My last question about highschool romances and marriage had alot of feedback. I would like to know your opinions about reasons for divorce.
2007-01-20 17:13:47 · 27 answers · asked by Robert L 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That would depend mostly on whether the bad sex is with the spouse or with someone else. Or if the spouse if having bad sex with someone else. The latter 2 would definately be grounds for divorce.
2007-01-20 17:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by b_plenge 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No need for a divorce, especially if you really love her. There had to be more than sex that made you want to marry here. It is time to do some teaching and some listening. You need to tell her and show her what you like, want, and need and you need to ask her the same questions. If it is that bad, it can only get better. Do some experimenting. Make it fun, don't make it work.
2007-01-20 17:19:30 · answer #2 · answered by King of Stinkville 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad sex is not a reason for divorce. What about the love you share? There must have been something attracting the two other than the thought of sex... right? No, definitely not a good reason.
2007-01-20 17:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No.. but it will definately make u feel like divorcing lol.. but again , it shouldnt be the bases of a marriage.. and the vows u take didnt say "and promise to be great in bed forever" so no its not a good reason to divorce, there are only few good reasons to divorce..
Physical harm , infedelity..and harm to your children...and or their safety...
2007-01-20 17:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That or no sex. For some it is not important. For me it is. My ex was pretty inhibited and I was lucky to get it once a month. We did not have kids together though. I can tell you that changes things a lot. When you have to choose between not seeing your kids, and not having good/enough sex, a lot of people just stay married and step out on their spouse so they can live with their childern full time.
2007-01-20 17:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When there are issues to be resolved within a marriage, I believe both partners need to do whatever is necessary to try to resolve these issues. If resolution is impossible, for both partners, then I suppose a divorce may be a consideration.
2007-01-20 17:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, If that was the case I would have left my husband 2 years ago. I just let the love, affection and financial security make for the bad sex.
2007-01-20 18:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by Kia25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If both of you have had "good" sex before you got together then yes. Bad sex usually implies there's something else going on. So you either find out what is the underlying problem or you bail. Your choice.
2007-01-20 17:20:07 · answer #8 · answered by pjvthatsme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Bad sex can be cured. Sex is a learned skill. A couple that has spent years together building something should not give up. They should get some help! There are plenty of resources available.
2007-01-20 17:16:48 · answer #9 · answered by F 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you should be able to work on that.
If people are unwilling to work on it to make it better, than the bad sex is just a symptom, not the real reason behind the divorce.
2007-01-20 17:18:55 · answer #10 · answered by EQ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋