OK so me and my ex-girlfriend were together for about 10 months. And we both expressed that we love each other and we wanted to wait until marriage tohave sex. Later on we agreed to taking a break. Within 3 weeks she had sex with a friend of hers. I was obviously devastated to say the least. But i forgave her. but She then seaid she was confused and said she loves this other guy also. is that even possible? (Love TriangleI guess) So she said she needs time to sort herself out. About 2 months later she says that the other guy does not compare to me though they're still good friends. and start being together almost like we're in a relationship (it just isn't official). So of course I ask her to be my girlfriend. She said she still needs time. Well she is doing study abroad in Germany from now until May. Should I wait for her or move on? I mean she's going to be a world away for 5 months! Look what happened when we were on a break for 3 weeks! Should I have faith in her or move on?
2007-01-19 09:06:57 · 5 answers · asked by someguy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
SHE AGREE WITH YOU TO WAIT UNTILL YOU BOTH GOT MARRIED TO HAVE SEX OR MAKE LOVE, AND SHE TAKES A BREAK AND HAS SEX WITH A FRIEND OF HER....NOT GOOD NOT GOOD.
WHY WAIT FOR HER. I MEAN WHEN YOU GUYS WERE APART FOR 3 WEEKS AND SHE FOUND SOMEONE TO TICKLE HER FUNNY BONE AND NOW SHE IS GOING TO BE APART FROM YOU FOR 5 MONTH AND YOU THINK SHE IS GOING TO BE FAITHFULL???
AM SORRY BUT SHE HAS NO RESPECT FOR YOU AND YOU MY FRIEND SHOULD NOT WAIT FOR HER.
SOME ONE OUT THERE IS WAITING FOR YOU, SHE IS NOT THE ONE FOR YOU.
2007-01-19 09:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by ââ¢Â¥*~áƦ~NYSunrise~áƦ~*ââ¢Â¥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends...do you feel you can trust her? If you don't think you can...5 months is a long time. I'd reccomend you move on. If you really want to give it a try...communication is key. You need to keep the lines of communication open as much as possible. Good luck either way :)
2007-01-19 17:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by tuxgal3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't trust her anymore, which is understandable after what happened, which is no way for a relationship to be. I think you should move on - if she comes back and you guys decide to get back together (if you're single) then so be it. But I wouldn't wait for her
2007-01-19 17:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by ForeverAnAngel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
O My!I don't think she loved you,if she went out and had sex with her friend...thats just shaddy.She's prolly still friend with the guy as in friend's with benefits.I would just let her go you are young there will be others...it would be hard to be without her 5months.It is a big trust issue.If u have love and faith go for it!
2007-01-19 17:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by alientwilight21 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why would you want to be her #2
move on you will be better off
2007-01-19 17:10:09 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋