A lot of men my age have been married, then divorced paying alimony and child support. I've managed to avoid that and things are starting to happen for me career wise and finance wise.
Men tend to enter thier time of power later in life.
But I come up against a barrier when I'm flirting- "You're HOW old? And you've never been married? BYE"
I had the sense NOT to put rings on the fingers of women I've been in BAD BAD BAD relationships with. And I've never really had any good ones. I had sense enough to avoid that trap, why does that count against me?
Anyway, I'm starting to discover foreign brides and might just travel to escape this prejudice. I know there's things that can go wrong-but there's things that can and do go wrong with American women too.
2007-01-20 17:11:19 · 5 answers · asked by sharkeysports 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are good and bad women of every nation/race. Escaping to a foreign country isn't going to improve your odds. I always wonder about "mail order" brides and their sincerity. You have to have a good relationship built on trust and honesty, as I'm sure you are well aware. Can you build such a relationship over a long distance?
My cousin married a gal from taiwan about 8 years ago and they are happy as can be. So it can work. Good luck man, I hope you find a keeper, be it here in the states or overseas.
2007-01-20 17:19:36 · answer #1 · answered by dantheman_028 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey, these women who judge u just bcoz u have never been married are stupid! well, it's better to be unmarried than to be a divorced, in my opinion!
i think u were smart to not get married to any woman u didn't think was right for u! so don't give that a second thought.
if i were u, i would focus on finding the right woman, visualzing it, and believing that it will happen. think positively and don't focus on the idea of women judging u this way or that.
i don't know what u mean about discovering foreign brides, but i think that given that u did not get married to a woman u thought was not right for u, u will still be holding that value no matter where u r in the world. if any woman is gonna love u, she's gotta love u for who u r...not ur age, ur history, and all that nonsense!
i am a foreigner btw.
good luck!
2007-01-20 17:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by saxoool 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all just because you 42 and single does not mean that
women are judges you. , men marry when they feel the need to'marry etc, if you ae happy with your life then it really does
not matter what other people think. as for dating foreign, that
may be something that you might have problem as well
it just sound like you just have not found that special one
but she out there, just hang in there.
2007-01-20 17:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you decide to do good luck. Hey, Geroge Clooney is how old? and he has been single for ever, yet women find him sexy....my point...don't give up! :)
2007-01-20 17:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO!! That will make you look sooooo desperate and LAME.
2007-01-20 17:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by Korny Kaucasian Kraker 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋