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2007-01-20 17:10:56 · 11 answers · asked by pat t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not about attraction. Its just that when you tell a guy of your problems who is sensitive and emotional he understands better and helps you with solutions unlike guys who are less sensitive and emotional who will probably try to cheer you up and shove off the problem, but for the women we will be wondering if he understood what we told them. Anyway opinions differ. I would like a man to be sensitive as and when it has to be.
2007-01-20 17:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women love to talk. Emotional sensitive guys like to talk. Its the same reason women love to have gay men as best friends. We love to hear about how a guy really FEELS. Women are emotional and we want to be able to relate to a man on that same level. It makes us feel connected. We love connections.
2007-01-20 17:18:00 · answer #2 · answered by Maggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for you .... it is not your fault that there is a repeat with this second boyfriend... that should be just a coincidense . Never mind the situation; try to fight it out and spread an air of happiness around you at all times ... try to narrate good jokes during your meetings... try to mix with other jovial friends and fetch light entertainment. Why not start dancing lessons for example ?? I assure you that this would be extremely relaxing-- it won't leave him time to brood on anything but he'd rather concentrate on new steps of the lesons you 'd undergo of ballroom/latin/sequence/linedancing. If all this would not help, the only way out to look at more 'fertile pastures' is simply to cease seeing this guy. It wouild be painful at first but do not remain there and ruin yourself in the process .. From the way you wrote I feel sure you deserve a better deal .. Good luck
2016-05-24 03:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what those two are talking about...women want a strong man that is sensitive at the same time. Women show alot more of their emotions then men do, we just want someone who will understand use is all. :)
2007-01-20 17:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by Tracey Lee ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ask me they scare me, and I run the opposite direction. I prefer a guy who will treat me right, but take controll sometimes and not beg at my feet, but I also don't want them to expect me to beg at their feet. Sensitive and emotional guys are weird, girls are sensitive enough, and emotional, we need to feel like we can curl up in man's arms and cry, without him crying too. (unless of course they just lost a child or something) I had a boyfriend, who was incredably emotional and dramatic, I could have sworn he was gay. I almost thought I was a cover up! Every time his ex would say something to him he would start crying and tell her to shut up and leave him alone. It scared the crpa outta me, and I didn't want any part of it. I dumped him quick and escaped the drama, but now he's back and beggin me to give him another chance. but wait I dumped him, if I wanted him back shouldn't I be saying give me another chance? I want a good strong man who isn't afraid to take controll, and tell me what to do everyonce and awhile. We want someone to listen to us and understand us.
2007-01-20 17:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to your question is not much. Those women who want a mate who is weak and emotional are referred to as lesbians.
2007-01-20 17:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm well I only date a guy if I am attractied once I see him for the first time or talk to him. So just be yourself.
2007-01-20 17:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that there so much of either of those 2 thngs, its just that they're straight forward and it makes life easier!!
2007-01-20 20:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by ஐKatஐ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dose not attract me
2007-01-20 17:23:21 · answer #9 · answered by nicola f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their hearts.
2007-01-20 17:34:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋