why are men getting sex-ployted?
doing anything for sex or the promise of sex?
families are getting broken and women are extorting
themselves for wealth etc..everything except for love.
men need to stop spoiling women!
comments are welcome!
2007-01-22 05:54:25 · 13 answers · asked by canuckclint 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'll add some details..
men and women get paid the same
yet women never pay for dates
they always think in terms of
-well you ask me out
-i'm doing you a favor by going out etc
-we don't have as much money but
i need to buy my 100th shoe pair
in other words they are using men
and in many cases it ends with
'your just a friend'
i'm not saying all women are like this
just a vast majority..
2007-01-22 06:08:55 · update #1
yes if men don't act like doormats
and set some rules
we can stop this..
be real and be yourself!
2007-01-22 06:10:44 · update #2
yes if men don't act like doormats
and set some rules
we can stop this..
be real and be yourself!
2007-01-22 06:10:45 · update #3
Well, what about the men willing to give women money or presents or willing to do ANYTHING just so they can have sex.
I don't call that 'sexploitation' if MEN are the ones initiating the deals or consenting parties, which they clearly are.
Some men will do ANYTHING for sex, which is really sad. Look at strip clubs.... Who do you think goes home poor and unsatisfied at the end of the night? Why can't some men keep their sex drives under control and be a mature adult instead of a horny boy who will have sex with just about anyone? Women are just reaping the rewards from men being this way. If men weren't so pathetic, women wouldn't be able to take advantage of them.
2007-01-22 06:01:19 · answer #1 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not neccessarily men spoiling women but their parents. Some girls grow up being treated like a little princess. So they expect the same from their spouse. When we hit a certain age we decide as people who we want to be and how we plan to do it. Some women's career goals are to find men with a good career. And some women don't need a man to succeed for them so they go to college on their own. Even with men it comes down to how they were raised. Parents who implement values/morals into their childrens lives and set boundaries and goals for their children create a structure in which their children grow and live by. Now if a daughter/son witnesses parents who fight, party or anything negative they act out accordingly as that is what they know and were taught. It's like computers, they only perform an action in which was programmed. Very rarely do you see anomalies in which change the behavoir of computer, usually it's an outside source causing the anomaly. Same goes true for children. They act as they were programmed and usually if they stray from the program it's largely due to an outside source (friends). Sure the opposite sex teaches us valuable lessons along the line in which we adapt. We will adapt however using only the tools given to us. Those tools being passed onto us through our parents. So I say it has everything to do with how we were raised. Good Luck & God Bless!
2007-01-22 06:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by zero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Beer. But what none of you has said - which is interesting. Is that the playing field is made perfectly level by THIS. Women want RELATIONSHIPS more than we want sex. and WE get that with WAY more difficulty than YOU get sex. =================================== On a different note: It's not a question of not admitting it. It's a question of not living in the skin of men - YOU"RE the ones who think you can tell the difference even though you can't possibly see the world from our eyes. A lot of men like yourself who CALL yourselves nice have a VERY personal definition of what 'nice' means. How is it NICE to call EVERY guy who is successful with women - arrogant? Women are interested in a variety of people - but the ones who actually take the risk of approaching them are more likely to get dates and be with women. That doesn't constitute an insult to shy quiet guys?
2016-05-23 21:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait...stop the press!!!
Men are spoiling women? With what? Their penises??
Good grief...we women are damned if we do and damned if we don't.
When you guys can figure out what you want from us and keep it there for more than 72 hours, give me a call.
Sex is so free and given why do guys have to "do anything for sex"??? People are giving it away and at worst, you can buy it.
2007-01-22 05:59:23 · answer #4 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip there, Canucki! The world has revolved around sex for eons! Both genders have prostituted themselves to no end for the sake of power. As long as you have risen above the swing of the sexual pendulum you can rest assured that the world, in general , will never follow your lead.
Your question and comment are a bit vague. Please clarify and we can talk for hours!
2007-01-22 06:00:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
id love to be spoiled. NEver had that before.
Women eventually find out love is not real. And if it is - its to that lucky girl sooo in love wiht her husband and the perfect relationship.
Which is not so easy to find.
I would love to have a love and a family - regardless of $.
2007-01-22 05:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a perception more than it is fact.
Animals are sexual.
We are animals.
You'd think as a higher species we would realize this.
No.
Because we deny our animalistic *caugh* -minimalistic- nature.
Society HAS a problem with truth.
2007-01-22 05:58:02 · answer #7 · answered by Lucius Crain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you say so? Just tell us what actually happened with you? Well, I'm not getting any lately either. LOL.
2007-01-22 05:59:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back
2007-01-22 05:56:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can only do to you what you allow them to do.
2007-01-22 05:56:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋