i was gonna go with my boyfriend this his friends bday party.I thought that he was gonna pick me up and drive over there,but as it turns out he wanted me to go to his house first and then he would drive other there,but his house is far from where i live and taking a cab over there is expensive and all so im guessing he wanted me to take the bus.which takes a century to get to his house and he knows i have a ton of chores to do on saturdays,and by the time im fininished and catch the bus and be at his house it would b too late.I dont know why he just coudnt come here and pick me up,since he has a car.I think thats a reallly mean thing for him to do.Should i be mad at him?or is this just a silly thing to be mad about
2007-01-20 16:27:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and when i told him i coudnt go because of the reasons I listed all he said was aww i was hoping you could go,i really wanted to see u
2007-01-20 16:31:14 · update #1
and it only takes 45 min to get from his house to my house
2007-01-20 16:34:22 · update #2
You should be angry and you should be asking this question to him and if he's not feeling your displeasure you should consider throwing this catch back in whatever pond you found him for you can only expect more of the same ahead. What was his excuse for not being able to pick you up? After all it's his friends birthday party. My girl...take the bus, a cab...pssh! No.
2007-01-20 16:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by will 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was in highschool and had a bf with a car i didnt have to take the bus or cab anywhere, not the mall, my friends house, to get my hair in nails done, least of all to his house, he didnt want u at the party and hes a jerk
2007-01-20 16:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did it ever occur to you that maybe he had things to do too? Or since its so far from his house to yours, maybe he couldn't afford the gas to drive that far? Did you bother to ask or offer him gas money? Stop obsessing. Its not a big deal- get over it.
2007-01-20 16:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by paintmeblue719 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, seeing as how he IS your boyfriend and he does have a car and you do not have a decent form of transportation that is safe, you think he would give you a ride. That would be the gentlemanly thing to do, he doesn't seem very gentlemanlike honestly. :)
2007-01-20 16:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bla bla bla. any guy who makes you take a bus or taxi when he has a car is crap. get rid of him
my boyfriend lives about an hour and a half from me, and he takes the time to come and see me and go out.
we're moving in together soon!
2007-01-20 16:30:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should totally be mad at him. How could he expect you to go that far for HIS friend! He should of gone the extra mile since you had so much to do.
2007-01-20 16:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by Laureneliz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only worthy excuse is work related. If not, don`t waste any more time unless it is a VALID excuse. I`d pick you up if you wanted?
2007-01-20 16:34:16 · answer #7 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its a kinda silly thing to be mad about.. but i feel you.. if he wuz a real man he would offer to come pick you up.. it seems like he didnt want you to go or somehitng. well best of luck.. my wishes to you.
2007-01-20 16:31:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl you shuold get rid of him like righ now any guy who does that is garbage he doesnot lovve you at all run the boy
2007-01-20 16:35:25 · answer #9 · answered by monique e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he prolly wasnt thinking straight prolly excited about something dont worry if it happens again just tell him that its MUCH easier to for him to pick you up.
2007-01-20 16:32:08 · answer #10 · answered by pat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋