my bestfriend and i are 16, and he told me that he was diagnosed with cancer, and that he was gay and that he loved me and that he had 3-4 months to live, and that he was telling me because he wanted me to know. And he asked me if i would sleep with him? Should I? And can a st8 guy have gay sex, can he think of a girl does that work, or just watch porn or something?
2007-01-20 16:31:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whatever floats your boat. sure help aides.........sure why not i dont see anything with a straight guy and homosexual doing it together. i mean guys likes girl on girl. we women like guy on guy too well some of do. like i said whatever floats you boat. i dont watch porn of any kind anymore and i dont look at thoughs dirty mags either.
2007-01-20 17:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by honey2bloved 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-19 11:39:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do something that you could possibly regret later in life. If you are straight, then experiencing sex with a man could damage you for life! Never do anything out of pity! Especially sex! Even having sex with a girl can leave can have consequences and leave you with pain if it doesnt work out, just imagine what this would or could do to you in the future. You can also catch STD's! Dont do it! There are other ways to help this person live out the rest of his life happily! Find out what he enjoys doing or something that he has always wanted to do and go with him to do it! That will also mean a lot to him and be special for him!
2007-01-20 16:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by honest 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry your friend is dying, and it's really sweet that you are so concerned with making his last days on Earth as happy as possible.
With that said, I would really draw the line at the gay sex thing.
He's gay - you're not.
And having sex with another man is a homosexual act - doing it with him won't "make you gay" but it sure as hell will make you bisexual. It also will be very hard for you to perform with another dude if you're not attracted to males.
Sadly, this is one last wish you shouldn't give to your friend!
2007-01-20 16:55:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not sleep with him just because he has cancer. If you are straight you are straight. If you're "bi-curious" that's another matter. You had best give this a lot of thought because you have your whole life ahead of you and there are a lot of ramifications to the actions you are considering!
2007-01-20 16:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by Inquisitive125 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your friend "loves you" as much as he says he does, then he should understand that you like girls and arent interested in him like that. But hey man, thiz iz ur predicament and ur friend, so you do what feels right, but remember thiz, you have sex with him, ur gay for the rest of ur life man, so dont do it out of charity.
2007-01-20 16:39:01 · answer #6 · answered by Mr.XXX 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you completely certain your friend has cancer? If so, that is tough, it depends on if you would do it for him. And just because he's dieing doesn't mean you have to do what he wants. Are you sure you want to do that?
2007-01-20 16:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by Laureneliz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im sorryu to hear about your friend, my prayer go to hm and his
family, but you should not do something that you dont want to
do just because he dying, that would not be good, if he does
have feeing for you that good if you are best friends, but sleeping]
with him is not the answer. just be there for him.
2007-01-20 16:37:37 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on yourself make sure though ask his parents.
2007-01-20 16:38:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm
2007-01-20 16:34:15 · answer #10 · answered by not me but you 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋