that he was cheating and was wrong. It was proven to me that he was just talking to a friend of his that was counseling him on his fears of becoming a father. The perfume that I smelled was from the guys girlfriend. She happened to spray it with him in the room and some got on him.
I have told him that I was wrong and that I am sorry but he just says I should know him better than that. Was I wrong to assume the worst? I tried telling him that it was just that my hormones were making me emotional and had me suspecting something that wasn't really going on but he says. I shouldn't have jumped so quickly to suspect something was going on when it wasn't.
I do accept that this is the real story. Basically cause it was proven by the other couple involved.
I just want to make this up to my husband. Does anyone out there have any ideas on anything I can try. Nothing I have done so far seems to be working. I don't want this to ruin my marriage.

2007-01-22 05:50:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce