Family & Relationships - 20 January 2007

I don't think my expectations r too high...I don't ask that ur on model status for looks, or have a brain like Einstein or a wallet like Bill Gates....I just want a guy to at least have a good personality,go to college or at least have a reasonable goal in life, have decent looks, and not be a bum...its that too much to ask for ?

2007-01-20 17:16:30 · 18 answers · asked by soulfullilangel 2 in Singles & Dating

Went out with a female friend, and met the guy she's started seeing/hanging out with for the first time (not serious). Didn't want to, but found myself really starting to like him, thought there might be some chemistry (even though I was respectful/being restrained). I noticed some insecurity/some slightly competitive words on her part, maybe she picked up on something. I wouldn't do anything to threaten the friendship/she's the one who's been getting to know him. But, when I start to feel a connection (it's an instinct, can't really decide not to have it), part of me hopes this can be a possibility somehow. But, I may never see him again, for all I know.

2007-01-20 17:15:49 · 8 answers · asked by joie_du_cor 3 in Singles & Dating

I forgot to say we live in Texas and from what I understand Texas does not have a seperation law your married until there is a divorce and in that case I cant move on cause I am still married and he says the girlfiend came after seperation . The reason we havent filed for divorce is he say he is not going to file and I said I didnt want a divorce and he said why do you want to be married to someone who doesnt want you . I would file but he makes all the money and I dont have any and dont want to go through legal aid I want someone who will get evey penny I can get

2007-01-20 17:15:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been friends with my boyfriend for a long time before we started dating. He's loved me the entire time too. But it was unrequited love.

Our first date was hanging out with a couple friends and watching a movie at my place. Towards the end, we ended up alone and just talked for a long time. It was the day I realized my feelings for him.

Our OFFICIAL anniversary is on Valentine's. I already made him a card for both events. Today, our friends made plans for next weekend saying we're gonna hang out and watch movies. Do you think that'd be kinda cute.... since we did that last year for our first date? Or should we be alone? Should I make the day a big deal? Or save all the emphasis for Valentine's Anniversary?

2007-01-20 17:15:46 · 11 answers · asked by Rita 3 in Singles & Dating

if ur go'n out with a guy and you get ready to have sex and
he is not Circumcised would you still have sex with him or leave him

2007-01-20 17:15:09 · 7 answers · asked by just_asking 1 in Singles & Dating

My last question about highschool romances and marriage had alot of feedback. I would like to know your opinions about reasons for divorce.

2007-01-20 17:14:39 · 9 answers · asked by Robert L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My last question about highschool romances and marriage had alot of feedback. I would like to know your opinions about reasons for divorce.

2007-01-20 17:13:47 · 27 answers · asked by Robert L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Is their another way that I can go and place a profile on here that is free ? Yahoo Personnels is good on here.Placing a profile is no problem. But answering a profile is the problem. Yahoo Personnel's you have to pay by credit card .But I am looking for a service that is free , anybody know?

2007-01-20 17:13:46 · 7 answers · asked by Maurice Purnell 2 in Singles & Dating

My last question about highschool romances and marriage had alot of feedback. I would like to know your opinions about reasons for divorce.

2007-01-20 17:13:07 · 20 answers · asked by Robert L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My last question about highschool romances and marriage had alot of feedback. I would like to know your opinions about reasons for divorce.

2007-01-20 17:12:33 · 12 answers · asked by Robert L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i think i fell in love with him. every time im around him its like my whole world is brighten and perfect. am i crazzy

2007-01-20 17:12:33 · 11 answers · asked by *****heart***** 2 in Singles & Dating

Omg my parents just told me their getting a divorice!
I feel sick to my stomach!
God, I feel so ****** right now!

What do I do?

I feel like effin' ****!

2007-01-20 17:11:55 · 12 answers · asked by jEfFeRsOnAiRpLaNe 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My last question about highschool romances and marriage had alot of feedback. I would like to know your opinions about reasons for divorce.

2007-01-20 17:11:46 · 3 answers · asked by Robert L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I have been married 1year now and she currently is attending graduate school full time and doesn't work. My problem is that she LOVES to spend my money! Recently shes been spending $1000 per month on personal items. This absolutely has to stop considering my net (after tax) earning is $4300 per month. I told her about it and mentioned a monthly allowance to curb her spending but she gets mad at me! What should I do?

2007-01-20 17:11:43 · 7 answers · asked by ayehoss123 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what should i do?

2007-01-20 17:11:19 · 20 answers · asked by ineedhelp!!!!!!!! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A lot of men my age have been married, then divorced paying alimony and child support. I've managed to avoid that and things are starting to happen for me career wise and finance wise.
Men tend to enter thier time of power later in life.
But I come up against a barrier when I'm flirting- "You're HOW old? And you've never been married? BYE"
I had the sense NOT to put rings on the fingers of women I've been in BAD BAD BAD relationships with. And I've never really had any good ones. I had sense enough to avoid that trap, why does that count against me?
Anyway, I'm starting to discover foreign brides and might just travel to escape this prejudice. I know there's things that can go wrong-but there's things that can and do go wrong with American women too.

2007-01-20 17:11:19 · 5 answers · asked by sharkeysports 3 in Singles & Dating

she fears death, and get's extremely upset when i try to talk to her about it or comfort her about it in any way. I however do not fear death, and some of my core beliefs relating to my own personal growth disturb her.
However, she's had a ****** up life, and i'm pretty much all she has right now, and i can't stand to break another girl's heart again... it's traumatizing...

Well, what should i do???

2007-01-20 17:11:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-20 17:10:56 · 11 answers · asked by pat t 1 in Singles & Dating

i do i think it can expose them to things they should not see at to young of an age

2007-01-20 17:10:16 · 26 answers · asked by tiffany b 2 in Family

I have a bf that we have been dating for a bit over a year. A bit after we got togethere. We had come to an agreement that if I did anything wrong( too wrong ) I would get a spanking and if he did anything wrong he would have to do dishes. Since that time I have recived a few of them. I have talked to him about it and he says it shows him that I am willing to follow him. This is what gets me. He has done things wrong, but everytime I tell him he makes excuses so he's not in trouble. Mind you that he is 17 years my senor. I have never gone through this before. I have broke up with him before for this action, but I keep going back. I'm not sure on how to handel this I don't want to lose him, but I also don't feel that it is right what happens. So am i just being plain stupid?

2007-01-20 17:09:57 · 7 answers · asked by louise_blue_eyes 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 17:09:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am a single mother who has been going out with this guy for a year. He was over the other day when my power went out along with 100000 other people. We left to get coffee and warm up. He was stressed because all the gas stations were closed and he could not get gas. I told him to calm down because he had plenty of gas and he was making me nervous. He said...maybe i should just go to my brothers house (who happened to have power). I didnt say anything but i was mad. He said..are you going to give me the silent treatment now? I did not talk. He took me home and left. I had to fend for my self for the next two days with no heat or light. Is this worthy of leaving him over.

2007-01-20 17:09:40 · 7 answers · asked by justme 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 17:09:09 · 9 answers · asked by As!Popper 2 in Singles & Dating

not download, just save...what kind of site do I need to go to??

2007-01-20 17:08:24 · 2 answers · asked by Tracey Lee ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

that you don't want to tell your parents that yall go out because they are against you dating people out of your race? I am white and he is black...I feel terrible but i dont want to not tell him but i dont know how to tell him without hurting his feelings.

2007-01-20 17:08:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you scrud up a wonderfull relationship and 2 years later you still have no contact with other woman ,and this love still hunt your mind and you try to move on but you just find out the one who hunt you got re-married and she about to have a kid?who do you do to move on in life and forget about the past?

2007-01-20 17:08:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm an 18 year old guy.. and I've never had a gf, never done a thing w/ a girl (not even a kiss).. I'm fairly shy.. like if there is a group of people around w/ girls I will usually chime in w/ 1-2 things, but everyone else talks more. I can never think of anythign funny to say..

Not only that, I'm just not very good looking. I can admit that, as much as it sucks and as unfair as i think that is. In every aspect god has **** on me.. hair, face, skin clarity, height, etc.

Tonight I just realized how badly I feel about myself.. I was at a small party with some friends, and a few drunk chicks were there. Some girl let it slip about something sexual she did, and they all started talking about some things they'd done with guys, and they were all 2 years younger than me, which just made me feel shittier.. And then everyone started talking about what they'd done and I just sat there like an idiot..

How can I make myself feel better? I want a gf, but I'm just too shy/not good looking

2007-01-20 17:08:01 · 7 answers · asked by Uh Oh 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm wondering what people's opinions are on this. I'm planning my wedding and my fiance and I can't decide weather or not to offer guests to certain people...for instance, two of our grandparents are widows, one of my aunts is a widow and hasn't ever dated anyone, and we both have younger cousins (ranging in age of 16 to 25 that do not have significant others). Do we still have to offer them guests? What is the polite thing to do?

2007-01-20 17:06:52 · 15 answers · asked by beckyt_82 1 in Weddings

I met this guy on the net 2 years ago and we talked alot and bonded really well. Then I stopped talking to him because I thought I was being really foolish for liking someone I've never met..anyway he just IMed 3 days ago and we've been talking for hours at a time ever since! im not saying I love him but is it possible to have feelings for someone you've never met?

heres the bad part..I HAVE A BOYFRIEND! that I love..so why do I really like this guy!! any advice?

2007-01-20 17:06:30 · 21 answers · asked by Tracey Lee ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

A girl that I really liked just told me that she doesn't want to talk with me anymore, not because of anything I had did, but because it's "just the way I am". I know that she's serious but I'm very depressed. How should I handle this?

2007-01-20 17:06:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating