alright here we go.. is it the guys job to bring the condom or the girls? even if there is no plan on having sex who should be resposible?
2007-01-20 17:05:52 · 21 answers · asked by jackdanielschik17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is no ones "job"... if you are a responsible girl and care about your health you will always have condoms with you so that you will be prepared and never even be tempted to have unsafe sex in the heat of the moment.
That is how babies are made and that is how STDs are contracted.
Your local health department and Planned parenthood have them for free! Just go stock up on them and make sure you pay attention to the expiration dates on them (they do expire).
In a perfect world all men would respect you enough to keep condoms with them but that doesn't always happen so just take care of yourself girl! Plus, guys usually carry them in their wallets and that is bad for them... the heat will break them down and you could have a failure.
2007-01-20 17:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the responsibility of whomever does want to suffer the consequences. As a guy, I have no desire to use a condom and will, frankly, take a risk. Only after a suggestion will I do it. And I'm probably one of the guys who is most understanding about it, so most guys won't want to wear a condom.
Also, if more than one person is responsible, then no one is responsible, because the each person thinks someone else will take care of the responsibility. In other words, one person will have to take it upon themselves to be the responsible party.
Frankly, I think a woman out to take it upon themselves to do, because I know a guy won't do it. Guys take risks, but women are much more likely to receive an STD from an infected man than a man from an infected woman. It's basic human mechanics. And it's the woman who gets pregnant. So a guy can take all the risks and suffer none of the consequences.
I'm not saying that a guy shouldn't take some of the responsibility. He should and he's a dope and a selfish jerk if he doesn't. But guys are guys and expect that a guy won't bring it and won't want to bring it. A smart guy might convince a woman to have sex with him if he brings a condom, but a lot of guys aren't so smart. As such, a woman isn't very bright if she doesn't carry one around (discretely, of course). A guy probably won't be any help.
2007-01-20 17:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by Erik B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the males job to bring the protection. Though its always safe for yourself to bring one as well just in case it is forgotten or breaks. It doesnt make either of you look like you sleep around, as it only shows you are both careful and want each person to enjoy it with no worries.
2007-01-20 17:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by bluetinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, yeah? i'm a woman and the two a fighter pilot and a fashion designer lol. and much extra to that. How do you divide which jobs are for adult males and that are for females??!! all of us ARE the very comparable. that's purely the cultural fashions and stupid thinking like this (devoid of sorry), that divides human beings. it is not SEXIST purely it is barely very stupid and lacking authentic know-how approximately certainly everybody and females specially. it is not your fault purely in spite of the undeniable fact that (no longer which you do no longer must be plenty extra open and comprehend). that's the society's incorrect teachings and behavioral fashions who teach human beings incorrect, and later certainly everybody asks the place ARE THE VALUES? what's occurring? all of us ARE the very comparable human beings - females and adult males. i'm very resourceful and much into splendor and arts/arts, what any and each woman does. i'm plenty into technical and scientific stuff too in spite of the undeniable fact that still and each and all of the stuff traditionally believed to be "guy's" purely section. So your question is absolute nonsense.
2016-10-07 11:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both. Most men carry them around anyway and a woman should probably have a few on hand just in case. Both are having sex so both should be responsible.
2007-01-20 17:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the girls should bring the protection. Guys can't be trusted with stuff like that, though they should be.
2007-01-21 02:55:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it would be both a guys and girls job. its not fair to say its only one person's responsibility, even though i'd love to say its the guys responsibility. it would be best if you're both prepared just in case he forgets. its not fun to be caugh in a situation like that.
2007-01-20 17:11:15 · answer #7 · answered by mikebalzaryismyidol 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well to me it always seems like the guy has the condom but i think it's because guys think of sex more often than girls
2007-01-20 17:09:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would prefer the guy to bring it. (he is the one who has to wear it!) i always carry a couple with me in case tho.
2007-01-20 17:10:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the guys responsibilty, but it wouldnt hurt if you came prepared just in case!
2007-01-20 17:09:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋