Just wondering if it is possible to live with someone of the opposite sex and not hook up. I did meet the guy and he seems nice. The house is so tiny though it seems like spending all the time together in such a small space, that something is bound to happen.
2007-01-22 06:37:32 · 16 answers · asked by andberg1182 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as you don't start acting like a jealous freak & you keep treating her well then you will be fine. If she is trust worthy then trust her if not then its better to find out now than 5 years down the road.
2007-01-22 06:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you trust your girlfriend then you shouldn't have anything to worry about. If it's really going to bother you though just talk to her and tell her how you feel don't necessarily ask her to make him leave but put it in a way that means you want to hang out with her more and just take her out of the house more often. It's an oppertunity for the two of you to spend more time together. Good luck
2007-01-22 06:42:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's possible (i've done it)! But the real question is how compatible your girl and this new guy might be... If their personalities mesh well and she starts to find him attractive, well then you could have problems.
So I'd suggest spending some time hanging out with the guy. This way you and he can kind of bond (if he likes you he's less likely to take your girl) and you can find out what kind of guy he is and what the risk is of your girl being attracted to him (you should know what turns her on by now).
2007-01-22 06:43:38 · answer #3 · answered by Kit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
obviously there is trust issues or you feel insecure. why would you want to be with someone who makes you worry if he/she will cheat on you? if you can't trust somebody, you will never be a happy person because you will always have that "what if" thought in the back of your head. I would rather be lonely than with someone who would betray me. look at it like a test. If she fails now, at least you won't be wasting your time trying to figure out the answers to other questions that aren't important. do your part and see if she does her. if she doesn't, you don't want a girl like that.
2007-01-22 06:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 19:21:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot depends on HER & how trustworthy she is. she may love only you..but if the guy has other intentions and plays her along..she may fall! i would never put up with it....!WHY aren't YOU living with her instead? did she even ask?
unless he is gay, i would be there all the time! gives them both too much opportunity and gives you jealousy, paranoia, and just is not right!
did she know this guy before he moved in? did you? there are lots of questions that need answering here first.......goodluck.
2007-01-22 06:45:21 · answer #6 · answered by STARZ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had male roomates. I was in college and I knew my roomates from school. My boyfriend was worried, as well but nothing ever happened between my roomates and I.
2007-01-22 06:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by des07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if ur gf loves u enuf and u love her too then u shud trust her... i mean there is really nothing else to do...trust her or dump her..personally i wud go for the 1st one..at least until she does or says anything that makes u think otherwise.
2007-01-22 06:40:14 · answer #8 · answered by karimauf 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you think she would let you live in a house with another girl? And if she did how would that turn out?
2007-01-22 06:42:10 · answer #9 · answered by DL 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You better keep her happy or her mind will start wondering to the other guy. I think something just might happen.
2007-01-22 06:40:02 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋