There's this girl in my class who has long term relationships and then when she brakes up with her boyfriend, like 5 minutes later, she is going out with a different person. so she goes out with a guy for say...i dont know, 7 monthes..then they brake up. the EXACT same day, she goes out with someone else..is that concidered a slut? cause this girl is getting really annoying.AND NO ITS NOT ME
2007-01-19 08:49:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol, im not a lesbo, i like guys not girls, its just that some people call her that and i wanted to see if it is true..
2007-01-19 09:14:40 · update #1
Some women do this: They are NEVER without a boyfriend. Some break up with their current boyfriends by finding a new guy. I dated a girl like this in college and let me tell you, she had LOTS of bad emotional issues.
2007-01-19 08:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl needs ... and probably always will... a guy to make her own identity worthwhile. Without a guy at her side, she feels incomplete as a person. In short, she has issues with self esteem. This is not healthy, but it doesn't necessarily make her a slut. It is only through relationships that she feels worthy and complete. No matter that some of those relationships are unbalanced and unhealthy, she can only feel happy if there is a guy on her arm.
2007-01-19 17:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called someone who is afraid to be alone, and it is unfortunately very common. These people hang on to the old bird in hand until they are sure they have the next new bird in hand before they let go. They are usually also afraid to get dumped, so they make sure they typically do the dumping first. Unless she is dating you though, it should not annoy you, though you should feel sorry for her lack of self esteem, that she does not feel self-empowered to be confident that she can survive without a relationship.
2007-01-19 16:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by Safira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes people might see her as a slut. Shes too scared of being lonely.
2007-01-19 16:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anna M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of girls think they're not complete without a guy on their arm. Pretty sad if you ask me...
2007-01-19 16:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by Tess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maria---long term relationships last years---they are usually called marriages---I know youre in school but you need to know that kids in school are very fickle---and what do you care who and how many boys this girl dates anyway? take care of your own life.
2007-01-19 16:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let it bother you....she's the one ruining her rep......honestly, there's a lot of people like that in my school......only they're doing it while going out with someone else....maybe she's just trying to decide what she likes in a guy.....haha...giving her the benefit of the doubt....anyway...just ignore it........especially if she hasn't done something to you personally.
2007-01-19 16:56:46 · answer #7 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people may think she is a ****but she only going out with other guyz , so she could fell better about herself.
2007-01-19 16:56:04 · answer #8 · answered by suny y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋