sex befor we dated. but we have been 2gether 4 11 months and we are engaged. are we doomed for failure and will we work. i think we can make it.
2007-01-20 16:24:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you have decided to marry and all seems good to you, why do you ask?
You can hardly be 'doomed' simply because you jumped into the sack a bit quick.
My husband and I bedded on the first date. We were married 24 years when I lost him to suicide. They were lovely years, for the most part, and hardly had anything to do with when we first slept in the same bed.
Let it go and focus on the future. Make the relationship failure proof by keeping the past in the past, making divorce NEVER an option, and using every day to make your union stronger.
Good luck and congrats to you both. Marriage can make you a better man when you have the right woman and visa versa. Hope all your dreams come true.
2007-01-20 16:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey rod, anybody who base their relationship on these standards are doomed.
Keep in mind the only people that can attest to this is separated already. I am 21 years in and I have been sleeping with my wife for 27 years.
p.s. On the other hand after 30 years if doesn't work, I may become one of them, too.
2007-01-21 00:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple Question! DO U LOVE HER?! lets say she stop giving u sex will cheat on her because of this? marrige is more than sex it has to do with a little thing called LOVE!
2007-01-21 00:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by ms_peaceloverr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No reason you should not have a successful marriage..
Remember to treat each other the same after marriage as
you treated each other during the courtship...
2007-01-21 00:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did the same thing, was married for 13 years and now I'm divorced:)
2007-01-21 00:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could work if you talk to each outher the sex will go away so you need to talk I v been maired 2 time for sex and in time they wanted to talk to me so be ready
2007-01-21 00:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋