Family & Relationships - 20 January 2007

Firstly I am a Hindu.I truly Love my cousin.Its no infatuation,but TRUE Love.She also Loves me a lot.My father is no more in this world,but my mother is open about my decision.My cousin's father(not her mother)is also open to it.But we both live in a joint family(with many members),who I know will not agree to it.They could also turn to violence to nail their view.I know our religion does not allow for such marriages,but I Love her even more than I Love my own life.I cannot see a future without her.I haven't informed of this intention to any of my other uncle's.I'm studying now & wish to marry her after getting a job.But due to some reason,I don't know what(she won't tell me),she is shying from this relationship.But I cannot live without her.I also cry at night(boy's also have hearts that bleed when pierced).She won't talk to me anymore.I REALLY miss her.Plz,tell me how to get her back...Plz,Plz.........

2007-01-20 17:06:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if u were a guy.....what would u like a girl to do to u?

2007-01-20 17:05:57 · 8 answers · asked by *-*Nikki*-* 3 in Singles & Dating

alright here we go.. is it the guys job to bring the condom or the girls? even if there is no plan on having sex who should be resposible?

2007-01-20 17:05:52 · 21 answers · asked by jackdanielschik17 2 in Singles & Dating

If your boyfriend just told you that he loved you last night and today you asked him what he rated you on a scale of one to ten, ten being the highest, and he said that you were an eight. How would that make you feel? Yeah, he was being honest, but wow, what a slap in the face. What do you think women?

2007-01-20 17:05:24 · 9 answers · asked by smiles 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been happily married 16 yrs to a wonderful man anyways for almost a yr i have been chatting online with a guy from another state of course i would NEVER meet this guy or cheat on hubby but me and this guy talk about personal stuff..hubby knows i chat with other guys but doesnt bother him 1 bit however i think it would bother him about the stuff me and this guy talks about.........would this be considered emotional cheating..I dont have feelings for this guy cause i could never love any man other then hubby but i like chatting with him.

2007-01-20 17:05:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a brother who is much younger me, i am 30yrs old and my brother is 21yrs old, and when he was 14 i broke the news to him that my dad was not his dad. My father kidnapped me from my mother when i was very young so i thought by telling him that my dad wasn't his real dad that he could gain what i hadn't when he was young. I also thought he deserved to know who his real dad was and if he decided to find him it was up to him. My father has since told him lies and brainwashed him and told him stuff about me that isn't true like he said he found me in a park and kept me, and has not spoken to me since and i am 30yrs old. Was i wrong for telling my brother about his real dad even tho he was 14 yr old?

2007-01-20 17:04:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Can someone tuck me in?

2007-01-20 17:04:30 · 9 answers · asked by crazycul1 5 in Singles & Dating

ok i like this guy at school hes realy cut and wll iv never talked to him and hes go to my school for 2 years how can i get him to notice me?

2007-01-20 17:04:27 · 7 answers · asked by Lovergirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok...I like this one guy...but hes crazy after another girl. Hes already gone out with her in like fifth grade I think. & this girl...shes kinda like a sslutt. Idkk how to put it. Even if she has a boyfriend...shell flirt with someone else...shes had sex more than three times & were both only in eigth grade. But anyway...she kinda likes him still. & shes always holding his hand and all. She will like NEVER leave him alone! I wanna make myself better than the other girl. Problem is...is that shes prettier...has WAY bigger boobs...has a big butt...& is about the most popular girl in the school. What could be more better than that? I mean seriously...theres like no chance of that guy liking me. I try to do things at school so he looks at me & stuff...but I dont think its working. Any advice on how to do this?

2007-01-20 17:03:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not ok with it and just wondering if thats really uncommon.

2007-01-20 17:03:30 · 18 answers · asked by fslcaptain737 4 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever wrapped your panties or pantyhose over a guy's face and rubbed your crotch up and down it?

As far as taking off your panties and smothering his face with them on it, do you find that hot or not?

2007-01-20 17:02:38 · 2 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked about an old friend to see if they were ok & If she was telling the truth she said don't worry about him & she's his wife . Not sure if she3 was mad or what . My point I donly wanted to see how this person was doing & she seemed snappy. I feel she should be glad someone was concerned enoguh to care .

2007-01-20 17:02:20 · 8 answers · asked by pammybear1971 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so there's this guy whos in one of my classes that i like. he's not like a complete stranger im friends with his sister, his dad is a teacher of one of my classes and he does track and so do i. but i usually dont talk to him. occasinoally ill say hi or something like that. and i usually see him around school. and it seems like everytime i look at him he's already looking at me. so it seems like he stares at me alot. he's shy and so am i so its kinda hard for me to talk to him. so what do you think i should do? and do you think he likes me?

2007-01-20 17:02:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for over 20 years and my husband is having an affair - I need to find a cheap private investigator near Sidcup or South East London.

2007-01-20 17:02:02 · 6 answers · asked by rafters 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm not saying he was better off, i'm just asking. after all, he had opportunity to escape easily, but didn't. he got to play video games instead of going to school, he got to have piercings (i don't like piercings, but maybe shawn did,) he got to have a cool haircut and cool clothes (since changed to a seemingly parent-mandated dork-*** look.) ofcourse, abuse would ruin all of this, but what if the only abuse was the original kidnapping? all speculation, of course.

2007-01-20 17:01:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I day dream sometimes about being kissed spontaneously by anyone. I also sometimes feel like kissing others out of the blue. What would you do if someone just came up to you and kissed you? would you be flattered, confused, or disgusted?

2007-01-20 17:00:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ihave been seeing this guy for 5 months. He knows that I got a broken heart from a previous relationship. That man happens to be my baby daddy. I talk to the baby daddy occasionally and my new guy gets mad. Anyways late last night at 2:00 am baby daddy text messaged. I was with the new guy and the new guy asked to see what it said. All it said was wake up. New guy was mad and text messaged back "for what". Baby daddy responded for some big *** dick. I am not messing with my kid’s dad but new guy did not believe me. Is there anything I can tell new guy to make it right? We were arguing all night long about this. Any advice on how to make him believe me. My kid’s dad doesn’t want any thing to do with my son. But I still talk to him. And the new guy says I shouldn’t be talking to him. I called baby daddy in front of new guy. But new guy still wasn’t convinced.

2007-01-20 17:00:26 · 9 answers · asked by rosiejac 3 in Singles & Dating

Been a long time and she is still married, with 2 kids. I am divorced with 2 kids, but still have feelings for her after all this time.

2007-01-20 17:00:19 · 19 answers · asked by Robert L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok should I email the girlfriend and let her know that the man she is invoved with is married or should I leave it alone and by the way we are seperated.

2007-01-20 17:00:18 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

am so in love with this guy who has a girlfriend, Its not about wanting what I cant have because I loved him before he was with her and by time I worked up the guts to tell him how I feel, he was with her. But he seemed so happy when I told him I liked him. He told me his relationship with his g/f was bad, shes obsessed, and shes too young for him, and I believe him because hes not a liar. But the thing is as long as hes happy, I'm happy because I love him and want him to be with whoever he wants to even if it isnt me. My question is if were supposed to be together, will it happen and how do I move on right now?

2007-01-20 16:59:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I put my cousin (21) in jail for indecent assult on my 4 year old daughter. I have lost all my family members because of this. I will not go into detail about what happened for safety reasons. But he hurt her really bad. Now my family will not speak to me. I know I did what was right for my daughter. But why doesn't the family see ti that way?

2007-01-20 16:59:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

by the kind of questions that arebeing asked now im not sure if theres someone here with experience of this... anyways i asked something about this before and one answer got me thinking. Guys: do you easily come just having sex? my boyfriend has the foreskin and its been hard for him to come just having sex.. one guy said that maybe because im too wide.. and nope Im not... any suggestions how can help him come while having sex? Thanks

2007-01-20 16:59:03 · 3 answers · asked by Aija 4 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend are engaged but coulndt afford an egagement ring and two wedding bands. so we finally saved up enough for 2 wedding bands but i keep seeing these really pretty engagemnt rings. would it be innapropriate to buy him a wedding band and me an engagement ring and just wear the engagement ring with no wedding band?

2007-01-20 16:58:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

its been a really rough beginning for the new year. my huse was broken into on new years eve, my secret stash (that wasnt so secret) of money was taken sentimental jewelry that my father gave me b4 he passed my ss card and birth cirtificate was also taken. im unble to work because due to herniated disks in my neck i get migrane headaches because of this tht make me sick to mt stomach that the only thing that makes me feel better is going to sleep me and my husband have been arguing like cats and dogs because of trust issues and to top it off the apt. that i live in the landlord is selling the house and the buyers want it empty by march 1 my husband is on disability and is half crippled due to a nasty accident and cant work how is this supposed to happen if the money i had stashed was stolen? we dont have a lease so i dont know if i can take this case to court to extend the date of us having to move. any thoughts or how i can get things to work out in my favor? thanx for all thoughts.

2007-01-20 16:57:26 · 10 answers · asked by blue 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-20 16:57:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex and I broke up a few months ago, and it was messy. He's very manipulative (he's an actor- he manipulates emotions for a living). Three times while we were dating I was approached by a girl and told that he had slept with them while I was dating him. One provided a picture she shouldn't have had, one had a voice recording and the other had IMs she had saved. (I even got a call from one of their mothers!)He talked himself out of it all three times. I'm not that gullible.. he's just really good at inventing perfect excuses.

Anyway, now he's dating two girls, both of whom I know casually. One he used to make fun of behind her back. He called her T-rex (she's a big girl), and made cracks about how she was trying to eat his fraternity brothers, and about how she was worthless because she's fat. My question is- do I tell her? He's really good at getting himself out of this sort of thing, and I don't have solid proof. How do I avoid being that 'crazy ex girlfriend'?

2007-01-20 16:56:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my girlfriend very much and she knows that, but i wish i could do something more to tell her that i love her. i tell her i love you all the time but to me that word is short compared to what i feel for her. how can i let her know how much i adore her besides telling her???? what can i give her as a present that would look nice and meaningful that would make her fall head over heels??

2007-01-20 16:55:12 · 8 answers · asked by MAX 3 in Singles & Dating

How many cases of parents not wanting thier 14 year old to date.
Or of parents not wanting a kid to go out with friends ever.
Parents not wanting kids to have a life, the ones who want thier child to sit at a computer eating cookie dough and wasting away his childhood.

I can somewhat understand the dating thing for SOME ages but all of these other things like secrets in general. crushes. all of these things

Why should kids be forced to not have social lives. Im not saying this for everyone but some individuals. what kind of bullshit is it to tell someone, well ur parents love you and you should respect thier wishes you live under thier roof.

Most kids probably wouldnt live under thier parents roof if it was thier choice but its not so why is it that they have to hold our helplessness over our head and try to control us like that.
respect i understand but slavery i dont..

2007-01-20 16:54:51 · 4 answers · asked by not me but you 3 in Family

My son and his girlfriend broke up around the first of Dec. But the way it was done, was in good faith, They remained friends and we're on speaking terms, My sons pay's me rent, for the room he has, and also helps with groc, etc. About 2 weeks ago, we had some bad weather and she was unable to drive home, because of icey road and snow, He asked if she could stay here, and I agreed. Well during this time I have gotten really close to her and I look at her now as part of the family, well my son and her got into a small spat, and she told him that she was sorry for acting the way she did etc..Now all this time I am asumming that they are back together, and everything is ok. She has not lefted my home even tho weather has been better for the last 4 days, and I also want to say that she has been a great help to me, for I have been ill and my car has broke down, so she has been cleaning and doing errands for me.. Anyway my son went out with another girl last night, while she was out with her

2007-01-20 16:54:39 · 4 answers · asked by Diana J 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am so in love with this guy who has a girlfriend, Its not about wanting what I cant have because I loved him before he was with her and by time I worked up the guts to tell him how I feel, he was with her. But he seemed so happy when I told him I liked him. He told me his relationship with his g/f was bad, shes obsessed, and shes too young for him, and I believe him because hes not a liar. But the thing is as long as hes happy, I'm happy because I love him and want him to be with whoever he wants to even if it isnt me. My question is if were supposed to be together, will it happen and how do I move on right now?

2007-01-20 16:54:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating