I have never loved a girl the way I love her. I broke up with her last week, thinking I no longer liked her. It didn't take much time for me to realize what an awful mistake I had made, and how miserable I was without her. Last night, a week later, I sat her down and told her how I felt. She said she needed time to think. Today, we talked again, and she said that while she still loved me, but was afraid to get back together because she was scared I would break her heart again. This makes no sense to me. I begged and pleaded with her but she said she just couldn't do it. This kills me. Not only have I lost the one person who's made me happier than anyone else, it's all my fault. What am I going to do?
2007-01-20 16:30:20 · 8 answers · asked by Greg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well from you have wrote here you have done all that you can do right now. my advice is give her some time and let her think about thing between the two of you . if she loves you she will come around. you hurt her and she needs time to get over this hurt .don't ignore her but don't push getting back with her right now. just ask her if you can be her friend and see where it goes. good luck
2007-01-20 16:36:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it seem like it's not so stressful being without her. the begging part was so lame and yes you might as well face it you did mess up. My advise is to just be cool with this whole thing and relax give her space if she does give you the chance to be together again don't mess up unless you are so sure it's over with the two of you. Stop looking like a wimpy boy. the girl will feel that you might be full of it have some confidence.
2007-01-20 16:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by memjabeana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient.
If you are meant to be together, you will be.
She is hesitant to open herself to being hurt again. This is completely normal. You have lost her trust and it may take some time to earn it. I would not press the issue with her, nagging is not going to win her back. The best thing you can do is not try to make anything happen. As time goes on your hurt will die down, and she will be open to trusting you again. I wouldn't date anyone else to show her that you are serious. Give her some time and space to think things over and to sort her feelings.
2007-01-20 16:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by dantheman_028 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With time. "time heals all wounds" - it's true. In the meantime, throw yourself into work and other healthy activities. When you're not at work, go to the movies, to museums, visit friends, hang out with family members, answer questions on Y! Answers. Give yourself time to heal. Don't continue begging her - no one finds begging attractive - NO ONE. You screwed up, but begging her isn't going to endear you to her - it's going to push her away. The best thing you can do is force yourself to move on and realize that if it's meant to be it will be, it just won't be now. It's going to get better, but you've got to occupy yourself with other things and be patient with yourself. And give her the space she needs - since by breaking up with her, you were seeking space from her.
2007-01-20 16:37:39 · answer #4 · answered by Marvelissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first slap urself, then win her heart again it sounds simple but its not. How did you win her in the first place? go back and do the same or similar thing. give her time but dont push it. i hope it works out man.
2007-01-20 16:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by pat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. Call her every day to say you love her and that you're sorry you hurt her and will never do it again.
2007-01-20 16:38:02 · answer #6 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you lvoe someone its hard to forget them. take time for yourself. Doesnt mean you cant stop bieng friends with her. my ex was in the same situation you are, but i was already heart broken, we remained friends, but hardly ever talk anymore since he moved. its hard to forget someone you love! best of luck
2007-01-20 16:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by someones love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals everything
2007-01-20 16:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by evergreen tree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋