Why do most men answer these relationship questions with "you aren't having enough sex'' "how is the sex" "you need to give it up more"..Do men really think that's constructive? Do you all really think sex is the answer to everything in the world???
2007-01-19 08:17:32 · 19 answers · asked by Barb 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't have a problem with sex. I enjoy a healthy sex life..My point is why is it always all about SEX with guys..all roads lead to sex, and all answers are sex. Try again!
2007-01-19 08:28:54 · update #1
Not all men are but many will. even if they are not so sexual in their own relationships it is an ego thing. a YALE poll showed that 77% of all men will have an opinion about sex that are lacking sexual encounters more so than men who are highly sexually active. So the keynote here is, if you ask a relationship question and get a sexually based answer this is more likely to mean he/she isn't very sexually active.
2007-01-19 08:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the reason we ask or bring up the sex question is because to us men that is usually the base of all the troubles in our relationships/marriages. You may think it is only because we have filthy minds and want to hear details about your sex life, while we are really trying to help you with your problem. If women could understand that we relate "sex" with love, I figure that there would be less divorces.
2007-01-19 17:45:55 · answer #2 · answered by Archangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once again the generalizations.
I could ask why do 'most' women use sex as leverage against men?
I once heard that women see sex as a means to an end and men see sex as the ends.
Maybe you could look at it differently .
Instead of thinking of men as sex crazed maybe you could learn something about men's makeup.
Yes sex IS important hello!
One of the first signs of a failing relationship manifests in the bed.
It is a survival instinct that up until now how ensured the survival of our species. Not a trifling matter miss.
Men are simple.
Women tend to complicate the simple.
it's basic. If the sex sucks then it means something else is amiss.
2007-01-19 16:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Unfortunately men were born with TWO HEADS.And unfortunately 98% of the men in this world think with the WRONG one.But there is 2% of us that do use the correct head when it is needed.Now don't get me wrong I LOVE BEING WITH A WOMAN.But it is not the first/for most thought in my HEAD,neither one of them.My numbers might be off a little but I don't think that it's by much.I make no apologizes for the men that don't use the correct head at the correct time.I can only hope that they learn from their mistakes and GROW UP!!
2007-01-19 20:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex may not be the answer, but it makes for good question and exclamation.
There is gonna come a time when men may not ask you for sex anymore, specifically you own husband then what?
With respect to gay men, would you feel better if all of us men in here answer or solicited sex from only each other? I am a man and I am suppose to like women to include wanting to have sex with them.
Welcome to the real world of adulthood.
2007-01-19 16:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its all about biological perogitives. Men want to spread their genes around by copulating with as many women as they can. Women want the best genes and they want to hold on to them forever and not share them with anyone else. So yeah, men think more about sex and it is more important to them. Men have a sex drive like nothing you can comprehend. Obviously if you are asking this then sex is more obligatory to you than a healthy and meaningful part of your life. The part of a man's brain that governs sex drive compels him to think and do certain things. It is then the responsibility of the man to excercise self control when he has these feelings. If you do not understand what I mean then you will never understand men unless you marry one with low testosterone who has no sex drive. But then if he has no sex drive he probably wont sweep you off your feet exactly because his motivation to secure you as partner will be limited. Its a catch-22 baby.
2007-01-19 16:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by kmankman4321 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately men were given 2 heads and not enough blood to run both at the same time. When the little head takes it's share of blood the big head just can't think straight. It not that we men are allo pigs, it's just the way we're made.
2007-01-19 16:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by Jerry` G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is because they think about sex every 5 seconds so it comes out in every thing.
2007-01-19 21:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes men do think that SEX is the answer to all problems...
and for them, this is indeed true
2007-01-19 16:23:35 · answer #9 · answered by sunbun 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me??
That's all they think about!!
life as they know it would come to an end if they didn't have sex!!
2007-01-19 16:27:02 · answer #10 · answered by ahg30 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋