have you ever married a 'soul mate' but later found out it was 'soul enermy'?

Question

if so what happened?

Answer 1

Sometimes, the "enemies" in your life are those who help your soul grow the most.

If she was your soulmate once before, she still is today. People go through some difficult and strange phases in their lives. She might only seem like your enemy right now. But things aren't always as they seem.

What is going on? Can you share more details?

Answer 2

How long have you been married? You do not say. I have been married (to the same person) for about 20 years. People change and they grow (in different ways). Sometimes I really hate my husband. And sometime he really hates me. There are issues (like his mother whom I find absolutely detestable and he thinks she is an angel) that we have never been able to resolve. And it is highly unlikely that we ever WILL resolve that particular issue (and a few others). Ultimately, when it gets really bad, we go to marriage counseling. That has helped.
Are you committed to working it out with your partner? Because I DO find that the love always comes back around. I have never been able to stop loving my husband DEEPLY. I almost left him a year ago. Maybe I would have been fine. I don't know. I still love the man. And I would rather be married than single. Do you have children? Property? Those are other factors to be considered as well. So . . . as to what happened - I stayed. We are still working on it. And will be working on it as long as we live and as long as we are married, most likely. I think it is an ongoing process. And marriage is WORK. It like a plant. If you don't water and feed it - - it can wither and die.
Good luck.

Answer 3

Yep, she crushed (emotionally, financially, etc.) me, ended in divorce.

Answer 4

You get a divorce and move on.

Answer 5

I ALWAYS SAY YOU MEET PEOPLE FOR A REASON. MAYBE THIS HAPPENED SO YOU CAN LEARN FROM IT. AND ONLY YOU CAN KNOW WHAT THAT LESSON IS.