Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

I like one of my guy friends. How do I tell him i like him? I have to do it online bc he is always around his friends and theywon't let him talk to me. I was going to give him a note telling him to meet me on VMK to talk. JUST PLZ TELL ME HOW TO SAY IT WITHOUT MAKING A FOOL OF MYSELF!!

2007-01-22 06:42:53 · 5 answers · asked by LizziFishie 3 in Singles & Dating

My exgirlfriend is 19 and i am 36.
On 3rd January she split up with me due largely to me practically accusing her of having affairs.
The thing is, we still find each other sexually attractive and when were together we find ourselves losing control in that way.
The problem with it is she has said she doesnt find it particually comfortable anymore but we still find both of ourselves eager to go down that path.
She really enjoys it and gets to a point just before sex where she finds she cant go on any further (leaving me feeling frustrated frankly).
She says were not getting back together because she says she 'just doesnt feel the same' but at the same time, she always asking whos texting me and we text each other every day.
We talk about one of the options to stop this sexual attraction is to not see each other but she says she doesnt like the sound of that as shed miss me.
I want us to be a relationship again but i dont know what to do for the best.

2007-01-22 06:42:33 · 16 answers · asked by John 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I talked with a guy several times & we hit it off over the phone so met for dinner. He had put on his profile that he was 6'4", 235lbs., football player type. When we met I didn't recognize him at first because he was nowhere near this size/height. Maybe 6'0" & 200lbs. Still in great shape so why would one lie about such a thing? I truly don't care if he was so tall or whatever but am more concerned about one's honesty. This is the biggest complaint that I hear from guys that a girl says she's 130lbs. but they show up & she's 200lbs. He also kept pointing out a woman he had met before that lied about her age & that he was concerned about what else she was lieing about so what gives with this guy?? Needless to say I was immediately uncomfortable & had an awkward feeling when I had been looking forward to meeting him??

2007-01-22 06:42:33 · 3 answers · asked by COblonde 3 in Friends

I have this girl who is shy, I need ideas on places to take her and hope she opens up

2007-01-22 06:42:09 · 6 answers · asked by scotty 1 in Singles & Dating

how old was u when u lost ur virginity and be honest..my husband was 25 and it was with me(he is now 42)said he was waiting for the right 1..Isnt that rare for a guy to still be a virgin at 25

2007-01-22 06:41:48 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I mean why should guys always have to persue girls...at parties, clubs etc. shouldn't girls become hunters for a change?

2007-01-22 06:41:23 · 19 answers · asked by bigboobsucker 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend, he's about 6'8".

What would you think about him dating a girl that was 4'9"?

2007-01-22 06:40:56 · 25 answers · asked by Girl Nobody 2 in Singles & Dating

Yes it is over. Not racism but my relationship.It is over b/c my bf found out the reason y i havent told my dad about us is b/c my dad is not into the idea of me havin a white boyfriend.When my boyfriend found out he was CRYING! He feels as if it would be easier for me if we just be friends.When we got off the phone we told each other that we loved each other but i cant see myself being friends w/ somone i love.I didnt go to school today b/c I was cryin sooo much that im physically sick.
I talked to my dad this morning and he said that he gives me "premission" to date him b/ci must truly be in love if i cried so much over a guy to the point that im sick.What should i do to get my man back? And how do i tell him that my dad said its ok for us to date even if he doesnt like it? Please dont tell me to get over it b/c that cannot happen. He is the first guy iever cried over. He may not be my first but hes my one and only.How can i get him back?Im willing to do anything to get him back.

2007-01-22 06:40:47 · 8 answers · asked by lil_court_843 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-22 06:40:43 · 18 answers · asked by Kayesha H 1 in Singles & Dating

i know someone who married in one name then married another in a different surname.this bloke left my sister in thousands worth of dept and got away with it because he uses different names.he's got a driving licence in one name but married in another.he's been known to use at least three names at any one time.he married my sister,claimed benefits as a couple in her name but he was also claiming in another name and his mothers address.surely this isnt right.she has had £10 a week in csa as he is claiming with his new bird,now she's been told he's working and they cant get hold of him,probably because he's using yet another surname!!please help??

2007-01-22 06:40:11 · 8 answers · asked by blahblah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so me and my friends were decided to do a gang bang on my blow up doll right, and we video tapped it. So I was thinking of selling it but I dont want to betray her trust. What should I do????

2007-01-22 06:39:55 · 19 answers · asked by Slavemaker 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend said he'd make me horny in public, but he doesn't, was he kidding when he said that? like he says he would eat me out and give me orgasms and all the sexual stuff in public to me, is he serious or is he joking? ever since he said this i've been a bit scared to hang out with him in public.

2007-01-22 06:39:34 · 15 answers · asked by US 2 in Singles & Dating

What role they are playing on whether your relationship, engagement, marriage will last?

2007-01-22 06:39:11 · 8 answers · asked by BK thang 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-22 06:39:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend loves lesbian porn, i don't. He knows this, put whenever he is on the laptop he is watching or downloading porn. I have asked him if i do anything wrong, he said its a fantasy, and I am reliable. I wasn't happy and I kept annoying him for the rest of the evening. Is all men like that?

2007-01-22 06:38:16 · 24 answers · asked by tessie 1 in Singles & Dating

is a persn supposed to know right from the start that someone you're dating is 'the one'? Or can you date for a couple of years before you actually decide?

2007-01-22 06:38:05 · 14 answers · asked by Tiki 2 in Singles & Dating

OR, would you? My friend has been married for 3 years, and they have a 2 year old son. Her husband has cheated on her and I have found out through mutual "good" friends. Would you tell your friend what you have heard and if so, how would you say it? Thanks in advance.

2007-01-22 06:37:43 · 48 answers · asked by tmac 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering if it is possible to live with someone of the opposite sex and not hook up. I did meet the guy and he seems nice. The house is so tiny though it seems like spending all the time together in such a small space, that something is bound to happen.

2007-01-22 06:37:32 · 16 answers · asked by andberg1182 2 in Singles & Dating

My 13 year old ran away from home 6 years ago. I reported her as a run away. When she was found she told the police that I kicked her out, wouldn"t feed her or buy her clothing. All of which were not true. I haven't talked with her since but she is trying to make contact and I am not trusting enough in her to even get near her now. It has been 6 years and I can't get over it. We were so very close.

2007-01-22 06:37:06 · 4 answers · asked by andyt 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 06:36:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 06:36:07 · 13 answers · asked by Biswanath G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When I flew home and unpacked my suitcase, I immediately spotted a bracelet that I borrowed. I called and assurred her that I would return it to her mom who lives near me and did so two days later.

The mom was nasty and asked what Kathy should do with the clothing and other items that I left behind in Florida. I was so stunned because it appeared that Kathy considered our friendship over. Yet three days before she had suggested I leave some clothing and personal items at her home so on my next trip I could pack lighter.

I knew her mom could be critical and meddling. I phoned Kathy to get the scoop. No return call.

Kathy has had a history of depression and panic attacks and is being medicated for Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder. I was the only friend who did not abandon her over the years.

There were many times when I wanted to end the friendship as she was often self-absorbed and moody.

Should I finally write her off or make one final attempt to talk to her?

2007-01-22 06:35:45 · 6 answers · asked by Angela 7 in Friends

My hubby and I have been married 3 months and I am about to open a bank account where he lives in England. He wants his own.. I think it would be easier to put it all in one and pay the bills from that.

2007-01-22 06:35:45 · 12 answers · asked by jodilynn0303 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-22 06:35:41 · 4 answers · asked by BMW M5 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Many people are trying to find a large sleigh-and-reindeer cake stand like the one on this page:
http://www.favorideas.com/wedding-themes/seasonal-themes/glorious-winter-favor-ideas/

No one seems to be able to track it down.

Obviously it would cost $$$ but I have no idea where to find it. It looks like something you'd buy from a floral supply shop, though. Any ideas?

2007-01-22 06:35:20 · 6 answers · asked by mrrmaid 4 in Weddings

When I was 17 I was very innocent madly in love with this guy..well he apparently knew and invited me over to "watch a movie"..he pressured me soo much and that night I got my first kiss and lost my virginity.

Well I'm 21 and still regret it..when I went away to college I told people I was a virgin..and yes I feel horrible b/c it's a lie. Well I am dating this guy Caleb and he is a keeper it's official now..and he always says how cool he thinks it is that I'm a virgin and how he respects me. I don't want to start off with a big lie, but if I tell him he may lose trust in me and break it off. Ahh what should I do?!?

2007-01-22 06:35:10 · 24 answers · asked by goldengirl 4 in Singles & Dating

My best friend and I are having a fight right now and it's lasted for a month and a half. It's completely my fault. What should I do to get her to understand how sorry I am for screwing up our friendship? This is the first fight we've had in three years and it's one of the worst I've ever been in. Help please!!! I don't want to screw up anymore. I want the friendship back....I want my best friend back.

2007-01-22 06:35:07 · 5 answers · asked by EvilLaughingLeprachaun08 2 in Friends

2007-01-22 06:34:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My partner has been seperated from his wife for 3 years,she wont divorce him,he has currently been removed to Afghanistan,which means it's hard for him to divorce her.Can he divorce her without consent or will he have to wait into they have been seperated for 5 years.

2007-01-22 06:33:53 · 8 answers · asked by Trace 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Never saw the child (picture, ANYTHING!).
never saw a birth certificate
mother never told man she was pregnant; man gets slapped with a paternity suit almost 2 years later.
Could the DNA test have been falsified?
Can't even find the mother or the multiple bastard children.

2007-01-22 06:33:22 · 22 answers · asked by Stu 5 in Family