When I'm by people i just freeze and i have no idea wat to say to them dats a reason y people @ my school think im antisocial or borin and they end up not tlkin to me. I lose alot of friends dat way but i dont do it purposelly could some1 help please
2007-01-19 09:09:02 · 11 answers · asked by CooCoo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It couldn't be because you have no concept of the English language, could it?
2007-01-19 09:14:58 · answer #1 · answered by mistresscris 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
u are a school student.I think u are a girl.
First of all its not necessary to start a conversation.
Just try to be an active and intelligent part of all types of on going conversations.Give ur comments and try to speak with ur general and educational knowledge.
Once u develope enough courage and practice to conversation, you won't need any advice how to start a conversation.U yourself will do that
Girls in schools may have the following topics to discuss in which u cannot say anything:
Hottest topic is boys.
Next are movies, songs,other girls, other school and school and other books.Latest news.may be some sports.and all these daily things.
Start reading good books, newspapers.Eat good and healthy food.Watch news channels on TV.Watch nice movies.Thats it.
You will then speak what you read, see and think.
U r not boring.Develope enough courage.self motivate yourself.U can do it
2007-01-25 18:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there were some sporting events the previous day, ask who won and just start talking about it, or teachers, and cafeteria food. Just whatever that isn't boring and that people have lots of different opinions on. I used to go through the same thing, just take step by step and you will have nothing to worry about. Trust me, just be yourself and start at the bottom of the social chain, and work your way up. It won't hurt to make a fool of yourself once in a while either.
2007-01-25 12:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Observe your environment and make random comments about it. At first, things may seem really akward, but you will get the hang of it if you continue to practice. Speak to all different kinds of people as well. You know, different races, ages, gender, etc..... This will give you visatility:)
2007-01-27 06:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem.....its causing alot of problems with it cuz my bf thinks i hate his fam just because it takes me a while to get use to talking to people. its like a curse i swear!
2007-01-26 14:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by n&z-mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Celebrities such as David Beckam and his wealth
2007-01-26 21:10:21 · answer #6 · answered by nico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first say your greeting and here are some topics!
1 any latest gossip from the school
2 admire there clothes ask were they got it from
3 the death of gerald ford or james brown
4 break ups and hookups
5 how expensive nordstroms was
6 how boring the homework was
etc etc hope this helps! = )
2007-01-19 09:15:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
give them a complment or say the lates style
2007-01-26 08:30:56 · answer #8 · answered by Araceli H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people like to talk about themselves so try asking whomever you're talking to, something about themselves.
2007-01-27 04:15:39 · answer #9 · answered by Eli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try a comliment on their outfit or jewelry or hair. always works to make new friends.
2007-01-19 09:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋