how do i handle the fact that my boyfriend of 1yr dumped his dinner plans with my girls and i for his ex and her daugher? we've been together for over a year and he swears nothing is going on. while i don't mind the relationship he has with "her" daughter (no blood relation to him)...i don't want to be put on the back burner. should i dump him? help!
2007-01-19 08:45:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that doesnt sound right. Seems that he and his ex cant let go of eachother. I would not stand for that. And for him to dump you for them is unjustifyable, what was his reason anyway?
2007-01-19 08:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't tell you to dump him its your choice but its obvious that he still holds feeling for this ex or he would not ever put you on the back burner. I could see if her daughter was his but thats not the situation he's just allowing her to use him and ruin your relationship and thats not fair to you!!
2007-01-19 16:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by soniablade914 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what he did hurt you and explain to him how choosing his ex over you made you feel. If he is a nice guy he'll understand and try not to make the same mistake. If he's a jerk and tells you that you're just jealous then most likely he isn't going to understand and you better start looking for another guy.
2007-01-19 16:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by Michael K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well get together with him and explain how he made you feel and how come he did it. And then ask him to make a choice them or you. Because that way your giving him a chance to either make good with you or kick himself to the currb. SO meet and chat and ask. ANd if he choses you tell him next time he does something like that to stay there.
2007-01-19 16:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is out of order, im sure its nice for him to see her daughter but he should be moving on, you are supposed to be his top priority now.
2007-01-19 16:52:45 · answer #5 · answered by xxsummerxx232 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him. but first hear all of his side of the story
2007-01-19 16:48:40 · answer #6 · answered by Bridget J. ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋