I have been happily married 16 yrs to a wonderful man anyways for almost a yr i have been chatting online with a guy from another state of course i would NEVER meet this guy or cheat on hubby but me and this guy talk about personal stuff..hubby knows i chat with other guys but doesnt bother him 1 bit however i think it would bother him about the stuff me and this guy talks about.........would this be considered emotional cheating..I dont have feelings for this guy cause i could never love any man other then hubby but i like chatting with him.
2007-01-20 17:05:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok i understand what everybody is saying but it would NEVER get more serious i love my husband and would never leave him for another man especially from online
2007-01-20 18:01:10 · update #1
Im sure it wouldnt hurt hubby if he knew what me and this guy talk about but im sure he wouldnt like it
2007-01-20 18:04:14 · update #2
Well how do you think your husband would react if he knew what you were talking about with this other man? would it hurt him or would he be happy about it? just admit to yourself that yes you are cheating...cheating is cheating emotionally and/or physically...either way your getting personal and intimate talk with someone other than your spouse...give up internet fantasyland lady, live in the real world and dont hurt your hubby over something like this if you know in your heart you dont want to be with anyone else other than him.
2007-01-20 17:54:12 · answer #1 · answered by ღCCღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur talking to this man about things that are on a "personal or intimate" level yes ur emotionally cheating on ur husband, if its just the run of the mill chit chat, then no.. ask urself if what u talk to this guy about would offend, or hurt your husband if the answer is yes.. then u know u shouldnt be talking to this man about such things and need to end it before it gets more serious..
2007-01-20 17:10:49 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you truly think you can keep from getting any kind of feelings or "ideas" about this online dude, then I suppose it's fine; however, I would NOT discuss personal stuff with him. Just consider how you would feel if your hubby started talking online to some woman about your intimate "stuff".
I know I wouldn't like it and it probably isn't worth the potential harm.
2007-01-20 17:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 21:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be happily married while talking personally to another man for over a year. I dont get it.
2007-01-20 17:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are playing with fire. I think you already know this. If you are married to a wonderful man, why risk hurting him by airing your business to a complete stranger? It is still a betrayal of confidence. Talk to your husband instead!
2007-01-20 17:10:18 · answer #6 · answered by cakekweeny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you cant honestly tell your husband what you discuss with this man, then its not appropriate. i understand that he may just be a good friend to you, but thats how other things start. a lot of men have alterior motives. i dont keep secrets from my husband. hes my best friend.
2007-01-20 17:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should take a brave decision to drop this matter caz it will b creating future problem mind it.
2007-01-20 17:23:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋