I have been dating this guy for a couple of months. He usually calls me several times during the day and we talk online at night. Yesterday, he didn't call and he wasn't online. I tried callin him but he didn't return me phone call. Am I being parnoid or should i be worrying about this
2007-01-22 06:04:57 · 33 answers · asked by grocerygirl_24 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
probably got drunk yesterday.
or found someone else...
2007-01-22 06:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by Trey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. Most men do that all the time at first to win you over then they stop bc they feel comfortable with you. They don't feel that they have to contact you all the time. Try talking to him when he calls back and let him know how you feel. Tell him how it bothered you that he didn't call or return your call. It could have been something simple and nothing to worry about. Keep your head up and think positive. It's only been a couple of months and if he's backing out then no worries. You can move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Enjoy life!
2007-01-22 06:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be concerned mostly to ensure the other person is alright, not about your relationship at this point.
If you don't hear from him again today or this evening, perhaps a call to a mutual friend is okay, just to ensure he's okay. If you find out nothing has happened, then the cut off of communication is a bad sign for the relationship and a bit harsh if you ask me.
I say to check and make sure nothings happened first because a similar situation occurred with me and a girl that I was just beginning to hang out with stopped calling me after a few dates and I came to find out she had been killed in a auto accident.
Good luck.
2007-01-22 06:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by pico_pica81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes in life things happen that change your normal routine. He could be home sick, his cell phone could be broken. He could have tuned off his ringer for a meeting and forgot about it. You never know until you ask. One day of missed calls is not something to get upset about.
However, if he keeps it up all week or doesn't have an explainantion when you do speak to him then you have a cause for concern.
2007-01-22 06:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by WriterChic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out. It's only an isolated incident.Who knows what his reasons are for not being available yesterday. Anything could've happened. If he doesn't call or email after a few days, then maybe you should worry.
2007-01-22 06:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by Mirch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since it's only been 60 days and you're not a couple, you really have no claims or expectations. If a few more days go by without a word, he's probably lost interest or met someone else.
2007-01-22 06:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys just need time to themselves. If you push it you may very well push him completely away. My suggestion is to leave 1 message and wait until he replies. If he doesn't then you are probably better off, but if he does then you can ask him if everything is alright. Don't push too hard, just let him know that you are there in case he needs to talk or even if he just wants you to be around.
2007-01-22 06:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait for a while, once a week pass, then you have to think about it, is he lose interesting in you or something. Send him a serious note that you are not playing and you need something inform you. If nothing, all you have to move on but you have to find out if hes still alive. If you find him in person, blunt to him and ask him why he not contact you.
2007-01-22 06:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so i am 14 but i know this answer good enough to say that the guy HAS TO HAVE SPACE not asin breaking up just he needs some time to like play video games or whatever his hobbys are don't be worried if he was cheating he will avoid u in any possible way!!!! but hopes up :)
2007-01-22 06:09:36 · answer #9 · answered by Ang3l_Of_Darkn3ss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One night isn't the end of the world. Relax. you'll hear from him.
I bet he was watching the NFC and AFC championship football games. The Bears and the Colts are going to the Super Bowl.
2007-01-22 06:09:34 · answer #10 · answered by dynamicduo79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this in my opinion is where people start to mess up a relationship a little, if this is the first time this has happened, yes be concerned not paranoid, of course ask him about it because you have the right to know, but dont make this a trust issue.
2007-01-22 06:11:03 · answer #11 · answered by Rygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋