Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

2007-01-22 06:11:01 · 11 answers · asked by chuks u 1 in Singles & Dating

on their wedding night and who have never gotten divorced? I would like to know if there are any because it seems that everyone now has sex before getting married and then they wonder why their marriage fails in a couple of years (or less) when they get tired of each other. It wasn't originally designed to be that way and Hollywood stars of only 50 years ago (like Bob Hope, Jimmy Stewart, Bing Crosby to name a few) had marriages that lasted.

2007-01-22 06:10:56 · 3 answers · asked by Captain Cupcake 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-22 06:10:48 · 13 answers · asked by msmidnite 2 in Singles & Dating

like he wants to work things out but isnt really chasing me.
I also found out one of his friends gave him a condom.
WE never used condoms - the six years we have been together.
I love him - but I told him I dont think he loves me. And that he just wants to have fun.
but he keeps telling me he wants to be with me.
What do I do?

2007-01-22 06:10:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do people think they are considered "real", or "stupid" or, what? What do people think of internet relationships...that sometimes get serious....and its not only internet...but using phones, address, and planning on meeting. Is that common?

2007-01-22 06:10:04 · 7 answers · asked by Liya J 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm just curious...

2007-01-22 06:09:50 · 11 answers · asked by sunflower 3 in Singles & Dating

I have bn with this boi for alomst 3 yearz and we have bn separated for about 3-4 months now. We agreed that we were gonna date but now tat he as a gurl in the picture itz gettin kinda hard i guess u can say. We have alwayz talked and now she startz tryin to start stuff wit me but she don't know tat me and him still talk on the phone when he isn't talkin to her. I don't wanna start a lot of drama but I really like{maybe love him} should I let go and move on or hang in there a little bit longer. Please help me!!!

2007-01-22 06:09:42 · 10 answers · asked by Cherri09 2 in Singles & Dating

I announced my engagement & wedding to my family last weekend and received no support or congratulations from them. We are getting married this September in my fiance's hometown which would be a 10-hour drive or 2-hour flight for my family. One of my sisters has indicated that she will not attend because she has more important plans. My other sister has asked me to change the date & location to better suit her family's schedule. My mother will do whatever my sisters tell her to do. I want them there because they are my family but I don't want them to ruin my wedding day. If they don't come, I think this is the straw that breaks the camel's back. We don't have a good relationship anyway and this is very hurtful to me.

Should I insist they attend, knowing they will spoil the happiness of my wedding? Should I just let it go and see what they decide as the date gets closer? Or should I confront them about my feelings and possibly not speak to them again? Any help & advice is appreciated

2007-01-22 06:09:28 · 22 answers · asked by K 2 in Family

I told her how much I feel for her, but she says that she loves me as a friend, and doesn't want a relationship with anyone before we graduate high school. Is it that she really does see me as her friend, or does she really have feelings for me also?

2007-01-22 06:09:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My aunt and my sister are 19 and they were best friends but they drove apart cause my aunt knew that my sister cheated her current boyfriend.My sister is telling a lot of bad things about Z(my aunt).Z is a little ,not fat,but in between and my sister is telling every1 that Z is fat and that she lokes a 100 times better and that anoys me cause my aunt is the most interesting person I ever met!And she is beaitiful! My sister told me that she doesn't understand how can any1 like her and be married to her(Z got married 2 days ago!).She thinks that her husband is a loser-but they are both nice.I like her better than my sis!

2007-01-22 06:07:51 · 13 answers · asked by glad to help :) 6 in Family

Anything that you wanted and there were no consequences.

2007-01-22 06:07:30 · 18 answers · asked by joshjones007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you think it's ok for a teen couple who have been together for a year to have sex? Or should they wait longer? I'm talking about...17-19 years of age.

2007-01-22 06:07:14 · 24 answers · asked by rach 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend of almost a year and I broke up about 4 months ago. However, we continued to talk every day and see eachother on occasion (sometimes it was good and sometimes bad). We go to the same college and hang out with the same people so it is very difficult to avoid eachother. However, we don't really want to because we still love one another and can't NOT talk to eachother.


None the less... i can't drag this semi-relationship on for another semester. How can I work towards getting over him?

2007-01-22 06:06:11 · 18 answers · asked by tustudent 2 in Singles & Dating

The other day me and my neighbor had sex, not a serious relationship or anything just plain sex. He was a nice size but...it took a while to get it in me(he said i was so tight) but on top of that he pumped like 4 times and then he came, he said it was because he had bee drinking, and then i gave him some head to get it hard again, but it wouldn't get up. Since i have called him twice and he have not answered, what's the problem? him or me?

2007-01-22 06:05:56 · 13 answers · asked by mzvirgo19 1 in Singles & Dating

I got involved with a friend's engaged brother. Now there is a chance that I may be pregnant and he wants to have a family with me. ( So he claims) I know his relationship with his fiancee has been on the rocks and that she threatened to kill herself if he ever left him. But now he claims he is in love with me and wants the baby. What do I do? Do I wait around to see if means what he says about having a family with me? Or do I walk away when he seems sincere?

2007-01-22 06:05:28 · 15 answers · asked by dear_summer_09 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my family people(not close relative) taut me this all at my childhood. i cant join jim due to some resons(belongs to my carrier & medical reasons). I m 25 yr old bachelor.i hv applied all methods provied by social / spiritual voilenteres available in india.

sombody HELP ME SO THAT I CAN MAKE MYSELF STRONG @ ANYTHING , ANYHOW .

I will sacrifise my life for him/them/her.
PLSSSSSSSSSS

2007-01-22 06:05:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating this guy for a couple of months. He usually calls me several times during the day and we talk online at night. Yesterday, he didn't call and he wasn't online. I tried callin him but he didn't return me phone call. Am I being parnoid or should i be worrying about this

2007-01-22 06:04:57 · 33 answers · asked by grocerygirl_24 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 06:04:40 · 13 answers · asked by Gio 1 in Singles & Dating

For me, it's my hamster-Albert. He does the cutest things-and he doesn't even try to impress us. He just lives in his own little world,and he's very bright as well-name suits him! :) I always get so excited when I see him, and hear his little heart beat-he puts a smile on my face, like no one else can.

2007-01-22 06:04:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-22 06:03:59 · 26 answers · asked by sanjay 1 in Singles & Dating

When my father remarried a woman my family deemed a fortune hunter- they cut him out of the will to get our families ancestral home. Their belief was that she had two young children( with whom my father ultimately adopted) and if he died suddenly- the home would go to her- then to her children- Not me. Therefore the home is going to be handed down to my aunt.

I am trying to get an handle on this because by cutting him out- they are cutting me out of the ownership- and when I approached them on this- they told me my dad said he wouldnt cut out his wife or 2 adoptive children. SO they thought it better to do what they did vs. having me war with my stepmother- who I also believe is a fortune hunter.

How do I get on grip on losing the only home I ever knew growing up and knowing my children will never be a part of it. It means a great deal to me both mentally and historically.

2007-01-22 06:03:29 · 2 answers · asked by Sadey 3 in Family

2007-01-22 06:02:55 · 7 answers · asked by n v 1 in Singles & Dating

If we go to Lake Tahoe (Nevada side) to get married, do we still have to stop in Reno to apply for a marriage license?

2007-01-22 06:02:48 · 1 answers · asked by moniquebell 3 in Weddings

i'm very obsessed with my boyfriend, like overly addictivly obsessed with my boyfriend, i get more and more obsessed with him every day, will my obsession get to be a problem later in the future?

2007-01-22 06:02:14 · 9 answers · asked by US 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i went out with this guy me and him were pretty serious about each other. so we broke up for some personsal reasons we kept a close relationship as friends but come to find out one night he invited two of my best friends to go out drinking with him but only one was able to go i wasnt mad about them going out together i wouldnt think my friend would do anything wrong . to make a long story short they ended up kissing when i found out i was really hurt cause she knew i had feelings for him .so both of their excuses were that they were drunk should i believe them and should i still consider her my best friend.
what abut him should i still keep him as a friend or should i cut him off.

2007-01-22 06:01:34 · 6 answers · asked by hotty 1 in Friends

Anyone have good ideas/locations for a 3 hour cocktail reception in NYC? We are trying to have just small appetizers somewhere in NYC. Any ideas??

2007-01-22 06:01:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my girlfriend constantly tickles the crap out of my ribs an dsays there's nothing i can do. she often won't stop until i cry. i've tried to ignore it but i can't. if you tried to tickle a guy's ribs tell me most can ignore it pleeeeease! when you tried, did it work as easy or did he ignore it? it's torture.

2007-01-22 06:00:58 · 16 answers · asked by number1dimes 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have know each other for 5 years. We got together in 2005 and this year he asked me to marry him. He already told my parents that he wants to get married with me. As far as our relationship its at its best I mean yes we've had our ups and downs but never to the point where weve broken up.

2007-01-22 06:00:56 · 74 answers · asked by la_chika_loves_u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What is the real reason to watch it? is it because; 1.you cant get any 2. its a form of releasing your pent up stress 3. you just enjoy watching it or 4. there is some deeper reason i dont understand. I ask this because i just had my first baby 3wks ago and of course my husband cant get any cause im recovering and in the middle of the night i walked past the living room and he was induldging himself with one of his "flix". i dont find it to be a problem cause before and during pregnancy i kept him well satisfied and he never had to watch any to get his fix but now that i cant get it on with him im afraid that he is gonna prefer the movies to what i have to offer and find the women more attractive than me. Am i being irrational and making a big deal out of nothing? three months is a long time to go without some lovin, what do you suggest or think?

2007-01-22 06:00:46 · 18 answers · asked by Mel R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do people feel they have to sleep with a new person every weekend? i think its gross. theres so many young people out there that have already had sex with 10-20 people. if your one of those people you must feel dirty. what happens when u find that person you want to settle down with and you tell them by the way your like the 20th person ive had sex with. personally it would make me feel less important. i would feel like just another number in his sex life. not to mention std's and pregnancy. and everytime you have sex with a new person, you dont know what they like. when you have sex with someone you love and only them, you have time to learn what they like and its not weird. its just so much more passionate and means so much more when you love the person. im not aiming this at guys, girls, gays, straigths whatever. this is about anyone. any ways, why do people think its cool to sleep around?

2007-01-22 06:00:13 · 9 answers · asked by licerz 1 in Singles & Dating