I mean why should guys always have to persue girls...at parties, clubs etc. shouldn't girls become hunters for a change?
2007-01-22 06:41:23 · 19 answers · asked by bigboobsucker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, and girls could hold the door open for guys and burp and yell and dress in men's clothes and get buzz cuts. Hell, why have any gender at all if everyone is going to act the same?
2007-01-22 06:46:24 · answer #1 · answered by Kristine R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls should be aggressive if that is in their nature. Not everyone is comfortable pursuing others. If you are interested in someone who seems a bit shy, it doesn't hurt you to go up and say something nice and offer to buy a soda or drink for her. If you break the ice, then it will be easier for her to continue visiting with you. There are girls that are very comfortable with making the first move. Depends who it is you are interested in at the time and then do what needs done to make a connection. Let people be who they are, you be who you are, and still romance will come!
2007-01-22 14:47:52 · answer #2 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, the age old question of who should chase whom. By laws of nature, the man is supposed to do the chasing, but by laws of today's society it is a free playing field. I think girls are considered trashy, or sluts if they chase guys; this is why I would have observations about girls doing the chasing. Men are just getting lazy because the odds are in their favor (2 females born to every 1 male). Love will always be a complicated and mysterious thing.
2007-01-22 14:47:47 · answer #3 · answered by Molly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a perfect world girls would go out on a limb and take a chance at getting burned. Ive only had 12 girls hit on me first (And yes I am keeping track for vanity sake).
But its usually the guy that has to get burned, and if the chicks with a bunch of her friends and you walk up alone and ask her out, and she burns you, its like getting ingulfed in flames and having your penis chopped off at the same time.
Ive been there, done that, and ill do it again hahah.
2007-01-22 14:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its about dame time this isn't the ice age now it has too work both ways some people just miss out by not doing it and they end up with s%%tty ones later on not knowing they had a chance that one night making the move first.
2007-01-22 14:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by tino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!! We live in a new age and believe it or not...there really are more women going for what they want now!!! But then again, there are still quite a few (like me) who were raised like the old days but with a few updated changes!! Just depends on the girl!! ;)
2007-01-22 14:47:31 · answer #6 · answered by very_proud_mommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course they should. But not all females are raised to go after what they want. I however was and my daughter the same. Girls should never just sit back and see what happens. You make it happen yourself!!!
2007-01-22 14:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, they SHOULD, but the world doesn't work according to what SHOULD happen. The simple fact is, they DON'T. That means, if you want a girlfriend, you have to do the pursuing. That's just reality.
2007-01-22 14:51:37 · answer #8 · answered by Egghead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually men are put off by women aggressively pursuing them, at least that's what all my guy friends have told me.
2007-01-22 14:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by ts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hunt! & got the man I love! Some girls are shy, silly, think that "looking" is for the guys only. Play hard to get and they will come to you!
2007-01-22 14:44:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋