Family & Relationships - 19 January 2007

A lot of women I know, say their husbands didn't want to get married at first but later said they were glad they did. Is this the norm for men? If they say they don't want to, but marry anyway,does this prove they really love her? Men, your response would be appreciated.

2007-01-19 08:29:31 · 10 answers · asked by kirbi s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

besides imvu, or runescape

2007-01-19 08:29:04 · 1 answers · asked by gelcoolgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I submit that monogamy is when you have only one partner ( sexual) your entire life, yes, just one, hence "MONO" So if you have had, in your entire life, more than one sexual partner, you cannot make a claim to be monogamous....

2007-01-19 08:28:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

which is these best to date and why?

2007-01-19 08:28:00 · 14 answers · asked by johnny boy rebel 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been living w/my bf for a year, love him w/all my heart. This past week I was contacted by a girl who claims to have slept with him and has been seeing him. She knew a few things only someone close to him would know. A lot of other things don't make sense. She contradicted herself a lot. She won't meet with me or talk to me on the phone. All of the info she gave me was old stuff that I knew about from before we were together including the few personal things about him. Said she has been seeing him for a while (known him from before we were together) but hasn't seen him since early October or talked (email) since late November. Doesn't remember how long ago they had sex only was a while ago. Said only has his Myspace site as point of contact. I know he has some crazy ex's. Maybe one of them is trying to start things? His friends talk about how psycho they are. A kinda recent incident has my trust in him shaky to start. I KNOW if I ask he will deny. WWYD? How would you handle?

2007-01-19 08:27:03 · 13 answers · asked by nikipowpezz 2 in Singles & Dating

Men if you met a women you liked for all the things you look for and she appears to be the one, so to speak. If you found that she choses a career that gives her high job satisfaction but a lower end income, would you change your mind about wanting her?

2007-01-19 08:26:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yeah well after a long while of debating whether i should break up with him or not ive decided that if i was thinking about it this much, somethings not going right and it needs to end.. we havent been going out for long but he said he loved me on the second date..i said it back to him but didnt mean it..we've been going out for about two months and we go to school together, im still kind of new at this whole thing, im 15 and so is he but i know this doesnt feel right,i dunno i just dont really enjoy the time i spend with him, i dont feel i connect with him, and i just want it to end but i dont want to hurt him.. some words of advice or good things or ways to say please? any previous experiences that went well and how you handled it? im open for anything.
i've arranged to meet with him tomorrow, and im sort of...terrified, words dont come to me easily

2007-01-19 08:26:40 · 7 answers · asked by gg 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 08:26:05 · 7 answers · asked by PT G 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like my boyfriend he asked me to have sex with him! But the only problem I have is that I don't know how to have sex! I know that sounds crazy can someone tell me how and fast he keeps asking me II am hot is what he says but I don't want to finally say yes and not know how to have sex and be embrassed in bed! Please help All Help Needed!

2007-01-19 08:24:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Question Details: You have a great guy, but are afraid of losing a good thing, but you feel you need to go out and see what's out there. What did you do? Did you move on to fulfill urges or to find better or found better while in the relationship? Are you happy with your decision?

2007-01-19 08:24:37 · 14 answers · asked by Need Answers 4 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy I know had given me one tutoring session, and he's always asking me if I would like to sign up for more, but I told him I was going through financail difficualty and couldn't so he offered me a follow up free sessions, he said he has that diecreation who he wants to give one too, so he seen me, and told me to call hm for the free follow up session, but I never did so he txt messaged me at night at 12:00 midnight asking me if I wanted to come in too see in for the tutoring session on tueday at 9 and I told him i let him know. but then he called me a few days later, out of the clear blue, but didn't leave a message, And I'm thinking didn't he tell me to let him know when I was available so why is he calling me?Can Anyone tell me what the deal is?Am I not communicating myself clearly enough?

2007-01-19 08:24:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

=*( What do i do! I wanna cry!

2007-01-19 08:24:28 · 3 answers · asked by TakenByHim21 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has joint custody of his two children. The mother left CA to AZ to avoid childs support. Five years later, my husband files for child support, and this summer will be 3 years since she last saw her two kids.Child support finally caught up with her- and now she is paying. Granted, most people pay more that $200/month- because that is all she pays. We were recently informed that she will be getting kicked out of her rented home at the end of this month. She claimed that she can not afford child support, and asked my husband if he can take it away. She has been uninvolved in the kids lives. She also has a husaband, and four more children. In an event she were to get kicked out, what is the likelyhood of my husband getting sole custody his two children? She can barely afford her four children now, and I know she will not be able to provide shelter, food, medical or whater the children need. How can we convince the judge?

2007-01-19 08:24:12 · 7 answers · asked by CuriousMama 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Any tips on kissing well/

2007-01-19 08:23:52 · 9 answers · asked by John K 1 in Singles & Dating

Make sense of all of it .I was freaked but now today i fear nothing anymore but the LordI love,life,my girl my friends

2007-01-19 08:23:46 · 1 answers · asked by walter_nahbexie 2 in Singles & Dating

mine is when i was like 1 and i remember my sister on a white horse in the isles of white, random i no

2007-01-19 08:22:23 · 5 answers · asked by lucylu152 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

when your girlfriend is cheating on you?

2007-01-19 08:20:59 · 5 answers · asked by Derek. 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 08:20:45 · 41 answers · asked by twisted angel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know that Y answers isn't the best place for advice, but sometimes strangers help more than loved ones. I'm so unhappy in my relationship, but I don't want to end it. We've been together for about 7 months, but she shows virtually no affection; furthermore, she seems so outgoing and fun around others but quiet and introverted around me. I asked her what I can do to be a better man, and she said that the thought of me brings a smile to her face and that she is happy. She says that meeting me was like angels coming down from heaven, but she NEVER shows love for me. She seems cold. Sometimes, I'll mention something in e-mail for instance about how I feel about her, and she won't respond. She'll act like I didn't even say it. She is so guarded. She has been hurt in the past and has a beautiful daughter. I've fallen in love with both her and her daughter. Her behavior pushes me away, and I'm insecure as it is. It just makes me feel more insecure. Advice?

2007-01-19 08:19:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Cheating is when you look over someone's shoulder for a test answer, or when you take too many mulligans on the golf course. Infidelity isn't such a bad thing. who says monogamy is the best way to go anyway?

2007-01-19 08:19:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you don't have to be married to love someone. It could be a best friend, a son or daughter,a wife or husband, or anybody you love.if you truly love someone,why or how can you say something to hurt that person very deeply. something that person may never get over or forget.

2007-01-19 08:19:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When they have nothing else to come back with as an insult

All they ever say is something about a mans penis size.when their mad at a man.{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{They may not even know how big it is but they call you peewee and yee of small penis and blank like that
Is this only insult they know.Or the other one I like .]]]]]]]]] I only date black men}}} That is an insult or so they think too a white guy. Me my self I can't stand white women and care less if they dated a gorrilla in zimbobway.

2007-01-19 08:19:17 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there's a guy who i've liked for a long time. last night, he kissed me. well, it wasn't really what i expected.....basically, to descibe it, it was like he was choking me...because it was in that sort of way, do you think he actually does like me or just felt like doing that? i'm confused....

2007-01-19 08:18:40 · 7 answers · asked by Laura 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 08:18:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have recently decided to forget about a huge ceremony right now, and to go away in March. We are from Springfield, MO. But, I read that there is a waiting period in Missouri, and you need to apply for a liscense a month in advance. So, we were planning on going to Eureka Springs, Arkansas to get married. Can we just get in the car and go, or what do we need to do first?

2007-01-19 08:18:08 · 8 answers · asked by Autumn 3 in Weddings

i think that one would be when i took my sister and my husbent out to eat me an my sister thought it wold be funny to act like we both where married to my husbend AKA (PLIGAMEST)
an everyone was looking at her kind of funny an she sliped an all her food went all over her the hole place seen her fall.
as for my husbend every guy in there told him good job for getting 2 wife's i never seen his face so red before.

2007-01-19 08:18:04 · 1 answers · asked by SGT SEXY MAMA 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do you married men do it? Being with the same woman night after night?

2007-01-19 08:17:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why do most men answer these relationship questions with "you aren't having enough sex'' "how is the sex" "you need to give it up more"..Do men really think that's constructive? Do you all really think sex is the answer to everything in the world???

2007-01-19 08:17:32 · 19 answers · asked by Barb 3 in Marriage & Divorce

She left me and now says she loves me and misses me but cannot live with me as we argue too much.. I love her so much but when I push she pulls. So I went quiet for a month and when I don't contact her she asks if I am seeing someone else.. neither of us are. Anyway when I give reasons to get back she will re iterate we argue too much or the other reason that it wouldn't be fair for us to be walking on egg shells around eachother if we got back?? She has thought (she says) of coming back but then finds a reason not to. Usually the fear we will argue. We didn't argue that much just quite badly in our last 3 months as I had a lot of stress at work and stuff... What the heck do I do. I really love her and feel re vitalised and better for the split but want her so much.. Any advice??

2007-01-19 08:17:30 · 12 answers · asked by Jason E 1 in Singles & Dating

I talking and meeting someone through messenger and I live in Puerto Rico and he lives in Dominican Republic.He tells me that he loves me and that likes me and sincerely im starting to feel something for him but I have been hurt a lot of time and im scared that he would hourt me or be one of those psychos of the internet,so I don't know what to do,so please help me.

2007-01-19 08:17:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating