Family & Relationships - 19 January 2007

if so what happened?

2007-01-19 09:09:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

His parents are devout Catholics. And I have no religion. I have no intention of becoming a Catholic. I don't think religion plays a role in our relationship. His parents are determined that if I don't convert, they're not going to be in our wedding. What can I do to convince them?

2007-01-19 09:09:10 · 19 answers · asked by KaN 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When I'm by people i just freeze and i have no idea wat to say to them dats a reason y people @ my school think im antisocial or borin and they end up not tlkin to me. I lose alot of friends dat way but i dont do it purposelly could some1 help please

2007-01-19 09:09:02 · 11 answers · asked by CooCoo 2 in Friends

I been married to my husband for 10 years and I have 4 children. My husband is a great father too his children and he is also a great husband too me financially however, when it comes to having sex and showing affection he does not acknowledge me in that way.

I feel so alone and I also feel like I need to have attention and he tells me that he is tired or something hurts when ever I mention too him that I want to have sex, I am so tired of initiating it. I asked him if he was cheating on me and he said no, like he would admit it too me. I also suggested that we get counseling and he does not want to do that. I have been thinking alot about cheating and that bothers me because I did not get married to cheat with other men. I love my husband but I am not in love with him anymore, to make things worse he sleeps on the counch every single night..

Could someone please give me advice on what should I do? I am also considering divorcing him because I can't take it anymore..

2007-01-19 09:08:11 · 3 answers · asked by Vicky 6 in Singles & Dating

help! see my best friend thats a boy told me last night that he liked me but like he likes me and another and hes going out with the other girl but he always instant messages me all the time and calls my phone? like do you think he still likes me becuase he always comes to my locker in the morning and after school and like im confused because he said a few days ago he liked me? so what do you thin yes or no. and he saw his girlfriend in the hall and me and like he looked striahgt at me and i walked away. Because hes going out with my best friend and i really wanna go out with him but i couldnt do that to her! only if she said i could and that she didnt care anymore. what do you think! PPLEASE HELP ME PEOPLE:(:(:( IM LIKE WICKED HEARTBROKEN IVE BEEN LIKE THIS FOR 3 DAYS STRAIGHT!!! HELP!!!

2007-01-19 09:07:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mother in law and i have always gotten along great. well, she had pawned off all her rings a few months ago and was about to lose them. she called and said that if i would pay to get them out, i could keep 2 of them, one of which she has promised me when she diesanyway. it was a steal, b/c they are worth 5 times more than i was going to pay for them. well, she called her sister and found out that they would give her more $ for the one that she promised to me and wanted to charge me twice as much for it! i have the right to be mad right? i really love that ring, but just the thought that if i don't give her twice as much as she originally wanted, i can't have it and she's going to give it to someone else!

2007-01-19 09:07:51 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family

I recommended counseling because he has no self-esteem at all. I could of course talk to the principal and the parents but when it comes down to it, my son needs to know how to cope with this. The reason I am so concerned about his mental health is because he hides from his peers thinking they are going to insult him to some degree. His view of the world is mighty bleak right now, it's not healthy to feel that way. If I can get someone professional to open doors in his mind to get a handle on this than I think it would be worth while. When I suggested this to my son (counseling) he said "You think I'm crazy!" In no way is he crazy so I had to explain how this would help him deal with these bullies. I'm doing this too because I don't want him later on contemplating suicide or turning to drugs due to this bullying. What's your opinion on the counseling? Am I wrong?

2007-01-19 09:07:10 · 16 answers · asked by poison_angel32 5 in Marriage & Divorce

OK so me and my ex-girlfriend were together for about 10 months. And we both expressed that we love each other and we wanted to wait until marriage tohave sex. Later on we agreed to taking a break. Within 3 weeks she had sex with a friend of hers. I was obviously devastated to say the least. But i forgave her. but She then seaid she was confused and said she loves this other guy also. is that even possible? (Love TriangleI guess) So she said she needs time to sort herself out. About 2 months later she says that the other guy does not compare to me though they're still good friends. and start being together almost like we're in a relationship (it just isn't official). So of course I ask her to be my girlfriend. She said she still needs time. Well she is doing study abroad in Germany from now until May. Should I wait for her or move on? I mean she's going to be a world away for 5 months! Look what happened when we were on a break for 3 weeks! Should I have faith in her or move on?

2007-01-19 09:06:57 · 5 answers · asked by someguy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i fancy this boy and i thought he liked me to cos he acts different with me that other girls like he stands really close to me and stares in my eyes and talks to me all the time. but ive just noticed he has started to act like that with this other girl and i dont no if he likes her? and i dont no if she likes him cos in maths i was talking to him and she was looking at me and giving me evils.
so i dont no if he does like me because i really really love him
so does he like me or her?
o ye he still acts the same with me but he also acts the same way around this other girl to.
do you think he could like both of us?

2007-01-19 09:05:41 · 16 answers · asked by rockstaromg1256 2 in Singles & Dating

i just got dumped, and i cant stop thinkin about her. i thought she wouldve been the one that wouldve lasted for longer than a month and a half. i think im cursed, because the 2 gfs ive had didnt last longer than 1 1/2 months. we were so good together, we both had our first kiss, then she just comes out of the blue and breaks it. i dont know why. and everyone says there be others, i dont know about that.

2007-01-19 09:04:40 · 19 answers · asked by ownby 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend is hanging with this little biych i tell her that i dont like her. and my friend has changed a lot now she iz a ***** and a ho wat should i do?

2007-01-19 09:04:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i've got two mates birthdays in the same week. i am low on cash but want to get them a present and i do not know what to get.
any suggestions?

2007-01-19 09:03:09 · 9 answers · asked by Jack 3 in Friends

Guys, pls help me! I'm now all confused. I understand this question is childish, out of my own jealously or of me not being confident. But I am so upset @ this point. My bf seems like he doesn't put all into me. Whenever we go out he sees a girl passing by or @ a certain distance away, he looks at them. When I tell him, he seems not understand & says he dares not look @ anyone when w/ me. I know guys always wanna check girls out, but, honestly, I'm really upset & jealous. He shouldn't at least do that when he's w/ me. Moreover it seems like he somehow has his mind on other persons. There's a Viet singer that he REALLY likes. I know there's nothing wrong to like ur favorite singer. But he was way too much. When we watch a video suddenly a commercial pops up. I accidentally fast forward. All at once he said that's MT-singer's name-though it wasn't even her. He did it several times when it comes to her - ONLY her. Am I too sensitive & jealous? Pls help or correct me if im wrong! Thank u!

2007-01-19 09:02:35 · 3 answers · asked by cowgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 09:02:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this man.... type in justin boenders on youtube to find him..... is that odd????

2007-01-19 09:02:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have reely long gorgous strawberry blonde hair and at my school the guys love my long hair. is it a turn on to most guys. just wanted to know. or if a girl flips her hair turn on or off

2007-01-19 09:01:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The pics my boy friend took with other guys he has his hands on the other guys shoulder. It could be any guy he's posed for pics with. Even a new guy he met at work. It shows his hands on the guys shoulder. Do men pose for pics like that or only women pose like that? Does this mean anything?

2007-01-19 09:01:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me husbands gotten reelly LARge recentlyy,,,,,his doc made him kut back on smokeing a lill bit and thens he become nonhealthee,,,,he @ MacCdonalls all the times!!! i tries n buy wait-lost pills on ebays but they donnot work!!!! i stick pall malls in hes mouth instead of maccdonalls, but that NOT works!!!! his gut go over beltline bout 6 OR 7 inch!!!!!!! he cannot fit in seet or car no more!!!! i push him onto scale,,////it read 501 lb!!!!! shood i gives up and move out?????

2007-01-19 09:01:19 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not asking this to stir up trouble or offend people, so please give respectful answers, but I would like to know:
What race/ethnicity you find MOST attractive and what race/ethnicity you find LEAST attractive.


It's okay if you only say you know that you like one race, or if you only say that you do not prefer one, but before you say "It doesn't matter to me", seriously think about it.

2007-01-19 08:59:50 · 10 answers · asked by Yuka 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 08:59:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 08:58:15 · 5 answers · asked by trish w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I really like this guy. He's my best friend, but I can't help but like him. And I honestly think he likes me too... he always hugs me, and sometimes he even buys me things (not that it matters) but he just really seems like he likes me too... the problem? He goes out with one of my best friends. They are amazing together, and I don't wanna break that up, and i don't think he does either, but when I'm with him, I can't help but act like... well, like I like him. Im not thinking about it at the time, and then I go back and think about it later and thing 'wow i can't believe i did that...' I love my friend, and I would feel so bad if I got in the way of her relationship, but at the same time I love this guy, and he's my best friend too... I dont really know what to do about it. Any advice?

2007-01-19 08:58:07 · 6 answers · asked by xxEquestrianxx 1 in Singles & Dating

she is a happy healthy girl has friends at school of her age but hasn no brothers and sisters and wants to be friends with 2 older girls (12) but they don't want to know her she is very unhappy

2007-01-19 08:57:23 · 29 answers · asked by fionakelk 1 in Friends

just wondering

2007-01-19 08:57:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

5 yrs.
10 yrs.
whatever.

2007-01-19 08:56:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why do guys like girls that have no personality, and are so skinny you can see their bones, and have absolutly nothing interesting to say. Don't they like someone they can relate with. I mean anymore if you wear a 5 a guy thinks ur fat! (This is my case) Y?

2007-01-19 08:56:19 · 17 answers · asked by puffalump 3 in Singles & Dating

do i should kiss her on the cheek or lips first

2007-01-19 08:55:11 · 19 answers · asked by badger23 2 in Singles & Dating

Where can a guy go on a date to entertain a lady? Bars are okay but Im looking for something a little more intimate and just plain old fun. Thanks for the help.

2007-01-19 08:54:43 · 2 answers · asked by MacLXXI 2 in Singles & Dating

I have already bought a present but, he was away for his birthday and so I want it to be really special

2007-01-19 08:54:18 · 7 answers · asked by Elaine M 1 in Singles & Dating

im going out with a guy who only wants a virgin wife. he thinks im a virgin.its been 5 years since i slept with a man. i love this man and dont want to lose him, what should i do?

2007-01-19 08:54:07 · 48 answers · asked by delkathy35 1 in Singles & Dating