I told her how much I feel for her, but she says that she loves me as a friend, and doesn't want a relationship with anyone before we graduate high school. Is it that she really does see me as her friend, or does she really have feelings for me also?
2007-01-22 06:09:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she had feelings for you,she would be your GIRLfriend and not your friend.get the hint.?
2007-01-22 06:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in highschool. You dont even know what love is. Hate to put it that way,but in a few years you will understand how true that is. You keep being her friend, if it hurts you too much move on. I assume you will be graduating soon, you will both go on your own ways anyways. If she DOES have feelings for her she is hiding, you will know after you let her go.
I had a guy who I dated then we broke up and stayed friends. He was still VERY in love with him and I loved him SO MUCH AS MY FRIEND. We just dont talk anymore. It made it to hard on both of us. We speak when we see each other and we both care about each other, just in different ways and different places.
Lol, if this is the worst of your worries right now, ENJOY IT. Cause it gets worse.
2007-01-22 06:14:47 · answer #2 · answered by Kamryn's Mommie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. What kind of person is she? Has she had serious relationships in the past? Is she the kind of person who waited until she started dating? Is she religious or moral?
If she is not moral/religious and has had other serious or lengthy relationships, then she is trying to spare your feelings. Which is not bad if her intent was to be kind.
If she has followed strict rules about guys, then she could be telling you the truth.
If she is sparing your feelings, don't let her string you along. You could be missing out on meeting some great people if you keep yourself tied to someone who is not interested in you in that way. If you are in high school, you are still too young to be tied down to a "I'm dating to find my future wife" kind of relationship. Stay her friend but date others too. It is so stupid for high school students to get into a serious relationship with anyone. Everyone changes a HUGE amount after high school and it is too harsh to be tied down to someone until you find your own footing. But it is great to meet and date different girls and learn what kind of person you would eventually like to end up with.
2007-01-22 06:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be kinda both wayz i mean maybe she does see u as just a friend but mayb a close friend or she does like u and just wants to wait but wateva u do don't keep pushin it against her so just hold ur horses for a lil while mayb after highschool u will get together u never know
2007-01-22 06:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by Cherri09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds cut and dry to me..You talked she answered, now move on. If she is a good person keep her as a friend; man don't you really want someone thats into you.
2007-01-22 06:14:35 · answer #5 · answered by Bill G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you grow old - you have a tendency to think of the 'cocky adult males' are a soreness interior the bum and you will fairly be with the advantageous guy who won't misinform you (the two to maintain you guessing or so they are able to cheat!). wish thats a help - i'm in my 30s
2016-11-26 19:18:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only she knows the answer to that question. No matter what opinions you hear from Yahoo Answerers.
2007-01-22 06:13:14 · answer #7 · answered by Here Today 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She shot you down, brother. Plain and simple. Move along.
2007-01-22 06:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by Eddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should stay friends with her so when she is ready to have a relationship you will be there
2007-01-22 06:13:20 · answer #9 · answered by girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she means she don't feel that way about you ever, let go and be friends,
2007-01-22 06:12:56 · answer #10 · answered by twinsters 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋