Okay...I met this guy and we went out the last 2 weekends and I had so much fun. Last weekend we did a bunch of out door stuff during the day and my jeans were pretty muddy. Luckily I had clean ones in the car and changed later at his place. Before I went home he said just to leave the jeans and he'd wash them for me and give them to me later. Also before I left he asked me if I could take a pair of his pants home w/ me and sew the button back on them and I said I would. Well I have been very sad today because I'm like 90% positive that he is no longer into me and likes some other girl. I don't want to be mean and trash his pants that I sewed but I also don't want to contact him about them. It makes me sad to have them here :( I can't throw them away b/c if we do go out again I'd look like a ***** for doing that. So my question is would it make me look crazy if I just mailed them to him since I know his address? If so should I send a brief note as well (I don't mean a rude one)
2007-01-20 16:19:16 · 12 answers · asked by garnet_rayne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I also need to add that I don't even care about the jeans I left at his place so I'm not concerned with them.
I also was worried about contacting him because I think then he'd feel like I was using the pants as an excuse to see him.
I'm pretty sure he doesn't want to date me now because he never called all week or sent any messages and I saw on his myspace page it looks like he's more into some other girl. I'm not going to chase him and boost his ego but at the same time I want to be nice just in case I'm wrong and there is a good reason he never called and in case he does not like that girl after all.
2007-01-20 16:38:23 · update #1
By the way, its not that he's cheating...if he was a cheater I would not want anything to do with him. We just started dating and both of us are free to date others, its just that I had hoped I was special and that maybe a relationship would develope in the future. At the very least I had wanted him to stay interested and keep asking me out, I could be wrong but I just suspected that he liked someone else A LOT more than me. I decided just to leave this one in God's hands, he and I are both Christians and so I really think if we are meant to be friends or more it will happen. I won't let myself get insecure again.
2007-01-22 07:27:33 · update #2
i would be 100% sure that he's into another girl before i did anything and if you dont want them at your place for now then just throw them in the trunk of your car or stash them at a friends house or let your friend drop them off at his place for you
2007-01-20 16:25:36 · answer #1 · answered by thatguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on be adult about it ... Go to his house ring the bell and offer his pants to him. See what he says at this point. (That is the key to the situation). Regardless ask for your pants back. Don't leave a memento leaving the door open. This will show you are the mature one. I would suggest then forgetting about him and move on. If he was cheating then he will always cheat. (Something women seen to never understand).
2007-01-21 07:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by Patagoniakidd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mail them and leave a note and tell him if he ever wants to go out, to call you. Who knows, that may be all it takes to start a great relationship!
2007-01-20 16:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, what occurred this time phil? I truthfully have had the comparable component, she became out to be only slightly a phyco, lol. It did no longer provide up my mate Dan so while she replaced into stalking him weeks later i could no longer help yet snigger.
2016-12-16 09:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just shoot him an IM or a text message asking what he wants you to do. If you mail them, he'll assume that you don't want to see him anymore, even if he hasn't moved on. Besides, he has a pair of yours, too! what about those?
2007-01-20 16:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes give him his pants back. by doing so it tells him that you are a decent girl and overall person. and if he IS interested in someone else you might win him back... although i dont understand why you would want the jackass (that is if hes cheatin)
dont mail them though
swallow ur pride and bring it to his doorstep
JUST PRAY TO GOD A WOMAN DOESNT ANWSER
2007-01-20 16:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by not me but you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless I misread your question, it sounds like you need to get your pants back as well. Why don't you just call him and tell him you need to exchange pants and ask him how he wants to do it?
2007-01-20 16:26:06 · answer #7 · answered by Joe-N-Bryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just day just go to his house and give them to him and just say something saying that u got to do something at home and just leave, but make sure u keep finding things out about hima dn this "other" girl ok well hope i helped ok BYE
2007-01-20 16:27:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he consider youse a couple? You have no reason to feel this way if he doesn't. If he doesn't like you it's still just considerate to contact him and tell him to collect his pants.
2007-01-20 16:24:38 · answer #9 · answered by will 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T MAIL THEM BACK TO HIM-THAT IS JUST WEIRD:0
2007-01-20 16:31:30 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Super_Colts_Fan♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋