Family & Relationships - 19 January 2007

i found out about the cheating i comfront him he ending it a year later we found out about the baby before the cheating we had a happy marriage and now after the cheating and before we found about the baby we were doing ok still working things out but this lady is trying to make our life a living hell. she try everthing in her power to seperate us she will call on the phone for him to come over for sex my husband will let me listing to the way she talk and after he tell her no and don't call him unless it about the baby, she will turn around and call my phone(she got my number out of his phone) and tell me that my husband just call her for sex. she mad about the child support she's not getting what she want (i'm the one with the bigger income) she tried to get the court to make me to help and pay for child support of course that didn't work , and she also don't want let him see the child when i'm around p. s. my kids dosen't know when should i tell them age 3, 7, 10

2007-01-19 08:54:01 · 25 answers · asked by speedy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

girl wise

2007-01-19 08:52:17 · 11 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please give specific examples. Thanks for the help.

2007-01-19 08:51:15 · 21 answers · asked by tuna 2 in Singles & Dating

this guy at my skool is alwayz asking me for condoms and i don't know if i should give him some but that's not the problem the problem is that i like him and i don't know if he likes me what should i do should i just forget about him and give him the condoms PLEASE HELP!!!!!

2007-01-19 08:50:38 · 21 answers · asked by bad gurl 1 in Singles & Dating

I have love letters from when i was 12 or 13. Every few years I like to read them and remember those old times...do you think that's ok?

Do u do the same?

Guys, what if your girlfriend did this? would u mind?

2007-01-19 08:50:30 · 22 answers · asked by melissa 2 in Singles & Dating

My brother and I were as close as twins growing up. That changed when he got married two years ago. I was delighted with his wife in the beginning, but soon after she began to alienate him a little. I understood since they have their own personal life. But they continued very close to my mom and little by little over the two years refused to even talk to me? I tried emailing my brother asking him what I did wrong? He won't even answer. Well they got pregnant right after getting married and a few months later she supposedly "lost" the pregnancy..I later found out she aborted but I stayed out of that since it was their business. Well since my baby son was born in September they totally ignore him, too. My brother won't even hold him once or acknowledge him at all..which is bizarre since he lavishes loads of attention on my 12 year old. Thanksgiving they came over and ate my food and drank my wine and said NOT ONE WORD to me the whole time. But they brought my mom and daughter gifts.

2007-01-19 08:49:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There's this girl in my class who has long term relationships and then when she brakes up with her boyfriend, like 5 minutes later, she is going out with a different person. so she goes out with a guy for say...i dont know, 7 monthes..then they brake up. the EXACT same day, she goes out with someone else..is that concidered a slut? cause this girl is getting really annoying.AND NO ITS NOT ME

2007-01-19 08:49:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister-in-law (husband sister) is divorcing her husband He always been good to my husband and I and our kids, he has a 10yr old dauther. My brother in law was a stay at home father until his dauther was 8yrs, it was it wife Idea for him to stay home cause she brought home more money between the two of them. Somewhere she fall out of love and now is divorcing him. Should we continue to talk to him and invite him to family funcions?

2007-01-19 08:48:53 · 13 answers · asked by rma2ks 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't even care to have a long term relationship now. NO, it isn't because I haven't found the right one because I believe there is no right PERFECT mate....The thought of marriage makes me want to puke. The thought of giving up my freedom makes me want to puke. The thought of children is enough to make me gag and the thought of losing all I have worked for to a golddigger is enough NEVER to step foot in marriage.....SO, back to the question...AM I OK in thinking this? I can't be alone in this way of thinking.

2007-01-19 08:48:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it needy to want your husband to call you at work?

2007-01-19 08:48:51 · 7 answers · asked by stella 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My Girlfriend's dad owns a company I want to work for and maybe run some day, I plan to marry this chick for my career's sake, I mean , I can have mistresses right? I don't love her at all, but she is pretty cool and even somewhat attractive. We even get along ( guess this is because I really don't care enough to argue with her...

2007-01-19 08:48:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i have 2 friends named laura. and both lauras are having a b-day partys but one of the lauras ( laura 2) is only friends with me in my little click so she only invited me to her b-day party. the other ppl in the click know about it but they dont care. But Laura # 2 is also having a b-day and one girl in the click is not ivited her name is lexy and she hears us talking about it and she gets all mad and emails me saying OMG HOW COULD LAURA NOT INVITE ME AHHHH i thought we were best frineds...... and then she says oh i know whats happening u were talking about the other lauras b-day party and then every one is all " oh yeah thats what happned.... " and then she asks if laura # 1 is having a b-day party what should i tell her i feel really bad about lying but i dont waana hurt her feelings!

2007-01-19 08:47:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How do you know if you love someone?

2007-01-19 08:47:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 08:46:36 · 13 answers · asked by Peter Peter Pumpkin Eater 2 in Singles & Dating

Or is it better to just try and lie your way out of it?

I wrote a Yahoo blog dedicated to this topic, if you're interested, check my profile for the link.

2007-01-19 08:46:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had problems with my roommate cause she got on my nerves and i always heard her and her bf having sex. I switched roommates and now i have the same problem. when i go home i hear my parents having sex. Its so annoying!!! i don't know if i should tell my roommate that i hear her and she needs to lower her voice. Should I? i've never had sex so i don't know if you can control your voice or not. Can you???

2007-01-19 08:46:00 · 12 answers · asked by truth hurts 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, you are dating this funny, rich model. He gets into a bad car wreck. Now his modeling career is over. No money. His face is scarred for life. His personality changed too, maybe a combination of brain damage and the events that happened. People always say personality and humor is most important in their spouse followed by looks, money , etc. When people want to be with someone, they have a reason. If it's because they like being around them because of their personality, how is that any different than a girl wanting to be with a rich man? Both guys have something the girl wants. People change all the time. The divorce rate in America is 50%. Why is it that personality is the ultimate thing people are looking for?

2007-01-19 08:45:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i handle the fact that my boyfriend of 1yr dumped his dinner plans with my girls and i for his ex and her daugher? we've been together for over a year and he swears nothing is going on. while i don't mind the relationship he has with "her" daughter (no blood relation to him)...i don't want to be put on the back burner. should i dump him? help!

2007-01-19 08:45:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is a pretty good friend down on his luck (his own fault--no argument from me there)...he has an 8-year old son (sole custody), lost his job and got his license suspended. I feel really bad and want to help him, but how far do I go? And oh yeah, he's hot.

2007-01-19 08:45:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm at the point now where I am tired of always asking for or initiating sex. I am always sensitive to her needs (unselfish) and she say she enjoys it, but she rarely takes the first step. It's been 8 days now and its driving me crazy. We've talked about this several times but nothing changes. Married over 20 years. Help!

2007-01-19 08:44:41 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I share a strong mutual attraction with a man I work with. Because of our positions, we can't do anything about it right now. So, I just try to look my best and do the best job I can. Every so often, this man will flirt with me, compliment my outfit, ask if I have a boyfriend, what am I doing for the weekend, what's my email, etc. It feels great and I love it but when I initiate anything he backs off. So, I go about my way and then he's flirting with me again and this time a little more like brushing up against me with lots of looking, etc. Of course I love it but I wish it would go somewhere. I had a dream in which I kissed him. I worked my courage up to tell him and all he said he could say was "that's interesting." and "you know I can't say more than that." Huh?? MEN, help me understand this cycle. He flirts, backs off, flirts heavier, backs off. Does this cycle look like it will EVER go somewhere? Does it look like he wants me but is afraid to say so?

2007-01-19 08:44:29 · 5 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Singles & Dating

what would you think of him?

2007-01-19 08:44:18 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i was on the phone with him and then, he and his girlfriend started making all of these weird sounds. my friend has changed, what should i do?

2007-01-19 08:44:15 · 15 answers · asked by Igobeg O 3 in Friends

to tell my hubby that i want to leave him and set up home with my lesbian lover i met here on yahoo answers
I have to leave as i can no longer live without my girl, shes sassy, funny and as cute as hell.
Also bonus is her hubby said i can move in and he will take the spare room

2007-01-19 08:43:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I used to date this guy and my cousin used to date his best friend.... Well the relationship didnt work out so me and my ex went our seperate ways... Well things started to go wrong with my cousin and the guy she was dating and they ended up breaking up as well... Now I found out that my cousin is now sleeping with my ex......Im mad about it because that is breaking the code. Now I have a new boyfriend we have been together for 3 1/2 months.... I have strong feelings for my new boyfriend..... I just need to know am I wrong for feeling the way I feel about the situation considering I have a new man and all

2007-01-19 08:42:48 · 11 answers · asked by babygurl2002 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We want to raise our children in a good environment. They currently attend private school in Albuquerque, New Mexico. I'm being offered a position with my company in Dallas/Fort Worth, Texas. We found some excellant private schools out there and was wondering if anyone has any thoughts about what would be a better city to live in and raise a family. Thanks!

2007-01-19 08:42:44 · 5 answers · asked by Mustafa 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

what does it mean exactly

2007-01-19 08:42:36 · 13 answers · asked by JIm 1 in Singles & Dating

men can look at other women as much as they want to and even masturbate to them and women are expected to be okay with this but when a hot guy passes by the woman can even turn her head around and look at him without her bf getting all jealous and bitchy??? and dont tell me that "men have needs and get turned on differently than women" women have sexual needs too and believe it or not we DO get turned on when we see a hot guy...

2007-01-19 08:42:30 · 10 answers · asked by toni s 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my little brother has this girlfriend that hes been dating for a year and i really dont like her....she is really selgf absorbed and rude and i wanna split them up so i dont need to listen to her anymore...any ideas?

2007-01-19 08:41:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering.....what are some common things a guy will do or say to a girl to test the waters and see what he CAN & CAN'T away with ?????

Also....how can a man prove to you that he is being truthful????

2007-01-19 08:41:46 · 13 answers · asked by APPLE 2 in Singles & Dating