The other day me and my neighbor had sex, not a serious relationship or anything just plain sex. He was a nice size but...it took a while to get it in me(he said i was so tight) but on top of that he pumped like 4 times and then he came, he said it was because he had bee drinking, and then i gave him some head to get it hard again, but it wouldn't get up. Since i have called him twice and he have not answered, what's the problem? him or me?
2007-01-22 06:05:56 · 13 answers · asked by mzvirgo19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would guess he is probably embarassed he came so quick.
2007-01-22 06:15:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is with him. If he had sex with you there was some sort base attraction. Even if he was drinking that's not an excuse to for a guy to get off that fast. When I drink, I can't get off at all...I can go alllllll night and not get off, it's irritating and aggravating. I'm not trying to brag because it's a drag to have sex and not be able to cross the finish line...it's like running a race you cannot finish. Who would do that? He's embarassed especially if he's making excuses for his lack of performance. Guys have these pesky little things called, "Ego's" they tend to bruise easily and they can make us act like idiots especially when our ego gets hurt. So out of sheer embarassment he's not calling you because you saw his lack of performance and he doesn't want to face up to what you have might have to say. Another note, when most guys get off, they cannot get hard again for maybe 20 minutes? Some guys can get off and stay hard for as long as they like, some guys cannot. It depends on the guy but for the most part, that's normal to get off and stay limp for a while so no, the problem is not wirh you even if you do give him head.
2007-01-22 14:43:27 · answer #2 · answered by J-Dub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's not home to answer the phone. If this continues you can always approach him as he is close to you as a neighbour and ask him why he has been avoiding you. Perhaps he feels a bit guilty for his actions or he may even be a little embarrassed about how things transpired the other day.
2007-01-22 14:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cmon there are better ones out there....as for your question...
I think hes got problems with premature ejaculation and he is thououghly embarassed about it. He's avoiding you coz he doesnt have the nerve to face the same situation again.
2007-01-22 14:14:31 · answer #4 · answered by Lord Of Lust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anything, drinking lengthens the time to ejaculate, so that story about being drunk is BS. He just couldn't perform adequately and that is the reason he doesn't answer you. He is embarrassed! Don't worry, it's not you!
2007-01-22 14:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he lied to you because when I'm drinking I can last so much longer, even when I'm with someone new.
I hope he at least went down on you after he couldn't get it up.
2007-01-22 14:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by tydurd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be having either a physical problem....a pre-mature ejaculation! Or a flaccid penis! Or he could be on excessive alcohol that inhibits his sex drive. The reason he could have not returned your call could be due to his performance anxiety....
2007-01-22 14:11:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not you.
Beer would have made it last longer not shorter. So he has a premature problem if you know what I mean
He is embarrassed so he has not answered
2007-01-22 14:09:44 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it was his problem.. and maybe he is embarrassed about it!
2007-01-22 14:10:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What wolfman said.
2007-01-22 14:18:15 · answer #10 · answered by tarzan428 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋