my bestfriend and i are 16, and he told me that he was diagnosed with cancer, and that he was gay and that he loved me and that he had 3-4 months to live, and that he was telling me because he wanted me to know. And he asked me if i would sleep with him? Should I? And can a st8 guy have gay sex, can he think of a girl does that work, or just watch porn or something?
2007-01-20 16:31:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
WTF! A straight guy can have sex with a gay guy, but afterwards your going to be gay or bisexual. Remember you can't have your cake and eat too. I hope makes great strides on the road to recovery.
p.s. don't do it!
2007-01-20 16:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Sir 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-19 15:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by Darleen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't help you with the gay/straight question. However, as a cancer survivor myself, I will say this ... Don't have sex with anyone just because they have cancer or anything else. It won't help either one of you. You'll both feel bad about it after. All you can do is be his friend. Tell him how important he is to you as a friend and be there for him as his illness progresses. Cancer is a very scary disease. Your friend needs you to help him face it, whether it turns out to be terminal or not. And remind him that doctors aren't gods and don't have the power to "give" him any amount of time that isn't already his.
2007-01-20 16:53:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude...if this guy really has feelings for you, they won't involve you having to sleep with him before he dies of cancer.
Furthermore, cancer at 16 is VERY RARE. We're talking one in a million. It's also a common line, even by men who want WOMEN to sleep with them. "I'm going to war...I've got a terminal illness...I'm having open heart surgery...". Whatever. Men, whatever orientation, can lie to get the nooky.
Sleeping with your best friend had better be because you ARE gay, not because he wants you to be. You will be damaging yourself and future relationships if you do this for any other reason. Especially this relationship. The type of emotional connection this guy wants involves emotional blackmail, and that's NOT what love (even between best friends) is about.
2007-01-20 16:40:39 · answer #4 · answered by CarinaPapa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my opinon is no dont sleep with him.. just bc he is gay and has 3 months to live dosnt mean you have to sleep with him. This might be something that you might regret in the future. Think of std's (even tho he may not have symptoms, he may still have them).
But its up to you but if I were you, no I wouldnt.
2007-01-20 16:38:11 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should, cuz he doesnt have much time, and how would you feel if u told a girl this and she said no, she was a les not caring that u will die. this sounds mean but, no 1 will ever find out, oboiously he won't tell any 1...lol (not trying 2 be mean )
2007-01-21 13:37:59 · answer #6 · answered by Simon Snipe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No & don't sleep with him & why does a 16 year old have cancer ? are u sure it aint aids?
2007-01-20 16:42:48 · answer #7 · answered by pammybear1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u do it n admit to urself that ur gay its fine, but if u do it and regret it, u'll hate urself for it and ur friend, and u'll be afraid ur whole life that someone will find out, u'll have this awful secret deep inside forever and that is terrible to live with
2007-01-20 16:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋