My ex and I broke up a few months ago, and it was messy. He's very manipulative (he's an actor- he manipulates emotions for a living). Three times while we were dating I was approached by a girl and told that he had slept with them while I was dating him. One provided a picture she shouldn't have had, one had a voice recording and the other had IMs she had saved. (I even got a call from one of their mothers!)He talked himself out of it all three times. I'm not that gullible.. he's just really good at inventing perfect excuses.
Anyway, now he's dating two girls, both of whom I know casually. One he used to make fun of behind her back. He called her T-rex (she's a big girl), and made cracks about how she was trying to eat his fraternity brothers, and about how she was worthless because she's fat. My question is- do I tell her? He's really good at getting himself out of this sort of thing, and I don't have solid proof. How do I avoid being that 'crazy ex girlfriend'?
2007-01-20 16:56:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For the record, I dumped him, he cried like a baby and I started dating someone new. It isn't about revenge or getting him back. I just feel bad for those poor girls!
2007-01-20 16:57:50 · update #1
Think about this If you were that girl would you want her to tell you???????? I would, but be careful she might think you want her man back.
2007-01-20 17:04:26 · answer #1 · answered by Chicana 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I will say when I answered this question 30 minutes ago. The answer is no.
You did not believe it when you were presented with the truth, why should these other girls.
For someone who now has a great new boyfriend you seem real interested in getting all involved with your ex and all his drama.
They'll find out on their own and when they finally wise up they'll dump him like you did.
Move on...revenge is never a good thing.
PS...IF you do say something your ex will know or think you still care and so will his new g/f
In the end he will have gotten the best of you again...by making you look like the bad guy.
Trust me, this girl will believe whatever he tells her and not believe you.
Be thankful you got away from him and found someone new who treats you well.
Stop worrying about your ex and his new g/f.
What are you going to do go through the rest of your life warning every girl he dates for the next 10 years!
2007-01-20 17:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy! Let the cat out of the bag!!!Remember you can always be anonymous, and just let the wheels start turning. Oh yeah if ya have a cam phone, record the action that plays out and put it out on you tube and just narrate what goes on.
2007-01-20 17:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas Zollars 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, in life there are all kinds of messes. One thing we should
learn from them is how not to step into it again. You've done
what you needed to do to get out of this mess. I'd strongly
advise you to stay out of it rather than stay involved in what
all he's doing.
2007-01-20 17:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by Northwest Womps 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His new girlfriend will find out eventually what a loser he is. If you say anything to her, she will likely just dismiss you as being bitter or jealous.
2007-01-20 17:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by ms_quiltsalot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why be a beecth. Why do you even care? Women suck. None of your business, idiot
2007-01-20 17:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by Petarded 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her. I would want to know if some guy was doing that to me.
2007-01-20 17:02:12 · answer #7 · answered by jungfreudrogers 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, tell them. Crush his dreams.
2007-01-20 17:07:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes because nobody deserves to be cheated on...do it by saying what feels right
2007-01-20 17:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell her and dont let her get her feeling hurt
BYE
2007-01-20 17:02:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋