I am so in love with this guy who has a girlfriend, Its not about wanting what I cant have because I loved him before he was with her and by time I worked up the guts to tell him how I feel, he was with her. But he seemed so happy when I told him I liked him. He told me his relationship with his g/f was bad, shes obsessed, and shes too young for him, and I believe him because hes not a liar. But the thing is as long as hes happy, I'm happy because I love him and want him to be with whoever he wants to even if it isnt me. My question is if were supposed to be together, will it happen and how do I move on right now?
2007-01-20 16:54:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since he knows how you feel, but is apparently still with the other girl, keep yourself occupied with girlfriends and fun activities. Maybe you will meet someone else in the process, or maybe after a bit, he will contact you and say he'd like to see you because he broke up with the other girl. Remain friendly but a little aloof in the mean time.
2007-01-20 17:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by Safira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to wake up! If you really love him, you can't possibly be o.k. with the fact that he's with someone else. That's the fairytale part!
Second, If he "doesn't lie" then he would have gotten himself out this bad relationship that he's in and made himself available to you.
But of course that hasn't happened because he knows that you would believe him if he told you the sky was purple.
P.S. "He is a liar"
2007-01-21 01:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont push it. If it is meant to happen it will. In the mean time, go on with your life without making any moves or decisions based on what he does. If you push it...it will cause trust problems later!
2007-01-21 00:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by justme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your cards on the table. It sounds like you have a good chance at getting your man :)
2007-01-21 00:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing happens unless we make it happen. Neither one of you is married. If you really love him then go for him. Do what you need to do.
2007-01-21 00:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to chill out trust me im probably your age. if hes with someone wait till it blows over doesnt sound like its going to hold out to much longer anyways. and be patient. i no i have no right to say this cause being patient isnt my strong point. if hes worth it and you love him like you say than wait around.
2007-01-21 00:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by Lynn W 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Experiment. Enjoy life. I could give you a few pointers if you called on me
2007-01-21 00:59:26 · answer #7 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋