so i went on this cruise, and met this guy. he was really nice and we hung out a lot, but i never really had an interest in him, until the 4th night. that night we just hung out me and him the entire night laying down and talking. he was really sweet, and i knew that i'd prob start liking him. we were talking about everything, and the topic of me being a virgin came up. i told him i was a virgin, and he didn't believe me. he wasn't a virgin, but he told me i should really wait for someone i like, and then he said "and it's not going to be me." by the end of the night we ended up making out, and he slept over my room, and he even asked me if the next night we were gonna hang out. the next night he was in the casino, so my friend went to go get him from the casino to hang out. sure enough, he wanted to and came within 10 minutes(meanwhile he had been winning a lot of money), and he came to hang out. we went to his room, and we were hooking up and everything led to sex happening naturally, he didn't ask me flat out, and it happened the way i wanted it to, in the moment. when he was putting the condom on however, i asked him what he was doing, and he said "nothing"..i made sure he had a condom on, and he was really gentle, but he didn't talk much. at one point i asked him if he still had the condom on, and he let me feel to make sure it was still on. after we had sex, we went to the casino, and then i left to go to my room to lay down. he said he'd come back to hang out, but i didn't expect him to really. sure enough, he came knocking on my door to spend the night. the next night he had been looking for me, and he thought i was with another guy,so he got upset, and didn't hang out with me for two nights. by the 8th night we met up eventually..and i explained to him that i wasn't with another guy, and we ended up hanging out the whole entire night, me, my friend, and him. he kept saying how i was his girlfriend on the cruise, and that i would be his girlfriend if we lived in the same place. it just so happened i was going to college where he lived in about a year, and he knew that. that night we were hooking up again, and everything led to sex, and this time was even better. he said to me "you said you were a virgin right"..so i said "you remember what happened the other night right?"..and he was like "yeah, we had sex"..so i guess he was asking to be reassured that i was a virgin before him? then we were doing it for a long time, and he was talking a lot more, and physically helping me out, and he constantly asked me if i was alright, and that i need to tell him when to stop or when it hurts. i was in a lot of pain, so he suggested taking the condom off to see if it felt any better, it felt a lot better and it was only for 2 seconds, but he did say to me "the only thing is..if we take the condom off you might have to give me head"..well..i didn't end up giving him head, because i didn't want to. that night he slept over again, and we had plans to hang out the whole entire day the next day. the last night, we hung out the whole night..and then he kissed me on the lips goodbye. we exchanged myspaces and aim screen names, and after the cruise he commented me right away. we had talked back and forth for awhile..and at one point i thought he was avoiding me..so i wrote him a letter saying if you don't write back then i know you don't want anything to do with me, but he did write back, so that showed me that he cared. i ended up surprising him and visiting him one day, and he was really happy to see me. he told me i need to call next time so we can hang out..and he wanted to make sure i was definitely still coming to college near him. we talked for awhile, and then i had to leave..so he kissed me on the lips goodbye, and wrote to me about a week later asking me how my trip was, and telling me to call him next time.
1.does it sound like he liked me a lot?
2.why would he ask me if i was a virgin when he knew i was already?
3.why did i need to give head if he didn't have a condom on?
4. why did he come back after sex the first time to come lay with me?
2007-01-22 05:50:46 · 20 answers · asked by rachel a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. Ummm he liked having sex with you and it was a challenge that you were a virgin
2. Just to make sure he had sex with a virgin
3. So that he wouldn't bust in you really fast
4. Because he had nothing else to do.
2007-01-22 05:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Q 1: Does it sound like he liked me a lot ? A: Yes, at least because he was your first partner ever.
Q 2: Why would he ask me if I was a virgin when he knew I was already ? A : To see if you really were. If you had said no, he'd know right then and there you were lying.
Q 3: Why did I need to give head if he didn't have a condom on ?
A: Because if you are having unprotected sex and he ejaculates inside you, the odds are you would wind up pregnant. Two primary options exist for dealing with his orgasm - oral or others less comfortable. (It is generally rather difficult to rely on the fella pulling out in time to not ejaculate inside you, especially when the sex has been good.)
Q 4: Why did he come back after sex the first time to come lay with me ? A: In some circles it's called "cuddling". It also was his way of reassurring you that you were not just a bootie call.
It sounds like your first sex partner was considerate of your comfort, although you haven't described having had an orgasm of your own. Perhaps you will fare better on the next go 'round. Be sure to see your gynecologist to discuss birth control as well as to get professional advice on condoms.
2007-01-22 06:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, how on earth did you get enough space to write this question in the first place. Second why would you hook up with a guy on a cruise and do it with him. I thought being a virgin all this time would mean that you were waiting to share this with someone you actually love. Seeing a guy only four days and doing it, sure sounds like you both were looking for a booty call. Third, if you honestly believe this is going to be a meaningful relationship then your sadly mistaken. He's already had the goods and stating that you should really call next time means he has many others (girls)on the side and wants to make sure he's not caught in the act by you.
2007-01-22 06:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by trojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. No, it sounds like he wanted some sex, and you gave it to him pretty easily, no strings, no commitment, no value.
2. He probably thought you were lying if you screwed him so soon after meeting him. You're doing some guy you met a few days ago and claiming to be a virgin? He didn't believe you.
3. You don't- you'll get STD's in your mouth if you do that. But since he didn't care about you, giving you STD in your mouth was fine with him.
4. Why wouldn't he?He thought he could do you again later, or in the morning. Guys generally prefer sleeping next to warm flesh than sleeping alone... especially if they think they're going to get laid again.
2007-01-22 05:58:24 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1.does it sound like he liked me a lot?
sounds like you are getting played. Fun cruise fling perhaps?
2.why would he ask me if i was a virgin when he knew i was already?
STD's maybe?
3.why did i need to give head if he didn't have a condom on?
He was trying to trick you into giving him head. because he likes that.
4. why did he come back after sex the first time to come lay with me?
cold night? And he wanted a chance to round third and slide into homeplate again.
2007-01-22 06:05:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have normally commented on this. But since this story wasted about 5 minutes of my time. . .I thought I could waste another 2 minutes replying to it.
1. no. .he was in it for the sex. He used you and your nothing but a tick mark on the girls he's slept with. Sorry. .
2. he's an idiot
3. he's stupid and be glad you didn't, that spermicide woulda messed your mouth up. you didnt NEED to give him h e a d
4. cause he wanted sex again. .
2007-01-22 06:01:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You ask this question ALL the time. So I am going to break it to you hard.
1.does it sound like he liked me a lot?
No he does not like you, he just wanted to sleep with a virgin.
2.why would he ask me if i was a virgin when he knew i was already?
No he does not like you, he just wanted to sleep with a virgin.
He wanted to make sure so he could brag to all his buddies about bangin a virgin
3.why did i need to give head if he didn't have a condom on?
No he does not like you, he just wanted to sleep with a virgin.
guys like head.
4. why did he come back after sex the first time to come lay with me?
No he does not like you, he just wanted to sleep with a virgin.
2007-01-22 05:57:40 · answer #7 · answered by adonnis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are thinking way too much about this. You had your "fist sex" expierence and that is what is was. He will always be your first but probably not your last, especially because you are so young.
Yeah, "he likes you" you gave him sex.
To answer #3 all guys like head
#4 because maybe he would get it again...
2007-01-22 05:58:44 · answer #8 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) Sounds like he likes you....why shouldnt he? You gave him sex.
2) He didnt know already.....he knew what you told him...didnt have to be true....most girls dont give it up with someone they dont know.
3) So you wouldnt get pregnant....he was probably kidding.
4) That one I dont understand what you are asking.....but he came back because they always come back if you put out.
2007-01-22 05:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by stimulating conversations 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Intense and this is a crazy story......
1. you never know being on a crusie your head could be a number of different places
2. he was curious like most men woul dbe
3. That is you wanting to please him to make him like you.
4. Maybe he wanted to be close to you, sometimes guys like to just be with a woman
2007-01-22 05:55:05 · answer #10 · answered by gstolard 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋