He has a bitchy, lieing ex wife and 3 kids. We dont live together anymore because of financial problems at home so we are both back at our parents house. He says he doesnt forgive me yet for moving out without talking to him about it. But I want to get back with him and move back in together and work things out. What should I do? We go out on dates still and hang out still but there are still problems. HELP ME
2007-01-22 06:00:03 · 4 answers · asked by c.a_durham 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We slept together recently and I did not have my birth control ring in and told him and he got mad because he thinks I did it on purpose to keep him around. Its definitly not true and I tried to explain it to him but he is so mad he hasnt talked to me.
2007-01-24 08:04:56 · update #1
Take it slow. Even slower! The problems that were there before, are obviously not going anywhere, so the question is are you and him more willing to work through things then walk out on them. By the way, if he still does not forgive you then move one, honey, because this will be something that is held over your held for life. You will be better off in the long run. Next time a hottie catches your eye find out about his or her baggage, you and only you know what you can and are willing to deal with. Good Luck!
2007-01-22 06:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by tryin4freedom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're putting the cart before the horse.
First you have to get him over you moving out on him and it's not going to be easy. He's right, you should have talked to him first. The basis for any good relationship is trust and the only way to have that trust is to talk things out. I hope you have one hell of an excuse cause you're going to need it. Why would he want to move back in with you after you did that to him the first time?
It looks to me like the only way you're going to get the RIGHT help is to help yourself. You have a lot to prove to him so If I were you, I'd get my lips ready, you're going to be doing a lot of butt kissing if you want him back and to move in together.
2007-01-22 15:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please stop the drama and just move back in with the bloke. What's so hard about that?
2007-01-22 14:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what u feel
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2007-01-22 14:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋