My last question about highschool romances and marriage had alot of feedback. I would like to know your opinions about reasons for divorce.
2007-01-20 17:14:39 · 9 answers · asked by Robert L 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
not if u take ur wedding vows seriously.. and thats the problem with most marriages people say their vows on their wedding day.. as if its just something they have to say one day and thats it.. wedding vows are a promise to each other that ur suppose to live by for the rest of your life.. so if u take ur vows seriously then u would know its a life long commitment and that age is enevitable and that looks fade with age..
2007-01-20 17:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no looks or old age is no reason for divorce, and those that would use this reason are shallow, and their love for u is only conditional. as how many of us still look like we did the day we were married? and time does take it's toll on everyone, weight gain, wrinkles, but a person who would divorce u for this reason never truly loved u in the first place, u never had their heart anyway. their love would only be based on if u didn't age. their true character would come out, as well as their morals and knowing right from wrong. means they never reached the level of consciousness they needed to to do what was right. means they have a different belief system than what most people do. shows their immaturity.
2007-01-21 10:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I used to tell the wife that when she turned 40 I would have to trade her in for 2 20's. Then I found out I wasn't wired for 220. Now she's 51 and we are still married.
Of course old age or looks isn't a reason for divorce. Especially when you have grown old together, and have spent over half of your lives loving each other.
2007-01-21 01:25:18 · answer #3 · answered by kram k 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Beginning in 1969 (with the state of California) no specific 'grounds' for divorce are needed in the USA (and some other countries). The law was changed because people were having to lie in court to obtain a divorce. This is called 'perjury' and is a serious criminal offense...
2007-01-21 01:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
No because everyone ages like a fine wine some get better and some get bitter
2007-01-21 01:18:32 · answer #5 · answered by JJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. Both partners will be growing older together, thus accept each other.
2007-01-21 01:21:27 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no definitely not...im 25..my husb 29 and he has aged alot well his hair has ...with soo much salt and pepper colored hair...but i love it on him it goes well and i wouldnt have wanted him any other way.
2007-01-21 02:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by ღCCღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It doesnt matter what you look like.
2007-01-21 01:20:07 · answer #8 · answered by dinosaur hunter 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no no no. duh BOTH people get old!
2007-01-21 01:18:43 · answer #9 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋