Guys, pls help me! I'm now all confused. I understand this question is childish, out of my own jealously or of me not being confident. But I am so upset @ this point. My bf seems like he doesn't put all into me. Whenever we go out he sees a girl passing by or @ a certain distance away, he looks at them. When I tell him, he seems not understand & says he dares not look @ anyone when w/ me. I know guys always wanna check girls out, but, honestly, I'm really upset & jealous. He shouldn't at least do that when he's w/ me. Moreover it seems like he somehow has his mind on other persons. There's a Viet singer that he REALLY likes. I know there's nothing wrong to like ur favorite singer. But he was way too much. When we watch a video suddenly a commercial pops up. I accidentally fast forward. All at once he said that's MT-singer's name-though it wasn't even her. He did it several times when it comes to her - ONLY her. Am I too sensitive & jealous? Pls help or correct me if im wrong! Thank u!
2007-01-19 09:02:35 · 3 answers · asked by cowgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it is respectful to look at other women when you are with someone you are dating. However, you sound young, and I don't think there is any way to avoid a guy being a jerk in some way or another when you date young men. I think the times that I've seen a boyfriend act respectful of his relationship, when he's under age 30 something, and isn't around his girlfriend, is probably 1 in 50 times. And that 1 in 50 probably just wasn't as aggressive with his disrespect - you have to tempt him to get it out of him. Bottom line - I don't know any guys that I trust to act respectful of their relationships at all times, unless they are older.
2007-01-19 09:12:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, it seems that you're making a mountain out of a molehill. What you seem to be doing is displaying a lot of insecurity, and if you make an issue of this on a regular basis with him, he's no doubt going to get very tired of it. Relax, and enjoy your relationship.
2007-01-19 17:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by Jolly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he shouldnt be checking out other girls when u are around thats just rude
2007-01-19 17:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by toni s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋