He is a pretty good friend down on his luck (his own fault--no argument from me there)...he has an 8-year old son (sole custody), lost his job and got his license suspended. I feel really bad and want to help him, but how far do I go? And oh yeah, he's hot.
2007-01-19 08:45:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ask him what help would be appreciated and you decide from there what he says. . . if he says he doesn't want any just give him a little and he won't feel lyk hes moochin off of ya he'll just feel lyk ur being a good friend
2007-01-19 08:50:55 · answer #1 · answered by blah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a fool, if he is down on his luck due to his own fault, then he needs to get up off his butt and make things better.
Sounds to me like he is an irresponsible person if he not only lost his job but his license has been suspended, he's not thinking about his 8yr old son. If you start to help him, it will never stop. Who cares if he is hot, he's still stupid!! Getting yourself involved in his problems would be the worst thing that you could do.
2007-01-19 16:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by Faith 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best help you can give him is to help him see he must help himself! Enabling someone really is an injustice. Sounds like if he didn't have anyone to help him he might not have allowed himself and his son to be in this situation! Not being rude, just speaking the truth.
2007-01-19 16:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this question?? Would he be there for you??? He now suffers from his own decisions. Bet he still drives though, huh?? once again. Looks aren't everything. Use that instinct, we all have it, if the 1st one says "Don't" then listen to it or be prepared to be a floor-mat
2007-01-19 16:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by carmella.2006 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I don't think you are gonna listen to the people on here. I have a feeling you are going to ask him to come live with you. lol but thats just me
2007-01-19 16:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by EllenThomas 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be careful and help the son out he really needs it
2007-01-19 16:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by ruru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go tommy get him...
2007-01-19 16:50:30 · answer #7 · answered by Lucas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋