Been a long time and she is still married, with 2 kids. I am divorced with 2 kids, but still have feelings for her after all this time.
2007-01-20 17:00:19 · 19 answers · asked by Robert L 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
deffinately not! if shes married, then shes not meant for you, at least not now. please dont put her in that situation!
2007-01-20 17:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait.. may sound like a stupid question but the way u have it written sounds fishy.. 2 kids and 2 marriages, only 1 divorce.. are u a widow? im confused almost sounds as though ur married to the high school sweetheart and this is a trick question.. both have 2 kids.. your divorced but didnt say u were single.. shes still married.. u can be divorced from one and be married to another.. i dont know maybe im over analyzing it.. but sounds like a trick question so i'll answer it both ways..
If it is a trick question, yes u should tell ur wife u love her ..
If its not , then how were u married 2 times but divorced only once? unless ur a widower.. but if she is married to another, then leave it be.. she's taken and only will cause both of u some sort of pain so leave it alone..
2007-01-20 17:13:36 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want her marriage to be over too? I don't think so. If you still love her then you need to leave her alone and let her live her life. But if she ever divorces her hubby then I think you should step up to the plate then. But not now. You said you have been married 2 times but only divorced 1 time, so I take it you are still married. If so do you plan on divorcing again?
2007-01-20 17:07:31 · answer #3 · answered by myninny54 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously dude... get over it! Why would you even go there if she is married? Do you think she is going to leave her family for a man that she dated 26 years ago, that has been married AND divorced two times and has two kids as a result of those failed relationships?
You need to get some counseling and figure out what is going on in your head.
2007-01-20 17:06:13 · answer #4 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
25 years on this planet and, 0 kids (not that I know of) and 2 Ex-girlfriends and 1 broken heart. Maybe I should tell my HS sweetheart that I want to bang her again....ahhh forget it. I'll just learn from my mistakes, cope, move on and find someone better and BE A MAN.
2007-01-20 17:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by Earache My Eye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have feelings for old high school sweethearts. The thing is, we are no longer in high school. We aren't the same people we were back then. Keep your marriage and her's in tact. If your friends, fine....keep it that way. If not, go to your next reunion and have fun.
2007-01-20 17:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are day dreaming about her because things have not worked out in your life and you are going back in you mind to simpler times before all these entanglements. Leave her alone. She doesn't need you. Maybe you don't care what she needs. Maybe that's why things haven't worked out for you.
2007-01-20 17:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because what you love are the memories of 26 years ago. We all tend to romanticize the past. The feelings you have for her are fond memories--keep them as such.
2007-01-20 17:07:12 · answer #8 · answered by chrissy25 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you hope to gain by telling her? Are you out to destroy her marriage and the lives of her children? IF you love her you wouldn't want to hurt her family. Keep your mouth shut.
2007-01-20 19:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a married woman. Don't start anything you can't finish without hurting someone. She has her family. Don't destroy her life.
2007-01-20 17:06:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. How would you have liked it if your wife's ex was trying to put the moves on her? You are just lonely and reminiscing. Leave it alone.
2007-01-20 17:05:10 · answer #11 · answered by cakekweeny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋