Yes it is over. Not racism but my relationship.It is over b/c my bf found out the reason y i havent told my dad about us is b/c my dad is not into the idea of me havin a white boyfriend.When my boyfriend found out he was CRYING! He feels as if it would be easier for me if we just be friends.When we got off the phone we told each other that we loved each other but i cant see myself being friends w/ somone i love.I didnt go to school today b/c I was cryin sooo much that im physically sick.
I talked to my dad this morning and he said that he gives me "premission" to date him b/ci must truly be in love if i cried so much over a guy to the point that im sick.What should i do to get my man back? And how do i tell him that my dad said its ok for us to date even if he doesnt like it? Please dont tell me to get over it b/c that cannot happen. He is the first guy iever cried over. He may not be my first but hes my one and only.How can i get him back?Im willing to do anything to get him back.
2007-01-22 06:40:47 · 8 answers · asked by lil_court_843 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I wish i never told him that my dad feels the way he do. I'm in love i know there must be somethin there since he told me he loves me and to call him whenever i feel like talking. I know I brought it on myself i knew i shouldnt of ever told him.What should i do and how do i get him back? . What should i say to him?
Please help ! I know i post a lot of relationship questions but its so hard for me.
2007-01-22 06:46:11 · update #1
It sounds like he loves you too. This shouldn't really be too difficult but I can see why you might be in a panic. You need to go talk to him face to face and he will probably be scared to even talk to you because he doesn't want anymore pain and he won't realize that you have good news. So you need to be strong and go after what you want and go for the throat and don't let go until you have it. You need to visualize and convince yourself that getting your man back is going to happen and nothing is going to stop you. You need to run him down, corner him and tell him that there is no problem, you are not scared anymore and your father even gave you permission and you might have to "embelish" a little bit and tell him your father is just happy that you have someone you care so deeply about. Reassure him he is not creating problems for you and if he continues to try and stay away from you, that is going to be the problem that is going to make your life hard, so if he truly wants to make things easy on you he can get over himself and get back together with you and start making both of your lives easier and better and there doesn't have to be anymore pain. Go get'em girl and don't stop until you have what you want.
2007-01-22 06:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by J-Dub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him you were afraid of your father's reaction. Tell him since you have to live under your father's roof, you have to abide by his rules. Let him know that since your father did not react in the way you thought, you want to get back with him. Let him know that you love him and will not let race become an issue ever again. Send him flowers with a loving note that includes an apology. True love is color blind.
I'm sure that the reasons behind the way your boyfriend reacted was because he was saddened by your attitude. If you truly love him, you should have said something to your father long ago. I can understand why your boyfriend thought this was a snub by you.
Maybe in the future you will not allow other people to come between your boyfriend and you, no matter what they say. Experience teaches us.
2007-01-22 06:51:46 · answer #2 · answered by Nepetarias 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That must have been extremely painful for your b/friend to hear that from you.......because he's 'white"........It seems like you've ripped his heart out and i'm not sure there will be any getting back together. Even if you tell him your dad said "ok fine you can be with this boy, but really doesn't like the idea" your b/friend will say Pass* Let's just stay friends.
You've hurt his feelings right to his inner core and I don't think this one can be fixed. If it's Friends that you are meant to be..then so be it*~ Sorry* GoodLuck*
2007-01-22 06:47:01 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go talk to him. Tell him why you did not tell your dad. I assume that you thought your dad would have a cow because he was white. Guess what he probably thought the same about you but he put his neck out there for you. Go back and explain why and explain that you talked to your dad.
BTW your dad is not gonna like any guy you date. It's his job to hate them.
2007-01-22 06:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth, take him aside and explain to him how you felt.
As a matter of fact why not show him this question and all the positive answers you get as well.
If he loves you and I feel that he does he will come back to you.
Good luck and God Bless.
2007-01-22 06:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
RING HIM EMAIL HIM do what ever you can and tell him you are sorry and you shouldn't have cared what anyone else thought even if they were family tell him how much u love him and reassure him that nothing like this will ever come between you two again. explain how sorry you are and tell him how special you think he is!!!
2007-01-22 06:49:32 · answer #6 · answered by Elle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that your dad has agreed that you can date him,that might make him feel better,if he really loves you he will agree to date you again
goodluck!
2007-01-22 06:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's meant to be he will come back.
stop crying. you big baby....
2007-01-22 06:44:11 · answer #8 · answered by sunshinesmoothoperator 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋