Family & Relationships - 20 January 2007

do you love jesus

2007-01-20 16:31:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my bestfriend and i are 16, and he told me that he was diagnosed with cancer, and that he was gay and that he loved me and that he had 3-4 months to live, and that he was telling me because he wanted me to know. And he asked me if i would sleep with him? Should I? And can a st8 guy have gay sex, can he think of a girl does that work, or just watch porn or something?

2007-01-20 16:31:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my bestfriend and i are 16, and he told me that he was diagnosed with cancer, and that he was gay and that he loved me and that he had 3-4 months to live, and that he was telling me because he wanted me to know. And he asked me if i would sleep with him? Should I? And can a st8 guy have gay sex, can he think of a girl does that work, or just watch porn or something?

2007-01-20 16:31:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

early this year, i became friends with a girl in my math class. we were cool and everything, she even gave me advice about guys and dating... .anyway, she recently started asking me if she could put make up on me and then she told me (not suggested, but actually demanded it!) to cut my hair, get side-swept bangs, and dye it! now i feel very awkward around her! she recently sat behind me in class, played around with my hair, then asked to put make up on me during class! i can't avoid her, but i don't know what to do! help!

2007-01-20 16:30:27 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have never loved a girl the way I love her. I broke up with her last week, thinking I no longer liked her. It didn't take much time for me to realize what an awful mistake I had made, and how miserable I was without her. Last night, a week later, I sat her down and told her how I felt. She said she needed time to think. Today, we talked again, and she said that while she still loved me, but was afraid to get back together because she was scared I would break her heart again. This makes no sense to me. I begged and pleaded with her but she said she just couldn't do it. This kills me. Not only have I lost the one person who's made me happier than anyone else, it's all my fault. What am I going to do?

2007-01-20 16:30:20 · 8 answers · asked by Greg 1 in Singles & Dating

After so much thought and years of unhappiness, I have decided that it would be best to seperate. But I am sooo scared to tell him. Just a few weeks ago, he quit his meds cold turkey, including anti depressants. I am especially nervous about his reaction now. BUT, why cant I muster the courage to say what I need to?

2007-01-20 16:30:12 · 5 answers · asked by azzur15 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me n this girl im kinda talking 2 ...well more like lack of ....we talked on thursday nite ... she was getting sick n was gettin drowsy off her medicine so she told me she'd call me tomorrow... instead i called her n ask'd how she was doing... i d k if it was awkard or not but i ask'd her ...no more like told her...i wish there was something i could do for you to make u feel better... in a flirty kinda way...i didn really mean nething just if she needed nething i was there to help... we didnt really have much to say after that n the call jus become a random convo instead of flirting around like it usally is... thn it kinda ended when she said she had to go n she'd call me back later.. but its been like 2 days...should i call her...i dont wanna seem needy...but i was thinking about her and don't kno why she mite have not call'd me back?

2007-01-20 16:30:09 · 6 answers · asked by zakattak 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you go out with a Wiccan

2007-01-20 16:28:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my parents are arguing and i need a solution to make them stop. i don' t know what to say. we are poor and basically arguing about money and support

2007-01-20 16:28:33 · 7 answers · asked by Ryan 3 in Family

i m 18 and i recently called quits to my relationship with my boyfriend,he did nothing to offend me seriously and didn't even look at another girl besides me,he was so trustworthy,loyal and so loving,totally committed to me.he even told me about his plan to marry me someday.i too liked him and was fond of him,until now.i came out here for my college and he stayed back in our home-town and suddenly i became so frustrated with his conversations and started avoiding him,finally i dumped him.i heard that he is in a bad shape due to our break-up and i didn't wanna hurt him but couldn't help it.i m so confused about this.what happened?did i fall out of love with him???what??help!!!

2007-01-20 16:27:28 · 18 answers · asked by sasha 1 in Singles & Dating

i was gonna go with my boyfriend this his friends bday party.I thought that he was gonna pick me up and drive over there,but as it turns out he wanted me to go to his house first and then he would drive other there,but his house is far from where i live and taking a cab over there is expensive and all so im guessing he wanted me to take the bus.which takes a century to get to his house and he knows i have a ton of chores to do on saturdays,and by the time im fininished and catch the bus and be at his house it would b too late.I dont know why he just coudnt come here and pick me up,since he has a car.I think thats a reallly mean thing for him to do.Should i be mad at him?or is this just a silly thing to be mad about

2007-01-20 16:27:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in high school. My friends constantly are fighting with each other. She is mad at her, she isnt talking to her, ect...And every day people are mad at someone else. They fight over boys, grades, clothing, and the stupidest things! But the next day, everyone is all huggy and "oh i love ur outfit" "nice shoes". What is wrong with them and how do i stop it?!

2007-01-20 16:26:46 · 16 answers · asked by Music~Is~Life! 2 in Friends

Why is he talking to me?
My ex and I broke up ages ago. He is dating another girl. He deleted me off his msn list and I deleted him off mine. He doesn't know I know this. He has sent me two emails in the last month. The first, he wished me a happy new year and merry x-mas. (I'm Jewish and that didn't matter)_ The second said I haven't heard from you, what's up and merry christmas and happy new year.
We were never really friends, we just made out a lot and dated 6months (more or less).
I don't want to be friends with him bc it will just hurt me. Why is he persistant on being my friend if we wern't friends to begin with? I'm just curious...
A guys perspective would be good. We never slept together either. Does he want to see if his new gf is better than me or does he want me? Thanks

2007-01-20 16:26:35 · 8 answers · asked by optimistic 1 in Singles & Dating

going down on a girl so much? I always feel kind of sorry for guys, but it's like they have to do it? Why?

2007-01-20 16:26:20 · 9 answers · asked by Lalalalalala 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok why is my husband so obsessed with anal sex? He asks for it on a daily basis and he even trys to buy anal sex, like how much money or what could I give you for anal sex. I tell him that if hurts and that if he dont belive me to let me do it to him. What can I do to make him understand that it just doesn't do anything for me?

2007-01-20 16:25:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Yesterday, we had a half day at school, and this guy that has had a crush on me since the beginning of the year asked me if I had anything to do afterschool. I told him I didn't and he said, "Would you like to hang out with me and maybe see a movie or something?" and I said sure. We exchanged numbers, and I called him up so we could discuss the time and the movie. At first, things were awkward, but then he put his arm around me and we held hands for the rest of the movie. Then we hung around the mall together and walked around at first. Towards the end, we sat on these chairs and just talked for a little over an hour. At the end of the night, we hugged eachother goodbye. I also invited him to go to a dance with me in a few weeks and he said he'd love to go. I had a great time with him and I said we'd have to do it again and he agreed and said it was a ton of fun. I am not sure if this is a relationship yet or not and I need to know what some of you guys think.

2007-01-20 16:25:16 · 19 answers · asked by +♪♫ rip my jeans.not my ♥ ♫♪+ 3 in Singles & Dating

sex befor we dated. but we have been 2gether 4 11 months and we are engaged. are we doomed for failure and will we work. i think we can make it.

2007-01-20 16:24:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-20 16:24:43 · 4 answers · asked by janetrmi 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I love him with all my heart. I really thought he was the one for me. He has been going through some hard life situations over the last year. I have stuck by him and we have always been there for each other. Over the last few months, he has been hurtful to himself as well as me. He is getting in his own way of success. I feel like I enable him to do so. I want to be with him and I want us to be happy, but I have been so unhappy for the last few months. I feel like it is unhealthy for me and us to remain so unhappy, so I know I need to end things, even if that means I lose him forever...(and at this point, he is all I have.) I think at this rate, I may be on that path anyway.

Please give me some words of strength and encouragement, because tomorrow when we talk, I know I am going to get scared of being without him, and not do what I need to do.

2007-01-20 16:24:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 16:23:57 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-20 16:22:53 · 9 answers · asked by lalahappybunny 2 in Singles & Dating

i think the title says it all.. do guys like unique names?
random question :]

2007-01-20 16:22:43 · 7 answers · asked by helpishere 3 in Singles & Dating

I am dating a boy that is 2 and a half years older than me I am a freshmen and he is a senior. I have kind of lost my group of friends. they don't look at me the same anymore. I only have my best friends. When I didn't have my best friend one day I went to my old best friend and asked her if I could sit at their table to eat because I didn't want to be alone. When I talked to my friend she said that that kind of hurt her feelings because she felt I only went to her because my best friend wasn't there that day. I miss that group:(. I want to go back but I like this boy a lot. I mean a lot a lot. HELP ME!

2007-01-20 16:22:34 · 1 answers · asked by sistermoon 4 in Friends

My boyfriend and I have been together for two months... and all was great until this week. He used to send me long, sweet emails every day and call me on nights when he didn't have too much homework, but now the emails are short and he doesn't call anymore. He says he's busy, or hanging out w/the guys, but I can't help feeling like something is wrong. We both had a stressful week with school and weren't in the best of moods, but is that all it is? He has told me before that he would NEVER cheat, because we've both been cheated on and know how much it hurts, and I know he wasn't lying. But he hasn't been the most considerate lately - when he calls during the day he doesn't see that I'm upset we don't talk longer than five minutes, but in person he is just as passionate as ever with kissing, etc. I'm afraid our relationship is going to go all physical. Can someone tell me what's going on in his head?? I don't want to break up w/him... I care about him so much... am I overreacting or not?

2007-01-20 16:20:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-20 16:20:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I just moved into a new apartment, and there is a girl who is about my age who lives one door over. We have talked a couple times and both times have been very pleasant. I would like to get to know her better, but i have no idea how i should do it... any ideas?

2007-01-20 16:20:18 · 7 answers · asked by Max C 4 in Singles & Dating

is that a bad thing me doing that because the longest relationship i had was 1 year and he broke my heart i wasnt depressed or nuthin but i was pissed off.

2007-01-20 16:19:17 · 10 answers · asked by B@by G!rl 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay...I met this guy and we went out the last 2 weekends and I had so much fun. Last weekend we did a bunch of out door stuff during the day and my jeans were pretty muddy. Luckily I had clean ones in the car and changed later at his place. Before I went home he said just to leave the jeans and he'd wash them for me and give them to me later. Also before I left he asked me if I could take a pair of his pants home w/ me and sew the button back on them and I said I would. Well I have been very sad today because I'm like 90% positive that he is no longer into me and likes some other girl. I don't want to be mean and trash his pants that I sewed but I also don't want to contact him about them. It makes me sad to have them here :( I can't throw them away b/c if we do go out again I'd look like a ***** for doing that. So my question is would it make me look crazy if I just mailed them to him since I know his address? If so should I send a brief note as well (I don't mean a rude one)

2007-01-20 16:19:16 · 12 answers · asked by garnet_rayne 2 in Singles & Dating

and i might be doing something with her this next friday do you think shell be good by then?

2007-01-20 16:18:57 · 15 answers · asked by surfingdude777 1 in Singles & Dating

Holding you tight, now you know how I need you. Kissing me a hundred times over, as for quinching my thirst for passion. Now were one as our bodies unite, as our thighs caress. This sensation is seductive yet refined, our sighs of serenity concieve a tender melody.

2007-01-20 16:17:33 · 5 answers · asked by godsgracefulloveandwisdom 1 in Singles & Dating